My light came back after 44 days, I’m a wedding guest this weekend, and I’m doing ‘December’ in Lagos.

All I’ll say: plant a garden.

In this episode I talk about how excited I am for my Lagos trip, and how the government almost forced a pastry maker out of me.

Poverty increases daily in Nigeria, and desperation with it.

I talk about getting an email that’s been due for eight years, among other things.

I talk about my frustrations as a Nigerian living in Nigeria, who may finally lean in to the ‘japa’ temptation.

My husband and I talk about love languages, a blown transformer, and “God said”.

My toxic trait is thinking I can make perfect puff puff without practice (I failed). I have a trade fair to attend this weekend, plus I’m hosting guests.

I talk about the transitions from single to married and from Abuja to Port Harcourt, and how lost I’ve felt sometimes.

Earlier today, I felt like I was fraudulent in referring to myself as a creative. Listen to know why, and what I did to deal with it.