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In this episode, we'll be diving deep into something we've all experienced: sibling relationships. Yep, we're talking about how to make them better by tackling that age-old issue of sibling rivalry.

We'll be breaking down to discuss the causes of all that rivalry and creating strategies on how to break free from that type of relationship. We'll chat about why it's super important for parents to show unconditional love and really listen to their kids' feelings. In addition, we emphasize the pivotal role of unconditional love, validation of children's emotions, and the cultivation of an environment where each child feels valued and respected.

So, if you've ever wondered how to turn those sibling spats into lasting bonds, stick around! Our aim is to guide listeners in creating a nurturing family culture rooted in kindness and mutual respect. Join us as we dive deep in discussing all about creating a chill, loving sibling vibe that everyone can get behind. Let's get into it!

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►00:00 - Intro
►00:25 - Recent Happening: The podcast is now available on YouTube
►01:07 - TOPIC: Creating Smoother Sibling Relationships
►01:27 - Understanding Sibling Rivalry: Causes and Effects
►03:22 - The Importance of Parental Responsiveness and Validation
►06:48 - The Role of Parents in Sibling Rivalry
►07:34 - Strategies for Creating a More Loving Environment

QUESTION: What are your tips for sibling relationships?

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Do you want a big family but you just don’t know at times? Are you weary of the unknown? In this episode we discuss  our journey in deciding to have a third child by following our intuition and having deep consideration of practical aspects. We share experiences on how we used our deep listening, synchronicities, and the impact on our current children and how that helped in making our final decision. Join us as we dive deep in our discussion about how we decided on trying for our third child. 

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►00:00 - Intro
►00:25 - Recent Happening: Chaperoning our daughter’s field trip.
►02:00 - TOPIC: Following Intuition to Parenthood
►03:01- Practical Considerations and Inner Knowing
►07:13 - Synchronicities and Deep Conversations

QUESTION: What are some of the things you’ve thought about before deciding to kids?

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Have you ever wondered how you can communicate with your partner better? Don’t you  wish there’s a magical formula that you can follow to have a better relationships? Well, look no more! In this episode we talk about how to communicate effectively and deepened your relationship with your partner. Life can be challenging at times but coming home to a lovely home environment can be such a blessing. Join us, as we dive deep in how to cultivate meaningful communications with your partner. 

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►00:00 - Intro
►00:25 - Recent Happening: Father & son time at the beach
►02:39 - TOPIC: Cultivating Meaningful Communication in Parenting 
►03:14 - Understanding the different types of communication
►04:14 - How to have meaningful deep conversations

QUESTION: What struggles do you have with communicating with your partner?

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In Episode 69, we explore the topic of parenting roles for busy parents, aiming to help you easily manage and divide responsibilities. We discuss the ways to share insights on effective communication between partners to prevent misunderstandings. We also delve into the art of task division, emphasizing crystal-clear communication, flexibility, and considering who's best suited for certain tasks. Join us, as we dive deep in providing practical tips to create a smooth daily life routine.

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►00:00 - Intro
►00:25 - Recent Happening: Monster Meditation
►02:43 - TOPIC:  Who's Duty is it? Parenting Roles for Busy Parents. 
►03:08 - Understanding Parenting Roles
►13:00 - Thinking Framework
►14:42 - Practical Tips for Parenting Roles

QUESTION: What are some chores that you love to do? How about things you don't?

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In this episode, we dive into a deeply personal journey that touches the lives of countless individuals: miscarriage. As someone who has experienced this profound loss firsthand, I understand the devastation, the grief, and the overwhelming emotions that accompany it. Miscarriage is a topic often shrouded in silence and stigma, leaving many feeling isolated in their pain. But by fostering open and compassionate dialogue, challenging stigmas, and providing support and resources for those affected, we can create a more inclusive and empathetic society where individuals feel seen, heard, and valued in their journey toward healing and hope in the wake of pregnancy loss. Join us as we explore the complexities, challenges, and resilience that define the journey through miscarriage, offering hope and understanding to those who have walked this path. 

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►00:00 - Intro
►00:12 - TOPIC:  We had a miscarriage
►00:22 - Recent Happening: Hiking with the Kids
►01:43 - Facts about Miscarriages
►02:55 - Akko's Miscarriage story
►11:28 - Break the Silence
►14:37 - Navigating the Journey Together
►15:21 - Coping Mechanisms
►17:22 - Finding Closure

QUESTION: What did you take away from this episode? 

