Talking with single women every day, I hear so many stories of women who want to find the love of their life but aren’t dating.

They share that they don’t feel confident about putting themselves out there—especially, after taking a long break from dating.

They are trying to hide, and continue telling themselves why NOW isn’t the “right” time for dating, why they’re “too busy” to date or why it’s going to be a waste of time. 

Have you ever wondered what’s underneath those reasons?

Self-doubt.

When you say, “there are no quality men out there,” it seems that you doubt the outside world, when in fact what you really doubt is yourself and your ability to attract a quality man. 

Here’s the good news:

You can build self-confidence by overcoming self-doubt. 

This exactly what I’m sharing in today’s episode Love by Design podcast #73🎙️ Overcoming Self-Doubt in Dating.

In this week’s episode, you’re about to discover:

✨ Why confident women seem to not doubt themselves 

✨The cost of allowing self-doubt to determine your thoughts, decisions and choices and how to minimize it

✨How your thoughts can breed self-doubt and how to handle that

✨The most powerful shift in perspective you can make every time you face self-doubt

Click here to listen to this podcast now.

Here are a few gold nuggets from this episode: 

“When you make a decision based on the past, which has nothing to do with the future, that's already a recipe for failure, because you won't be able to find a reference for success in your past, and because what you want to create is completely unique.”

“So, when you decide to leave your comfort zone and try something new and different, something that will test you, you will undoubtedly experience self-doubt. It's completely normal; in fact, it's a sign that you're maturing and progressing to the next level.”

“Choose to design your love life from a place that already exists in the realm of possibilities in the future. It's not something you've done before. It is entirely possible and available to you. And the only thing standing in your way is your own doubt. You can develop into this amazing future version of yourself, with your soulmate right by your side, knowing you're completely loving and deserving.”

“Consider your feelings about meeting your person. If you fight, if your thoughts are like, ‘I'm not attracted to anyone, it's a terrible quality of man on online dating sites, a total waste of time.’ If those are your thoughts and you believe it's impossible, all of that is the result of self-doubt. That is absolutely untrue. And as long as you believe that this is how things are, and that this is the truth as your reality, and you're not seeing them as ‘this is just my self-doubt thinking,’ you'll be stuck in the same place, nothing will change, and you won't be able to meet anyone.”

“So what's really going on here is that your self-doubt about your ability to attract high-quality men is hiding behind this belief. It's your doubt that you'll meet the right person.”

—Polina

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