Our House with The Smylies

Overscheduling Is Quietly Disconnecting Your Family (Here's What to Do)


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Do you ever feel like your family is constantly running from one activity to the next and you can't remember the last time you all actually sat down together? Your schedule might be the thing silently destroying your family's connection.

This episode unpacks how the overscheduled family trap steals your connection and what you can do this week to start getting it back. From rethinking club sports to protecting family dinner to turning your daily car ride into the most important 15 minutes of your day, this conversation will change how you look at your calendar.


0:48 - Welcome to Our House

1:37 - How the overscheduled trap starts

7:48 - Why we chose one sport and one instrument

10:30 - Protecting family dinner and the Happy Crappy ritual

17:10 - No devices at the table and what to do instead

18:18 - Adding faith to your family routines

21:13 - Turning car rides into real connection

23:41 - Daily prayer with your kids on the way to school

30:07 - Why your marriage can't wait for the schedule to slow down

31:31 - Date nights and the shared family calendar

39:42 - The Faith-Filled Family Meeting framework

46:02 - How to get started with the free guide

50:45 - You don't have to change everything at once


FREE RESOURCE Download the Faith-Filled Family Meeting Startup Guide for free at ourhouse.faith. It walks you through a simple weekly meeting that keeps your family connected and your schedule in check.

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ABOUT OUR HOUSE We're Jason and Malia, married parents of four boys. We help families build the rhythms and rituals to bring God to the center of their home. Everything we share comes from our own living room, not a textbook. This podcast is for any family that's tired of surviving and ready to start thriving together.


LISTEN TO THE FULL SERIES This is Episode 2 in our series on the 5 Silent Killers of a Peaceful Home, our original framework called SAFES: Spiritual Misalignment, Avoiding Issues, Financial Separation, Emotional Disconnection, and Scheduling Chaos.


Episode 1: The 5 Silent Killers of a Peaceful Home (Be Emotionally Intimate with Your Spouse) Upcoming: Avoiding Issues, Financial Separation, and Spiritual Misalignment

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Our House with The SmyliesBy Jason Smylie and Malia Smylie