It's your anniversary, if you're not married, then it's your best friends birthday. It's an event for the person you absolutely care about the most. Your friend or partner has a favorite dessert. For the sake of this convo let's assume it's vegan. Don't fix up your face; it's about your friend, not you. Ok now back to the story.
Your partner's event is on Monday you're able to make it to the bakery on Friday. When you get to the bakery, you realize you actually know the owner. You explain to her that you need a special Vegan cake. She responds that she has one left and can have it delivered on the Monday before the event. But she also gives you another option. She offers to come by Saturday and teach you how to make the cake yourself. It will take a few hours, but she's positive she can show you how to make the cake. You appreciate the offer but tell her it would take too long to learn how to make the cake so to have it delivered.
Monday comes, the big day!! The bakery shows up with their last available Vegan Cake that you know will make the event a smash! On the way up the stairs, the cake gets dropped and destroyed.
You got the cake you reached your goal, but you never learned how to achieve it. It seemed like it would have taken longer to learn how to make the cake but now with the cake destroyed the bakery can't get another cake until Wednesday. If you learned how to make the cake, you had enough time to get the ingredients and make it before the event. The process just seems more prolonged, but trust me it's not.