One night stands are temporary sexual relief. It only makes you feel good for a quick moment. Don’t get caught up in the moment always play it cool keep your composure because when shit go left it’s not a good feeling. It’s not a good feeling when you go to the doctor and she tells you about the three letters and gives you that prescription. You sit back and think was it worth it? .

Last year was one of the worst years I have had with love and dealing with these no good as niggas. This year I have been living my best life and I’m enjoying dating I can finally feel free and I don’t stress over bullshit. I have about 5 to ten niggas in rotation so I’m straight I’m living ,having a great time. I go to Miami for Bike Week with some of my home girls and our buddies. You on the strip enjoying life and who do you see at the bar, you look up at a glance and you see that nigga that played you last year what do you do ? I walk past to let you see me and when u ask me to come here I flick my hair back and say Boy Bye !!!

As you sit back crying and weeping each day you notice the days and weeks are going by. When you look up ,two months have gone past that you were spending time thinking about him and her and how he played you . You try to move on from it but it’s not easy so ya homegirls invite you out for the night. You go out and notice that it’s some looks in the club and you take your pick. After a couple drinks and a good time you leave the club with a couple numbers and options to play around with. You go home and it those lonely feelings come back so you make a choice to stop thinking bout the bullshit. You notice how much time has past and you pull out ya phone and text that nigga u met at the club, the tall Chocalate one. ❤️❤️❤️

When you realize he is playing with your heart, you become the wild card and start going off . You become a different person, you don’t play fair.your heart is fragile and needs love not pain at this point you become vulnerable. But regrets are present. You pull up to his house thinking you gonna pour out your heart and tell him how u feeling… as you stand there feeling empty you ring the doorbell and you notice that it’s taking him some time. Your patient but when the door opens it’s not him it’s her. The her is his wife that he never told you about.

Remember that tattoo you got that said Daddys Girl. Remember how it made you feel inside. You believed that your daddy was the best. Got older and things changed in many ways you grew up without him around, only around because when it’s convenient. They change you change , only to figure out that tattoo was stupid. Then meet a sexy ass nigga and he like that kinky shit and he say call me Daddy in that moment what do you do?

This is Part Two of the Discussion NAS hope you enjoyed and next time you go out on a date with a guy have s open mind pray and take things slow. Remember Ladies 10 dates in 30 days !!! Stay woke

Part One of the discussion let’s get into it ...

This topic of discussion will be a two part discussion and will talk about why so many women put guys in the NAS category of in relationships? Let’s dig in

Damaged hearts can never see past the hurt trauma and pain. We’re just looking for the right Surgeon to come into the Emergency Room and fix our hearts. Who can repair me today ? I’m calling to make an appointment. Is your heart ready to be repaired?

In this episode I will Be Leading the discussion on whether to forgive or forget and do we forget to forgive ??? I will be talking about some personal trauma I experienced growing up and how I had to make the choice whether to forgive or forget and how in relationships it’s different from forgiving it’s more so about knowing when to differentiate between forgiveness and reconciliation.. hope you enjoy listening