
Sign up to save your podcasts
Or


I was my parent’s worst nightmare...I was, and still am, a picky eater. I wish my parents knew my guest, Heidi Miller when I was growing up.
When our kids don’t eat what we want them to, eat too little, eat too much, don’t want to sit at the table or get up constantly, we worry. We worry about their health and if they are getting enough nutrition and connection during family time.
Heidi says that kids “aren’t picky, just to be PICKY”. She says there is always a reason behind the behavior.
In this episode, we talk about the factors that can be getting in the way of your kids eating:
Physiological sensory allergies and more Why families eating together at mealtimes matter What NOT to do (hint: don’t force it!) As long as our kids are eating 60% of what we serve, they are doing well! How to manage our expectations How to use smart snacks
For a free copy of Heidi’s “Visual Sensory Steps for Picky Eaters” go to www.parent-toolbox.com
RED FLAGS 🚩 For a Feeding PROBLEM
Child eats fewer than 20 foods
Child does not eat an entire food group
Mealtime is a very stressful time for the family because of the child’s behaviors (food throwing, table avoidance, tantrums)
Child is very brand specific
Child shows aversion to being around new foods or non-preferred food
Reasons to seek intervention even if your child accepts a variety of foods child gags, vomits or chokes while eating or drinking difficulty chewing, child is pocketing food, and drools only eats certain textures eats small volumes of food or takes a very long time to eat (over 30 minutes)
An Additional resource for families is Feeding Matters, a non- profit organization www.feedingmatters.com
About Heidi Miller Heidi Miller, MS, CCC-SLP, COM® is a Speech Language Pathologist, Feeding Specialist and Certified Orofacial Myologist who works with children (0-18) and families to improve their speech and feeding skills. Heidi has a specific interest in picky eating. She recently wrote and published the HMS Feeding Therapy Protocol for Expanding Repertoire of Picky Eaters and Children with ARFID to help other speech therapists and occupational therapist treat this population.
Heidi Believes through her 20 years of experience treating this population she has developed a treatment protocol that empowers the child and allows them to confidently learn to eat new foods in a safe environment. Heidi has a true passion for this work as eating can be very challenging and disruptive to a family who has a child that struggles with a limited repertoire. Heidi Miller holds a Masters of Science in Speech Language Pathology from Nova Southeastern University. Bachelors of Science from University of Wisconsin - Madison and Minor in Education. Heidi is licensed in New Jersey, New York, Florida and Maryland.
Contact information: http://heidimillerspeech.com/ HMS Feeding Therapy Protocol For Expanding Repetoire of Picky Eaters and Children with ARFID - A guide for SLP’s and OT’s to learn how to effectively treat picky eaters and teach them how to eat in a safe environment with confidence.
https://www.helppickyeaters.com/ Email: [email protected] HMS & Associates phone: 973-358-5665 Located in Florham Park, NJ Social Media: @hmsfeedingandspeech FB: HMSFeeding and Heidi Miller Speech & Associates Linkedin: Heidi Tanania Miller, Heidi Miller Speech & Associates
Thanks for listening! It means so much to me that you listened to my podcast! If you would like to purchase my book or other parenting resources, visit me at www.yellingcurebook.com
With this podcast, my intention is to build a community of parents that can have open and honest conversations about parenting without judgement or criticism. We have too much of that! I honor each parent and their path towards becoming the best parent they can be. My hope is...
It’s the 100th episode of Parenting our Future! Help me celebrate by entering my draw to win prizes valued at over $5000! Go to www.parentingourfuture.com When you enter, you will be sent a gift from me: “Quick Fixes for Frustrated Families”
With my 100th episode coming up, I found myself reflecting on my motherhood journey and my journey as a parent coach. I’ve been a mom now, for almost 16 years. I can’t believe it myself when I say that. I have learned so much along the way…all of which, I didn’t know when I first became a mom.
In reflecting, I wanted to share with you some of the most important lessons I’ve learned along the way. I’ve learned these lessons from my training as a coach, from the experts that have helped my husband and I in our parenting our child with extra needs, from the WONDERFUL guests I’ve had the honour of speaking with on this podcast, and from the courage and vulnerability of the clients I work with.
