Episode Summary:Play is more than entertainment. It is one of the most important ways children learn, communicate, manage emotions, and build relationships. In this episode of Parent Confidence Lab, Hans and Cristina sit down with Melinda Macht-Greenberg, PhD, Licensed Psychologist and Tufts University faculty member, to explore how parents can use everyday play to support children's emotional, social, and cognitive development. Melinda has more than 30 years of experience as a Clinical, Developmental, and School Psychologist, working with children, families, schools, and educators. (educationalconsultingpc.com)
Melinda explains how play gives children opportunities to practice frustration tolerance, turn-taking, communication, problem-solving, creativity, and emotional regulation. She shares practical ways parents can incorporate play into everyday routines without needing expensive toys or large amounts of dedicated time—from turning laundry and cooking into playful experiences to using boxes, containers, and other household items to encourage imagination.
The conversation also explores how parents can help children handle losing, disappointment, conflict, and big emotions. Melinda discusses the importance of modeling emotional regulation, previewing challenging situations, allowing children to experience frustration without immediately fixing it, and using curiosity rather than assumptions when talking about children's feelings. She also explains how play can support emotional processing and how "serve and return" interactions help build early communication, language, and social skills.
What You'll Learn- Why play is essential for children's emotional, social, and cognitive development
- How parents can use play to help children practice frustration tolerance
- Why modeling your own emotional regulation teaches children how to manage theirs
- How everyday activities like cooking and laundry can become playful learning opportunities
- Why children don't need expensive or specialized toys to develop creativity and imagination
- How symbolic play supports skills children later use for reading and writing
- How play can help children process emotions and prepare for major life changes
- Why parents should stay curious instead of assuming they know exactly how their children feel
- How to help children work through conflict and develop problem-solving skills
- Why waiting, disappointment, and frustration are important experiences for children to learn to tolerate
- How previewing difficult situations can help children prepare emotionally
- How serve-and-return interactions build communication, language, and social skills
- Why parents should trust their instincts and recognize that they are experts on their own children
About Melinda Macht-Greenberg, PhDMelinda Macht-Greenberg, PhD is a Licensed Psychologist and Clinical, Developmental, and School Psychologist with more than 30 years of experience supporting children, adolescents, adults, and families. She provides therapy, psychological and educational evaluations, parent-focused intervention, and educational consultation. (educationalconsultingpc.com)
Melinda is a faculty member in the Eliot-Pearson Department of Child Study and Human Development at Tufts University, where she teaches and mentors students and conducts research related to child development, assessment, and special education. She also works with schools and families to support children's educational, psychological, and developmental needs. (Tufts Arts and Sciences)
Through Macht-Greenberg Consulting Services, Melinda provides evaluations, therapy, parent-focused intervention, educational and school consultation, workshops, and staff training focused on improving the mental health and well-being of children, adolescents, and families. (educationalconsultingpc.com)
Connect with Melinda Macht-Greenberg, PhD- Website: educationalconsultingpc.com
- LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/melinda-macht-greenberg-phd-6692a08
- Instagram: @Dr.MelindaMG (educationalconsultingpc.com)
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