When i became a mom, I always worried if i was doing it right. I worried if my mom thought I was doing things correctly. I wanted to discuss this with my own mom since my kids are older. I got out of my own head I figured my own mom went through it when she was young. So what is the secret to parenting? News flash there isn’t one. Parenting is learning as you go. What works for one person doesn’t work for the other. Give yourself grace. Realize no one has it figured out. Stop worrying about judgement. Find your own happiness and your kids will learn how to find their happiness.