Pain gets our attention, doesn’t it? Smash your thumb with a hammer and suddenly life changes for a day or two. Physical pain is certainly unfortunate. But emotional and relational pain can be debilitating, too. Maybe you’re experiencing pain right now in your family. When pain overwhelms your life, you’re only focused on finding relief. […]

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Parents are often gravely concerned about their teen’s behavior. The ugly dust ups can cause the whole family to spiral out of control. When there’s conflict in the home, it’s important to figure out what’s behind the behavior. We cannot discount the sin and turmoil of an out-of-control teen, but in order to find a […]

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If you had to limit five non-negotiable battles in your home, what would they be? Mom, Dad, it’s critically important to choose your battles wisely. So, let me share a trick. Sit down and think through the most important conflicts with your teen. Identify the issues where you refuse to budge. Choose only five, and determine […]

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Dealing with conflict in your home is all about timing and approach. If done correctly, it can usher in a new day of hope! If done poorly, it can take you years to mop up the mess.   I know a Dad who held everything in, and then exploded in when problems piled up. He […]

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