Parenting Takes a Village

Welcome back to Parenting Takes a VillagI'mwe'reI'mI'mwe'reI'mwe'reI'mI'mwe're, the podcast where we explore how we support and nurture our children—and ourselves—through the ever-evolving parenting journey. I'm your host, Tania. Today, we're diving into a deeply personal and profoundly impactful topic: raising children beyond the gender binary.

Parenting is full of choices—how we guide, nurture, and support our children in becoming their most authentic selves. But what does it look like to raise children in a way that frees them from rigid gender expectations? How can we, as parents and caregivers, create an environment where kids feel safe to explore their identities on their terms? To help us explore these questions, Erin Sara DiPeso joins me in exploring these questions. Erin is a nanny, teacher, and stay-at-home parent of three. With a background in positive discipline, non-violent communication, and child development—not to mention an unexpected love of ornithology—Erin brings a wealth of knowledge and lived experience to this conversation. As part of the LGBTQ community, Erin has chosen to raise all three of their children with a gender-neutral approach, allowing them the space and freedom to define who they are.

In this episode, we'll talk about what it means to raise children outside traditional gender roles, the challenges and joys of this parenting approach, and what we can all learn from creating more inclusive spaces for kids to grow and thrive.

So, whether you're a parent, educator, or someone who wants to better understand gender-inclusive Parenting, this conversation is for you.

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En este episodio de "Parenting Takes a Village: NSC and You," Tania conversa con Xiomara, una destacada profesional comprometida con el apoyo a las familias en su viaje hacia la alfabetización temprana. Xiomara, inmigrante salvadoreña radicada en Seattle desde 2005, ha dedicado su carrera a facilitar programas para niños y familias en las bibliotecas públicas de Seattle y del condado de King. Con pasión y un profundo sentido de urgencia, trabaja para preparar a los niños para la escuela, empoderando a las familias como los primeros y más importantes maestros de sus hijos. Su enfoque cultural y lingüístico garantiza que las culturas y los idiomas que las familias hablan en casa sean representados en sus programas, fomentando en los niños un fuerte sentido de identidad y pertenencia. Xiomara también está completando una licenciatura en Educación, después de haber estudiado psicología en El Salvador.

Establecer rutinas: Cómo crear momentos consistentes para leer y aprender juntos.

Ser flexible: Ajustar las actividades a las necesidades del momento y del niño.

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Books such as "Windows" and "Mirrors" in Parenting with Betty Williams

Welcome back to Parenting Takes a VillageParentingIn today's, Today'sI'mParentingtoday'sParenting. Today's episode explores the many facets of parenting through connection, equity, and shared learning. I’m your host, Tania. In today’s episode, we're exploring books' transformative role in Parenting and education as "wiParentingd "mirrors." Joining me is Betty Williams, a passionate advocate for racial justice, anti-bias work, and creating inclusive environments where children and families can truly thrive.

Betty brings decades of experience as a social worker, early childhood educator, and Parent Education Instructor at North Seattle College. Beyond her academic achievements—a BA in Psychology from Vanderbilt University and an MSW from the University of Washington—Betty's work is deeply rooted in advocacy. She's committed to listening, learning, and partnering with those most impacted by injustice, and she sees her role as both a learner and an accomplice in justice work.

In this episode, we'll explore how books can serve as "windows" that allow children to see and learn about lives and experiences different from their own and "mirrors" that reflect and validate their identities and stories. Betty will share insights on intentionally choosing books that expand empathy, challenge stereotypes, and create a sense of belonging for children and families.

Effectively serve these roles. We'll also discuss practical tips for parents and educators: How do we identify books that serve these roles effectively? What should we look for when diversifying our bookshelves at home or in the classroom? How do we navigate difficult conversations that might arise when children encounter new or challenging perspectives?

Betty'sBetty'sThroughBetty'sBetty'sThrough Through Betty's wealth of experience—both as a professional and an individual deeply committed to equity and inclusion—we'll discover how books can open doors to greater understanding and connection. This conversation promises to inspire you to think differently about the stories we share and their impact on the children we raise.

"Get ready to explore the decisive role of books as "windows" and "mirrors" with Betty Williams. Let's dive in!

In this episode of Parenting Takes a Village, Tania sits down with Beth Goss (she/her), a seasoned expert in Early Childhood Education and a Certified Gottman Educator, to explore how relationships shift and grow after children enter the picture. Together, they delve into the impact of children’s tantrums on family dynamics and the importance of co-regulation not just with children but within partnerships.

Beth shares insights from her decades of experience as a preschool teacher, administrator, teacher trainer, and now a tenured parent education instructor at North Seattle College. Drawing on her work with the Gottman Institute, Beth offers practical tools to help couples strengthen their connection while navigating the challenges of parenting young children.

Tune in for a thoughtful conversation about maintaining empathy, fostering healthy communication, and building resilient family relationships—one moment of connection at a time.

To learn more about Beth or to explore her workshops and consulting services, visit www.bethgoss.com.

Book Resource:

The Opposite of Worry: The Playful Parenting Approach to Childhood Anxieties and Fears by Lawrence J. Cohen 

Welcome to Episode 3, where we dive into the transformative topic of fostering feminist values in the next generation. In this episode, Tania sits down with Sally and Sarah to explore how parents, educators, and mentors can support children and teens in developing a solid foundation of gender equity, empowerment, and respect for all identities.

