Being there matters more than doing it all. In this episode, the guys get honest about what “presence” really looks like — from toddler chaos and phone distractions to work shifts, commutes, and calendar Tetris. They unpack the guilt that creeps in, why quality time beats sheer hours, and how presence evolves as kids grow. You’ll hear practical ways to set intentions, communicate availability, and make the moments you do have count. Plus: Dexter’s dog IG, ube waffles, and the eternal pineapple request. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re doing enough, this one’s a breath of perspective — and a nudge to reach out to other parents who get it.