The Life Shift

Overcoming Perfectionism and People-Pleasing | Maggie Maris


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In this episode, Maggie Maris, a mental wellness and positivity expert, discusses her transformational journey from grappling with learning difficulties, self-doubt, and perfectionism to ultimately finding her path to happiness. Maggie shares her personal experiences that shaped her life, offering insights that are both heartfelt and inspirational.

Major Takeaways:

  • Learning Difficulties and the Pitfalls of Perfectionism: Maggie talks about her struggles in school due to undiagnosed dyslexia and ADHD, which led to feelings of inadequacy. This resulted in a harmful pattern of perfectionism and people-pleasing as she constantly sought external validation.
  • The Descent into Depression: A combination of personal struggles, challenging childbirth, the death of her father, and the pressures of planning a perfect wedding led Maggie into a severe depression. She discusses the impact of suppressing her feelings and the significance of sharing her experiences.
  • The Journey to Self-Discovery and Recovery: Maggie shares her brave decision to stop her medication, marking a turning point in her life. Despite the struggles, her journey is a testament to resilience, growth, and the pursuit of happiness.

    Meet Maggie Maris – a mental wellness and positivity expert in the Netherlands. After years of battling depression and burnout, she embarked on a transformative journey that led her to the realization that our thoughts dictate our emotions. She shares her inspiration and practical tools in her book, MY JOURNAL: By Finding Yourself, You Find Your Happiness.

    https://en.maggiesway.nl/links

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