PanTalk

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Micah tells us what being queer means to them and how their trans, pansexual, and polyamorous journeys all intersect.

Trigger warnings: brief mentions of being raised a mormon girl, transphobia, biphobia, polyamoryphobia,non-monogomyphobia, misogyny, purity culture, white supremacy, women as property, and divorce.

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Definitions (note: definitions are not identities)

Trans or Transgender - An adjective used to describe people whose gender identity, expression, or behavior is different from what would be expected given the sex they were assigned at birth. Not all transgender people are transsexuals – in other words, there are people who identify as transgender who have no interest in hormone treatment or other medical procedures.

Pansexual - Someone who is sexually or romantically attracted to people of all genders or attracted to people regardless of gender.

Bisexual - Someone who is sexually or romantically attracted to people of two or more genders.

Masc - short for masculine, meaning someone who is masculine-identifying and/or presenting and may or may not identify as a man.

Femme - short for feminine, meaning someone who is feminine-identifying and/or presenting and may or may not identify as a woman.

Polyamory - a relationship structure in which individuals may have more than one intimate partner, with the knowledge and consent of all partners involved. It can be described as consensual, ethical, or responsible non-monogamy.

Consensual Non-Monogamy - Refers to several different types of interpersonal relationships in which some or all participants have multiple marital, sexual, or romantic partners. Ethical non-monogamy or consensual non-monogamy (CNM) differs from cheating or infidelity in that everyone involved has freely and explicitly agreed to this open form of relating.

Relationship anarchy (RA)- The practice of forming relationships that are not bound by rules except those mutually agreed upon by the people involved.

Swinging - A non-monogamous behavior in which couples engage sexually with others as a recreational or social activity. The swinger community sometimes refers to this practice as “The Lifestyle”.

Progressive - a person advocating implementing social reform or new, liberal ideas.

Shanti shares their queer journey and multicultural background and how it impacts their art as a musician.

Check out Shanti here:

https://shantilalita.bandcamp.com/

https://open.spotify.com/artist/5b6rB2YXab8EnrRvD7hXOa

https://soundcloud.com/lalitacello

https://www.instagram.com/purple.swag/

https://www.youtube.com/@shantilalita?app=desktop

https://themagdalenaproject.org/en/user/2587

Trigger warnings: brief mentions of societal body image and societal body standards.

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Definitions (note: definitions are not identities)

Pansexual - Someone who is sexually or romantically attracted to people of all genders or attracted to people regardless of gender.

Bisexual - Someone who is sexually or romantically attracted to people of two or more genders.

Polysexual - Someone who is sexually or romantically attracted to people of many, but not necessarily all, genders.

Masc - short for masculine, meaning someone who is masculine-identifying and/or presenting and may or may not identify as a man.

Femme - short for feminine, meaning someone who is feminine-identifying and/or presenting and may or may not identify as a woman.

Non-Binary - those that fall outside the traditional male/female binary who may identify as a mix of genders, including binary ones, or no gender at all.

Genderfluid - a non-binary gender identity in which a person's gender identity or expression is unfixed and may identify with multiple genders at once or express different genders at different times which can change over time or depending on the situation.

Lesbian - A lesbian is a woman, girl, or femme-identifying person who is sexually or romantically attracted to another woman, girl, or femme-identifying person. It is also used for sexual identity or behavior, regardless of orientation, or as an adjective to characterize or associate nouns with femme homosexuality.

Homosexual - a person who is sexually or romantically attracted to people of their own gender.

Neurodivergent (a.k.a. neurospicy) - those whose thought patterns, behaviors, or learning styles are not considered typical and may be inaccurately and rudely referred to as not “normal”. It's not a diagnosis, but a way to describe people using words other than "normal" and “abnormal”.

Intersectionality - the concept of how different actual or presumed aspects of a person's identity, such as country or culture of origin or ancestry, gender identity and/or expression, sexual orientation, and body attributes interact resulting in complex combinations of privilege and inequality and therefore how they interact with systems of oppression to create unique experiences of combined privilege and inequality.

Colonization - the act of taking control of a foreign area or people, often through force, to exploit their resources and people.

Imperialism - the expansion of a countries’ political, economic, cultural, military, and media influence beyond its borders.

Post Colonialism - the cultural, political, and economic consequences of colonialism and imperialism, focusing on the impact of human control and exploitation of colonized people and their lands.

New Age - a wide collection of spiritual and religious practices and beliefs borrowed from other cultures that became popular in western society in the 1970s, including alternative spirituality and health practices, and criticized for cultural appropriation.

Cultural Appropriation - when a person or group adopts elements of a culture other than their own in a way that is disrespectful, exploitative, incomplete, or stereotypical.

Our first ever guest back in the halcyon days of 2022, Nat tells us her Pansexual story on location at New Profanity in West Hollywood! Unfortunately Nat’s store has closed but the joy her store gave all of us lives on.

Trigger warnings: some brief mentions of being sexualized at a young age, bi-erasure, pan-erasure, biphobia and panphobia.

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Anil and Joe talk about their relationship journey and what they've learned about themselves and each other.

Trigger warnings: in-depth mentions of dating, body shaming, fat shaming, homophobia, and lack of media representation of queer love with some brief mentions of childhood trauma and sex work.

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Joe and Anil tell their coming out stories!

Trigger warnings: brief mentions of anorexia, body image issues, sex work, polyamory, intimacy avoidance, romantic anorexia, sexual anorexia, sexual abuse, generational trauma, suicide, religious abuse, Catholic Church, bullying, homophobia, physical abuse, emotional abuse, and homophobic violence

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We're going to start putting definitions of words here in the show notes so keep your eyes peeled. 😁

Definitions (note: definitions are not identities)

Pansexual - Someone who is sexually or romantically attracted to people of all genders or attracted to people regardless of gender

Bisexual - Someone who is sexually or romantically attracted to people of two or more genders

Polysexual - Someone who is sexually or romantically attracted to people of many but not necessarily all genders

Omnisexual - Someone who is sexually or romantically attracted to people of all gender identities and sexual orientations which may fluctuate over time

Monosexual - Someone who is sexually or romantically attracted to only one gender (i.e. homosexual and heterosexual).

Skoliosexual - Someone who is sexually or romantically attracted to people who identify with a nonbinary gender.

Polyamory - the practice of engaging in multiple romantic and/or sexual relationships with consent of all people involved.

Masc - short for masculine, meaning someone who is masculine-identifying and/or presenting but may not identify as a man.

Femme - short for feminine, meaning someone who is feminine-identifying and/or presenting but may not identify as a woman.

Sexual Anorexia - the compulsive avoidance of sex and sexual activity.

Romantic Anorexia - the compulsive avoidance of dating and romance.

Homophobia - dislike of or prejudice against gay or queer people.

Anil and Joe give you their review of June 2023's Disneyland After Dark: Pride Nite!