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#miscarriage #pregnancyloss #consciousparenting #realizeyourtruenature

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Here we dive into the secret key to lasting love – holding space for your partner. In this episode, Akko and Tamo take you through their experiences and stresses the importance of an open communication within a relationship. They talk about their journey into the heart of relationship as they explore the challenges and nuances of holding space, sharing valuable insights on the emotional intricacies involved. They delve into the significance of maturity, courage, and the delicate balance of staying present without succumbing to defensiveness.

Join us as we dive deep in exploring the depths of emotional connection, understanding, and resilience. 

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►00:00 - Intro
►00:02 - TOPIC:  The Secret Key to Lasting Love
►00:12 - Recent Happening: Beach cleaning with our parent participation preschool
►02:33 - What is Holding Space?
►03:15 - Key components of holding space for your partner include
►09:36 - Addressing the challenges and emotions involved in holding space
►14:56 - Recap of holding space

QUESTION:  What are your thoughts on holding space? If you have done it, we want to know. And if this is the first time hearing about holding space what kind of triggers did you feel listening to this relationship technique?

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We embark on a journey through the intricate stages of toddlers and preschoolers. In this episode, Tamo shares his fascination for developmental models, describing them as maps that guide us through the panoramic landscape of growth. From personal experiences to popular personality tests, he emphasizing their role in fostering self-awareness. Join us as we connect these models to to our children.  In a world where each child's journey is uniquely their own, Tamo and Akko encourage parents to embrace individual paces, savoring the nuances of their child's distinctive growth.

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►00:00 - Intro
►00:13 - TOPIC:  Stages of Toddlers and Preschools
►00:27 - Recent Happening: Our daughter's inaugural school bus field trip!
►00:53 - Introducing the various developmental models and maps
►06:05 - How developmental models align with children
►10:14 - Celebrate the uniqueness of every child

QUESTION:  Have you observed any patterns in how your children interact with you?

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#developmentalmodels #spiraldynamic #consciousparenting #realizeyourtruenature

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In this insightful episode, Akko and Tamo delve into the transformative journey of becoming a calmer, more patient parent. The discussion starts off with a more introspective tone as Tamo shares his recent struggles with parenting frustrations. Recognizing a recurring cycle of irritation and the negative impact it has on the family, Tamo reveals his breakthrough moment. This leads to an exploration of intuitive writing as a powerful tool for self-reflection and emotional release. Tamo details his process of setting intentions, unburdening surface thoughts, and probing deeper into the subconscious to understand and address the root causes of his frustrations.

Join us as we extend an invite to all listeners to engage in intuitive writing and share their experiences, fostering a community of growth and self-improvement.

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►00:00 - Intro
►00:13 - TOPIC: Raising Emotional Intelligent ToddlersManifest the Calm, Patient Parent You Want to Be - The Power of Intuitive Writing
►00:27 - Recent Happenings: Our Vegetable Garden
►01:33 - Tamo's Parenting Frustrations
►03:01 - Realization and Insight
►03:40 - Introduction to Intuitive Writing
►07:49 - The Impact of Intuitive Writing
►11:11 - Benefits of Intuitive Writing

QUESTION:  What do you want to let go through intuitive writing?

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#intuitivewriting #calmerparents #consciousparenting #realizeyourtruenature

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In this podcast we dive into the world of Raising Emotionally Intelligent Toddlers and exploring crucial steps in fostering these emotional intelligence for your little ones. 

We discuss the essential process of naming and acknowledging toddlers' emotions. We emphasizes the importance of providing emotional support, reassurance of normalcy, and waiting for the right moment to guide them through coping strategies.

We touch on redirection as a useful tool and the significance of unconditional love during emotional challenges. Our goal is to equip parents with practical insights for nurturing emotional intelligence in toddlers—a crucial life skill for healthier relationships and mental well-being.

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►00:00 - Intro
►00:17 - TOPIC: Raising Emotional Intelligent Toddlers
►00:27 - Recent Happenings: Our Daughter started Preschool
►02:37 - How we build Emotional Intelligence in Toddlers
►03:07 - Naming the Emotions
►04:26 - Supporting Emotional Regulation
►09:26 - Building Emotional Intelligence

QUESTION:  What updates do you have that you want to share with us?

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#fEmotionalintelligence #confidentchildren #consciousparenting #realizeyourtruenature

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