In this 100th episode and in the next, I’m sharing the top 10 most impactful lessons I’ve learned.
In part 2, I talk about:
1) Feeling like you’re failing is a shared experience and it’s ok to ask for help! It’s ok to say this is hard!
2) The story you’re telling yourself is often the problem in the situation
3) When Connection is high, Resistance is low
4) Focus on teaching NOT on punishing
5) Embracing grace, going easy on yourself and forgiveness
For my handout on challenging the story you’re telling yourself, join the Parent Toolbox membership at www.parent-toolbox.com
As a review, In part 1, I talked about:
1) How Parenting isn’t an emergency (okay, unless there’s blood or broken bones! 😉
2) Your child behavior is NEVER PERSONAL – even if they say they hate you!
3) How Listening to your kids is the greatest path to connection – “talk less and listen more” is such a game changer
4) We need to be a safe place for our kids and that means showing them empathy and validating their feelings…even if you DON’T agree
5) Accepting your child for who they are, not who you wish they were
For my free handout on Active Compassionate Listening, join the Parent Toolbox membership at www.parent-toolbox.com
About Robbin McManne
Robbin is a Certified Parent Coach, author and speaker. She works with parents from all over the world to help them build more connection and find more joy and cooperation in their parenting.
Robbin is a former ‘Angry Mom’ and for over 12 years, Robbin juggled a full-time corporate career while being a mom and wife, prior to becoming a Parenting Coach. In her corporate career, Robbin has a background in marketing and public relations, training, and event planning. She understands firsthand how many moms struggle to balance work and family.
It’s because of her struggles as a parent that she found the world of peaceful parenting and has dedicated her life to teaching parents how to build a strong family, so their kids thrive.
Robbin’s work focuses on building and strengthening the parent child relationship so that children grow up with resilience, confidence and strong emotional intelligence. She works with parents to help them understand their own emotions and frustrations in parenting, so they can help build their children’s sense of self without losing themselves in the process!
In October of 2018 Robbin released her first book, “The Yelling Cure – How stress less and get your kids to cooperate without threats & punishments.” Her book is being read by parents all over the world 300,000 copies sold to date. www.yellingcurebook.com
Robbin divides her time working with her clients, speaking at events and spending time with her two boys and husband. You can usually find her at a hockey rink or sports field cheering on her boys. Most importantly, Robbin has changed...
It’s the 100th episode of Parenting our Future! Help me celebrate by entering my draw to win prizes valued at over $5000! Go to www.parentingourfuture.com When you enter, you will be sent a gift from me: “Quick Fixes for Frustrated Families”
With my 100th episode coming up, I found myself reflecting on my motherhood journey and my journey as a parent coach. I’ve been a mom now, for almost 16 years. I can’t believe it myself when I say that. I have learned so much along the way…all of which, I didn’t know when I first became a mom. In reflecting, I wanted to share with you some of the most important lessons I’ve learned along the way. I’ve learned these lessons from my training as a coach, from the experts that have helped my husband and I in our parenting our child with extra needs, from the WONDERFUL guests I’ve had the honour of speaking with on this podcast, and from the courage and vulnerability of the clients I work with. In this 100th episode and in the next, I’m sharing the top 10 most impactful lessons I’ve learned.
In part 1, I talk about:
1) How Parenting isn’t an emergency (okay, unless there’s blood or broken bones! 😉
2) Your child behavior is NEVER PERSONAL – even if they say they hate you!
3) How Listening to your kids is the greatest path to connection – “talk less and listen more” is such a game changer
4) We need to be a safe place for our kids and that means showing them empathy and validating their feelings…even if you DON’T agree
5) Accepting your child for who they are, not who you wish they were
For my free handout on Active Compassionate Listening, join the Parent Toolbox membership at www.parent-toolbox.com
About Robbin McManne
Robbin is a Certified Parent Coach, author and speaker. She works with parents from all over the world to help them build more connection and find more joy and cooperation in their parenting.
Robbin is a former ‘Angry Mom’ and for over 12 years, Robbin juggled a full-time corporate career while being a mom and wife, prior to becoming a Parenting Coach. In her corporate career, Robbin has a background in marketing and public relations, training, and event planning. She understands firsthand how many moms struggle to balance work and family.
