Listen in as Lucy and Danielle recap their inaugural season of the pod, share what they have been reading/watching/listening to, talk about their personal summer plans, and discuss what's next for PYSWYTF. Thank you all for listening to and supporting this show! We can't wait to come back with more episodes, more Housewives, and more drinks! 

Mentioned in this episode: Brené Brown: Atlas Of The Heart (HBO Max); The Imperfect Person Podcast with Tory Eletto @nytherapist

Do you believe in second chances? Lucy and Danielle explore this question by getting into one of their favorite topics: the Real Housewives. In this episode they talk spin-offs, sequels, crossovers, housewife returns, and if housewives can get redemption after being fired. Even Shrek gets brought up. It's another weekday treat for you!

Lucy and Danielle get into one of their favorite topics: public health. In this 101 discussion, they get into a breadth of public health issues, discuss why these issues matter, and determine what they hope the future of healthcare in the US will look like.

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They say those who can't do, teach so in this episode Danielle and Lucy will tap into their family and friends' wisdom to explore the best and worst advice that everyone has received around dating. Recorded during hot girl summer, both single girls try to make sense of all this advice and their goals for carefree dating in their twenties. Have you received really great or really terrible dating advice? We would love to hear it!

Recorded on 5/27/2021.

As two healthcare consultants, Danielle and Lucy try their hand at the age old question, "what is consulting?" They also talk a little about the work they do, how they got into their roles, best work advice, workplace allyship, and salary negotiation skills. With a recent job switch, Danielle gives you all the scoop on landing a new role, especially in times of remote work (hint: LinkedIn tips and tricks galore). 

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Recorded 11/10/2021

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In this episode, Lucy and Danielle draw on their own experiences moving back home at different points in their twenties to discuss what it was really like, what they learned as a result, and ultimately decide if they would do it again. Throughout they drop gems, have a few laughs, and really reflect on how culture played into their decision. 

Recorded 3/27/21

Most of us have spent a lot of time this past year alone, in the house, and reflecting. If you are like both of us, you have been able to use some of this time away from the hustle and bustle to try to ask yourself some tough questions. In this episode, Danielle and Lucy take time to explore some of these questions, including: what does it mean to be genuine? When you are alone, do you like who you are? When do you know you are being your genuine self? Danielle and Lucy both offer helpful tips and tactics for doing this work.

recorded on 4/21/21

Helpful Therapist Databases:

Therapy for Black Girls - hundreds of providers on here, plus they have a podcast!

HealHaus - NYC, Brooklyn-specific but has some awesome mental health resources and therapists

Psychology Today - huge database, but might be more helpful for finding someone with insurance

Brown Girl Therapy - mental health for first and second gen immigrants, but all are welcome; here's their therapist database

Open Path Collective  - affordable therapy options

Inclusive Therapists - culturally responsive therapists with MANY options. Also has a “Get Matched” option if sorting through names is overwhelming!

BetterHelp is a great, more affordable, virtual option if finding a person and sorting through insurance is not ideal

Therapy for Black Men: overlap with some of the resources above, but more specific!

National Queer and Trans Therapists of Color Network

Mentioned in the episode: @nytherapist, @sistersvillage

Air fryers, astrology, yoga, spinning, spirituality, and more. Danielle and Lucy dig into a bunch of hot trends right now and try to decide if these will last or not.

Fitness: Pop Sugar Fitness on YouTube 

Candles: @Harlemcandlecompany; @thealexandrawinbush; @isabisllc

Astrology: CoStar App; @chaninicholas

Recorded 4/20/21

In this episode, Danielle and Lucy investigate fuckboy representation in media through a few case studies including Dennis and Ralph from Real Housewives of Atlanta, Lawerence, Nathan, and Chad from Insecure, and Juan Dixon from Real Housewives of Potomac. They discuss what makes someone a fuckboy and what we have learned from watching these relationships / dynamics play out on television. Guys, you may want to tune in because there are a lot of helpful tips for y'all.

Recorded 3/27/21

In the first episode of Pack Your Suit with Your Thotfit, listen as Danielle and Lucy discuss why they believe there should be more young Real Housewives across the franchises citing examples from the latest seasons of Atlanta and Potomac and their lived experiences as twenty-something year olds. At the end of the episode Danielle and Lucy unveil their Housewives taglines for the first time (Andy, consider this their audition please). Stay tuned for the next episode.

Recorded 2/18/21