Sally, a seasoned faculty member in the Department of Parent Education at North Seattle College, brings a wealth of experience from her decades in child psychotherapy, parent consultation, and education. With her Master’s in Social Work from the University of Michigan, Sally has spent over 20 years as a parent educator, offering practical insights into raising empathetic, justice-minded children through her professional expertise and personal experience as a mother of two.

Sarah Rose Olson, M.Ed., a Seattle-based wellness teacher, sexuality educator, and curriculum developer, joined the conversation. Sarah is deeply committed to empowering young people by building skills in consent, self-advocacy, and healthy relationships. Her trauma-informed approach tackles the shame and stigma often associated with sexuality and identity, helping adolescents to make informed, confident decisions about themselves and the change they hope to inspire in the world.

Sally and Sarah bring unique perspectives and actionable ideas for fostering feminist values at home and in the community. From teaching media literacy to encouraging critical thinking, they help us explore ways to inspire the next generation to advocate for equity and respect. Tune in to discover how small, everyday actions can have a powerful impact on building a more inclusive and just future.

En este episodio, Tania conversa con Anita García Morales sobre una herramienta esencial de la disciplina positiva: las juntas de familia. Anita, con más de 30 años de experiencia en educación y cofundadora de Racing to Equity, nos comparte cómo esta práctica fomenta el respeto mutuo, la colaboración y una comunicación efectiva en el hogar. Las juntas familiares pueden convertirse en un espacio inclusivo donde todos los miembros, especialmente aquellos de comunidades tradicionalmente marginadas, pueden expresarse y sentirse valorados.

Si quieres profundizar en esta herramienta y en otras prácticas de disciplina positiva, aquí te compartimos algunos recursos:

Positive Discipline Association– positivediscipline.org

https://www.positivediscipline.org: Ofrece talleres y cursos en español, presenciales y en línea, sobre disciplina positiva.

Disciplina Positiva Latinoamérica– disciplinapositiva.org

https://disciplinapositiva.org: Organización dedicada a promover la disciplina positiva en América Latina, con información sobre talleres, recursos y certificaciones en español.

Racing to Equity –racingtoequity.com

https://www.racingtoequity.com: Consultoría cofundada por Anita García Morales, especializada en justicia social y equidad. También ofrece recursos y apoyo a familias inmigrantes que desean aprender más sobre prácticas inclusivas y equitativas en sus comunidades.

Estos recursos son excelentes puntos de partida para empezar a implementar las juntas familiares y fortalecer los vínculos familiares a través de la disciplina positiva. ¡Acompáñanos en esta conversación y descubre cómo hacer de esta práctica un hábito en tu hogar!

In this episode, Tania sits down with Sally and Sarah to explore the critical topic of media literacy and its impact on families and youth. Sally, a seasoned faculty member in the Department of Parent Education at North Seattle College, brings decades of expertise in child psychotherapy, parent consultation, and education. With a Master’s in Social Work from the University of Michigan, she has spent over 20 years as a parent education instructor, sharing practical parenting tools rooted in her professional experience and personal journey as a mother of two grown daughters.

Sarah Rose Olson, M.Ed., a Seattle-based wellness teacher, sexuality educator, and curriculum developer, joined the conversation. Sarah works closely with young people to foster consent, self-advocacy, and healthy relationship skills. Her trauma-informed approach challenges the shame and stigma around sexuality and sexual health, empowering adolescents to make informed decisions about their lives and the social change they wish to see.

Together, Sally and Sarah bring their unique perspectives to help us understand how media literacy can be used to guide children and teens in navigating today’s complex digital landscape.

Tania speaks with Beth about Relationships after having Children

Beth Goss (she/her)

Beth has been working in the field of Early Childhood Education since 1989. She has been a preschool teacher, an administrator, and a teacher trainer, and is currently a full-time, tenured parent education instructor at North Seattle College. Beth is also a Certified Gottman Educator and Training Specialist with the Gottman Institute. She can be reached for workshop facilitation, speaking engagements, and consulting at www.bethgoss.com

Tania talks to Lauren about nutrition.

Registered Dietitian Nutritionist Lauren Leedy specializes in creating unique strategies and solutions for the busiest of people to meet their personal health goals. Originally from Vancouver, Canada, Lauren has experience across a wide variety of settings and patient populations, including five years in pediatrics.  She now owns her 100% virtual nutrition practice based out of Seattle.  She believes that changes don’t last unless they are realistic, and she holds a unique toolbox of ideas to take the guesswork out of healthy eating. Lauren is a busy mom known for her 15-minute meal hacks, tried and true product recommendations, and ability to share the science of nutrition in a clear, understandable manner.

For more information visit Lauren's website: https://laurenleedynutrition.com

Episode 12 coming soon on 05-10-22

Registered Dietitian Nutritionist Lauren Leedy specializes in creating unique strategies and solutions for the busiest of people to meet their personal health goals. Originally from Vancouver, Canada, Lauren has experience across a wide variety of settings and patient populations, including five years in pediatrics.  She now owns her 100% virtual nutrition practice based out of Seattle.  She believes that changes don’t last unless they are realistic and she holds a unique toolbox of ideas to take the guesswork out of healthy eating. Lauren is a busy mom known for her 15-minute meal hacks, tried and true product recommendations, and ability to share the science of nutrition in a clear, understandable manner.