Everything is not always what it seems.That is: Before you judge someone, get to know them. You might be surprised. Me? I was born in Bakersfield, California, in 1970. I was part of a set of fraternal twins with my sister. Unlike my sister who was born healthy and able to go home, I was born premature. I was in an incubator hooked up to sensors and tools to keep me alive. I was also born with asthma and allergies to everything, most of which could kill me, since they could cause an asthma attack.