You fought so hard to become a mom, but why doesn’t every moment feel magical? Parenting after infertility comes with hidden challenges that most people never talk about.

In this episode of Motherhood Intended, Jacqueline opens up about the invisible baggage many moms carry after infertility treatments, loss, NICU stays, or surrogacy. She shares her own story of bringing home her children after years of heartbreak, and why the pressure to feel grateful every second can actually make motherhood harder. With honesty and encouragement, she reveals how infertility trauma doesn’t just vanish once you become a parent, it simply changes shape.

You’ll hear why it’s normal to feel anxious, tired, and imperfect even after your miracle arrives, and how you can give yourself permission to show up as a real mom instead of a “perfect” one. This conversation will reassure you that gratitude and grief can coexist, and that being human doesn’t make you ungrateful...it makes you a mom.

Questions answered in this episode:

• What does parenting after infertility really feel like, and why do joy and grief often coexist?
• How can NICU trauma, recurrent loss, or IVF shape postpartum anxiety and hyper-vigilance?
• What is gratitude guilt and how do you break the cycle when hard days hit?
• Which simple grounding tool helps calm the “what ifs” in real time?
• How can you build your village and give yourself permission to be an imperfect, amazing mom?

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