If you fit the outlier type and experience depressive bouts PLEASE LISTEN!!

Understand the psychodynamics of depressive experiences as an Outlier

Get a handle on the process that ends in an depressive mood

Understand the core problem and reaction to that problem

Know how to stop the cycle

Questions are the basis of inquiry into all things yet the type of questioning matters

Learn what to replace it with and how a different question styles anchors the Outlier deeper into life

Learn why the question WHY? should be avoided for the Outlier

Learn what this does to an Outliers thinking in a negative way

Learn what to replace it with and how to know yourself better

It only takes a few sessions before my client says 'Can you talk to my other half please' hahaha

Here are the top 6 elements to be aware of if you're dating an outlier.

Outliers try their best to be all things to all people, what can result from this is large amounts of internal pressure.

People can become very attached to the outlier type and with this attachment comes the feeling of pressure and expectation to always be available.

Due to the natural tendency for the Outlier to hold many things in mind at once - extra pressure of expectations from others feel very HEAVY 

Outliers are great at creating demand for themselves, the cost is keeping up with expectations!

People love being around outliers, Outliers have a natural tendency to be very welcoming BUT the slight adjustment to others builds expectations in others.

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Why the outlier brain is more like a steam train than anything else 

Why stimulants work differently for the outlier.

How to use stimulants as an outlier 

The negative effects of stimulation an the outlier brain 

The goal of using no stimulants at all

Do not try and plan or stay organised how others want you to, it wont work long term

Learn why the outlier brain does things in random order

Learn the social implications and how to work with it

Must communicate why you do things a certain way so pay attention to your patterns

It can be very frustrating wanting help with your internal world but when you sit in front of an 'expert' you already know they won't  be able to keep up. Sometimes you might  even be able to anticipate what they re going to say.

In this episode I explain why and what to look out for in a the  right person for you.

Just listen to it - its solid 

Move beyond the cycle into stability through regulating 'hyper-optimism'

The outlier physiology is unique! It has been forced to normalise to stress hormones.

In this episode I explain how this physiology plays out in behaviour, goal setting, risky behaviour and general life flow.

The internal world of an Outlier is normal to them but intense to a normal brain.

Finally I summarise the cycle of intensity and the addiction to stress as fuel or achievement 

Enjoy.

1. Outliers are products of adaption and psychological habits.

2. Why can things go well but we feel bad?

3. Big life events ( painful and productive) only leave in 3 locations post event .

4. Consciousness will do whatever you tell it, tell it something for long enough and no matter what happens you will find yourself in the same internal position.

5. Why positive, life supporting emotions may actually feel unsafe in you at the deepest level.