When you've been hurt, what kind of character will you be?
God gives you hardship as a Storyteller does: because readers love what happens when a character is down but finds a way to get back up;Remember that it's in the cellars of affliction that God makes his choicest wines (Rutherford);Be at once tender and merciless with your own victimhood;Stop assuming nobody else at church has the dark backstory of trauma and abuse that you do.Take heart from Grandpa Jim, who used to "get chose" to fight the bullies every day after school.What kind of wine will you be?