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Own and Recognize Your Contribution in Relationship Failures with AJ Grossman - Episode 279
Episode 279 is about knowing your why.
Commitment is the single most important key to a successful relationship. With a background in business administration and information technology, AJ Grossman now practices law as a result of an internal force - his calling. He knows what he wants from life: to help people turn around their marriage for the better so that kids can grow up with happy parents.
In a marriage, there needs to be an equal balance between both partners. Otherwise, the marriage will fail. However, if you know what you want from this relationship from the start—that may help you decide whether or not to stay. It's vital that people can take care of themselves first before they are able to take care of others.
Do you want to know your why? Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to find yourself. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:04:45 AJ's story
00:08:33 I felt like I fit
00:12:28 How are we going to separate ourselves
00:12:51 Going with the flow of things
00:16:50 Idea on marriage
00:17:20 Getting married too young
00:17:49 Core values
00:19:24 Recognizing your own contribution to a failed relationship
00:21:01 Lenses we look at the world through
00:21:50 Every failed relationship is an opportunity
00:26:43 Cheating doesnt have to end in divorce
00:29:26 Seeking opportunities
00:31:00 Adverse childhood experiences
00:34:01 Getting married later in life
00:36:18 Stale marriages
00:40:29 Distractions in marriage
00:43:44 Fear of the unknown
00:44:17 Using marriage as identity
00:46:08 Self worth and esteem in marriage
00:48:39 Doing things to fit in vs align with purpose
00:50:18 Aligning with the true you
00:52:38 Victims picking themselves up after divorce and thriving
00:54:01 Victimhood is self created
00:56:06 How do you know divorce is most serving
01:03:53 Holding your standards too high
01:06:54 Marriage vs partnership
Connect with Guest
❤️ Website: https://www.leapfrogdivorce.com/
📚LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ajgrossmaniii/
Connect with Ian Lobas & the Men on Purpose podcast:
CONNECT WITH US:
EMAIL: [email protected]
WEBSITE: https://ianlobas.com/
FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themenonpurposecommunity
FOLLOW US ON:
INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/menonpurposepodcast/
FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/MenOnPurposePodcast/
LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianrlobas/
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLRr94kEsddMBWz9fArFP2w
#purpose #divorce #marriage
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Episode 279 is about knowing your why.
Commitment is the single most important key to a successful relationship. With a background in business administration and information technology, AJ Grossman now practices law as a result of an internal force - his calling. He knows what he wants from life: to help people turn around their marriage for the better so that kids can grow up with happy parents.
In a marriage, there needs to be an equal balance between both partners. Otherwise, the marriage will fail. However, if you know what you want from this relationship from the start—that may help you decide whether or not to stay. It's vital that people can take care of themselves first before they are able to take care of others.
Do you want to know your why? Our Men on Purpose community can help you with how to find yourself. Follow us on this journey at https://ianlobas.com/podcast/
Quick Timestamps
00:04:45 AJ's story
00:08:33 I felt like I fit
00:12:28 How are we going to separate ourselves
00:12:51 Going with the flow of things
00:16:50 Idea on marriage
00:17:20 Getting married too young
00:17:49 Core values
00:19:24 Recognizing your own contribution to a failed relationship
00:21:01 Lenses we look at the world through
00:21:50 Every failed relationship is an opportunity
00:26:43 Cheating doesnt have to end in divorce
00:29:26 Seeking opportunities
00:31:00 Adverse childhood experiences
00:34:01 Getting married later in life
00:36:18 Stale marriages
00:40:29 Distractions in marriage
00:43:44 Fear of the unknown
00:44:17 Using marriage as identity
00:46:08 Self worth and esteem in marriage
00:48:39 Doing things to fit in vs align with purpose
00:50:18 Aligning with the true you
00:52:38 Victims picking themselves up after divorce and thriving
00:54:01 Victimhood is self created
00:56:06 How do you know divorce is most serving
01:03:53 Holding your standards too high
01:06:54 Marriage vs partnership
Connect with Guest
❤️ Website: https://www.leapfrogdivorce.com/
📚LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ajgrossmaniii/
Connect with Ian Lobas & the Men on Purpose podcast:
CONNECT WITH US:
EMAIL: [email protected]
WEBSITE: https://ianlobas.com/
FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themenonpurposecommunity
FOLLOW US ON:
INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/menonpurposepodcast/
FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/MenOnPurposePodcast/
LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianrlobas/
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLRr94kEsddMBWz9fArFP2w
#purpose #divorce #marriage