Having limited perception you pass judgement on each situation above. God, Who sees the whole thing —past, present and future—doesn’t.

Isn’t that interesting?

So it is your judgement, your interpretation that defines the above scenarios as good or bad. This brings up a very useful point: every
experience you have can be summed up this way:

” —excerpt from ”Awaken To Who You Are”

https://selfdiscoverywisdom.com/2014/09/08/p1437a-awaken-to-who-you-are/