Love by Design

Overcoming Fear in Dating


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As we’re hosting our free 3-part live video training, “Attract Your Man,” I'm aware that so many women want to find love but something gets in their way.

Most likely that something is FEAR. 

Fear of putting yourself out there.

Fear of being rejected.

Fear of getting hurt (again).

Am I right? 

And I totally get it. Your mind is trying to protect you. 

It seems to be logical and rational.

But here’s what I want you to consider:

Your fear is not a good reason to not put yourself out there and meet new men. One of them may be your soulmate!

The truth is your fear is not going to go away anytime soon.

So, why not face your fear and then decide to do something differently?

Because there’s only one guaranteed way to fail in love: to stay in a place of fear.

But there are millions of ways to find love: to take new, inspired action.

Open yourself to the possibility of love.

Give yourself (and your soulmate) a chance to meet and create your love story.

That’s exactly what I want for you and why I created this new episode # 🎙️ “Overcoming Fear in Dating.”

Click here to listen to this podcast now.

In this week’s episode, you’re about to discover:

  • What fear really is (your brain won’t like hearing it)
  • What should a single cavewoman do when there are lions out there?
  • The real reason you stay in a place of inaction
  • The most important questions to ask yourself 
  • The number #1 skill to develop so that you can overcome fear 
  • A confidence-building exercise that overcomes fear and creates intimacy
  • How to overcome fear so that it no longer runs your life
  • How to start dating again—despite feeling the fear
  • What it really means when you say, “I’m not ready to date”
  • The hidden cost of allowing fear to control you 
  • What’s possible on the other side of overcoming fear

Here are a few gold nuggets from this episode: 

“The truth is that whatever you are afraid of is a fear of being rejected, a fear of being hurt, a fear of being judged and so on. The truth is that none of these fears will go away any time soon.”

“The only way you can fail in love is if you don't take action, and don't put yourself out there. And there are millions of different ways to find love, to take a new and inspired action and to open yourself to the possibility of love.”

“Fear is a natural part of the human experience, and it is not going away. Let's just accept that it exists. Let's acknowledge where it is, or rather, let's make space to feel what it's like.”

“When you become unstoppable, you can accomplish anything. As long as you're willing to feel that fear, know that it's going to be there, don't fight it, and just go with it, there's no way you won't be in your dream relationship or meet an incredible guy.”

“This is your ultimate personal freedom: to create anything you want, to create the future, and to create relationships that have never existed before, when you choose consciously to not let fear-based thoughts stop you from moving forward.”

“Fear will always be your worst advisor. And there is only one way to overcome fear: accept it, embrace it, and go for it anyway. Because you are the creator of your own life. This is your love life by design; you are in charge, and you have the power and energy to create whatever you want.”

Polina

If you’re ready to take the first step to overcome your fear, I invite you to do it right now. 

Join our free 3-part live video training, “Attract Your Man,” where I give you the entire blueprint for how to elevate your energy and your vibration, and how to begin to step into this new and different future.

Click here to register now!

I'll share my entire blueprint for how you can get into an easy relationship and finally attract your ideal type of man.

I can't wait to see you there.

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