It’s because of her struggles as a parent that she found the world of peaceful parenting and has dedicated her life to teaching parents how to build a strong family, so their kids thrive.
Robbin’s work focuses on building and strengthening the parent child relationship so that children grow up with resilience, confidence and strong emotional intelligence. She works with parents to help them understand their own emotions and frustrations in parenting, so they can help build their children’s sense of self without losing themselves in the process!
In October of 2018 Robbin released her first book, “The Yelling Cure – How stress less and get your kids to cooperate without threats & punishments.” Her book is being read by parents all over the world 300,000 copies sold to date. www.yellingcurebook.com
Robbin divides her time working with her clients, speaking at events and spending time with her two boys and husband. You can usually find her at a hockey rink or sports field cheering on her boys. Most importantly, Robbin has changed the way she parents and connects with her sons and is dedicated to helping parents find the same joy, connection and cooperation in their families.
www.yellingcurebook.com
It all started on February 19th, 1968 when the first episode of Mr. Rogers Neighborhood aired. Little did we know that the simple sets, sweaters, sneakers, and little trolly were all made deliberately to foster a love of learning and wonder. In this episode, I’m talking to Mr. Rogers Super Fans, Greg Behr and Ryan Rydzewski, who co-authored the book, When You Wonder You’re Learning – Mister Rogers’ Enduring Lessons for Raising Creative, Curious, Caring Kids. Both were raised in Pennsylvania, the home of Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood, and grew up watching and learning from him. In their work, as adults, they have taken the learnings from Fred Rogers and the science of learning to help guide us to raise kids with a love of learning, that lights them up. In this episode we talk about: ● How artful and sophisticated Mr. Rogers was in his show and teachings ● How we know more about the science of how people learn and what’s really important (Mr. Rogers was way ahead of his time!) ● When it comes to learning, how important it is for a child to be listened to, their need to feel physically and psychologically safe, and to feel loved and capable of loving ● The “Fred Method” for learning, which is Curiosity, Creativity, Communication and working together. ● Learning loss during the Pandemic and what learning is really important ● The power of wonder You can find Gregg and Ryan’s book, When you Wonder, You’re Learning, anywhere books are sold. For your copy of the first chapter of their book for free, go to www.parent-toolbox.com About Gregg Behr and Ryan Rydzewski Gregg Behr is a father, children’s advocate, and director for the Grable Foundation whose work has drawn comparisons to his hero, Fred Rogers. For more than a decade, he has helped lead Remake Learning—a network of educators, scientists, artists, and makers he founded in 2007—to international renown. Formed in Rogers’ real-life neighborhood of Pittsburgh, Remake Learning has turned heads everywhere from Forbes to the World Economic Forum for its efforts to ignite children’s curiosity, encourage creativity, and foster justice and belonging in schools, libraries, museums, and more. A graduate of the University of Notre Dame and also Duke University, Gregg holds honorary degrees from Carlow University and Saint Vincent College. He’s an advisor to the Brookings Institution and the Fred Rogers Center, and has been cited by Barack Obama, Richard Branson, and the Disruptor Foundation as an innovator and thought leader.
Twitter: @greggbehr www.remakelearning.org Ryan Rydzewski is a writer whose science and education reporting has garnered several awards and fellowships. A graduate of the University of Pittsburgh, he taught elementary school in south Louisiana before earning an MFA in nonfiction writing from Chatham University. As a freelancer, his magazine stories focus on everything from schools to space travel to Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood, and his poems and other pieces appear in several journals. A native of Erie, Pennsylvania, Ryan lives in Pittsburgh with his wife, Jacqueline. Twitter: @ryanrydzewski www.ryanrydzewski.com
Thanks for listening!
It means so much to me that you listened to my podcast! If you would like to purchase my book or other parenting resources, visit me at www.yellingcurebook.com With this podcast, my intention is to build a community of parents that can have open and honest conversations about parenting without judgement or criticism. We have too much of that! I honor each parent and their path towards becoming the best parent they can be. My hope is to inspire more parents to consider the practice of Peaceful Parenting.
If you know somebody who would benefit from this message, or would be an awesome addition to our community, please share it using the social media buttons on...
From the publisher's feed