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Have you ever reflected on the complex dance of shaping a young life, particularly during those tumultuous teenage years? This week on "Parenting with a Purpose," I, Donna Janel, alongside insightful guests Bryce Shelton and Savion Thompson, dive into the rich layers of influence that mold our children. We tackle everything from gender roles to the powerful forces of religion and society, sharing stories and wisdom on guiding our youth with intention and heart.

As we peel back the challenges of modern parenting. We discuss the delicate balance between tradition and technology, the quest for authentic success, and the art of nurturing each child's individual path. Our dialogue weaves through the importance of open communication and the art of negotiation within the family dynamic, striving to foster environments where both respect and individuality thrive.

Concluding with a contemplative note. With guests Bryce and Save You enriching the discussion, we celebrate the victories that come from the trials of raising independent, expressive individuals. This episode is an affirmation of our dedication to parenting with love, understanding, and the recognition that through the challenges, there lies the beauty of transformation. Join us for a conversation that promises to resonate with parents united in the transformative act of raising the next generation.

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Navigating the tumultuous waters of modern parenting, I open up about my personal journey through the highs and lows of raising teenagers, bringing a touch of humor to the real emotional rollercoaster that comes with the territory. There's a profound weight to the role we play as parents, likening ourselves to bows that launch our children—our arrows—into the future. The conversation takes a sober turn as we confront the harrowing issue of youth violence, exploring the tools we, as parents, can offer our children to help them not only succeed but also act as agents of positive change in the world.

Joining me is Lashira Council from Chester Community Coalition, who brings an invaluable perspective on community intervention and the long-lasting ripple effects of gun violence. Together, we break down the Coalition's comprehensive strategy, from immediate action in hospitals to ongoing mental health support, emphasizing the importance of healing and engagement for affected families, including those of perpetrators. This dialogue doesn't shy away from the hard truths about violence normalization, survival mentality, and the imperative need for emotional literacy in breaking the chain of trauma passed from one generation to the next.

As we wrap up, I stress the vital importance of intentional parenting, fostering open conversations with our children about topics such as gun safety and substance use, and keeping these discussions age-appropriate. The narrative touches upon the complexities of gun ownership, the nuanced connections between trauma and youth violence, and the profound influence of social media. The commitment to creating a nurturing environment goes beyond just meeting physical needs—it's about emotional support and preparing our children for the world they will inherit. I invite you to continue this meaningful dialogue, week by week, in 'Parent through the Purpose', as we strive to shape a brighter, safer future for our homes and communities.

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As I sat next to Jahi Ross, I couldn't help but reflect on the weighty role fathers play in the lives our children's lives. Our conversation took us through the landscape of black fatherhood, offering a glimpse into the rich, often unspoken narratives that shape our sons and daughters. Jahi, sharing his own experiences as a father and entrepreneur, opens up about the unique challenges and victories that come with raising children who are confident and grounded in today's multifarious society.

Unraveling the complexities of parenting didn't stop there; we traversed the terrains of forgiveness, family dynamics, and the formidable influence of social media and music on our young. The intertwining of personal tales and shared wisdom led us to confront the harsh realities that young black males face, while also emphasizing the power of communication, emotional intelligence, and setting an example at home. This heart-to-heart discussion underscored the necessity for parents to be vigilant, proactive, and most importantly, present in their children's lives.

Finally, touching on the subtler, yet equally crucial aspects of parenting, we explored mental well-being, the power of narrative, and the importance of recognizing each child's individual needs. From discussing the significance of downtime and fostering personal interests, to the critical role of parental self-care, every moment of this dialogue with Jahi Ross serves as a reminder of the enduring impact we have on our children. So join me, Donna Janelle, on this episode of 'Parenting with Purpose', where we don't just share lessons—we live them, learn them, and lovingly pass them on to the arrows we aim into the future.

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As a parent, have you ever felt like your child's actions are a reflection on your own upbringing, stirring a mix of pride and trepidation within you? This week, Donna Janel opens up about the journey of parenting with an earnestness that pulls at the heartstrings, accompanied by Pastor Charmayne Lane. Together, they examine the highs and lows of motherhood, from the daunting challenges of teenage pregnancy to the nuanced dance of single parenting and the complexities of blended families. Our candid conversation promises to leave you with a deeper understanding of the fortitude and grace required to guide our children through life's labyrinth.

Remember the times when a parent's advice seemed to come from a place too distant to relate to? We've come a long way since then. This episode weaves personal narratives with practical insights on breaking free from damaging familial cycles and the importance of a robust support system.  Pastor Charmayne shares her own tale of teen motherhood, which blossoms into a broader discussion about the delicate balance of parenting roles, the impact of male figures in a child's life, and the journey from independence to interdependence in marriage and family units.

Finally, we celebrate our show's one-year milestone by reiterating our commitment to empowering young parents and reinforcing support structures that anchor them. From navigating relationships and maintaining open communication with maturing children to the transformative leadership that parenting inherently demands, we underscore the lifelong influence parents have. This episode is not just a reflection on the past year but an ode to the purpose-driven nature of parenting—a testament to the profound impact of nurturing homes and the enduring guidance we provide beyond childhood's horizon.

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Navigating the complexities of parenthood often feels like an odyssey, especially when technology blurs the lines between childhood and the vast ocean of information. Donna Janel and Rhonda Santos pull you into a candid realm of discourse, addressing the critical role of nurturing in child development and the significance of healing personal traumas. Our dialogues traverse the landscape of intergenerational curses and the effects of narcissistic abuse, where Rhonda, with her wealth of experience in nursing and healthcare informatics, shares profound insights into behavioral dynamics and the journey toward holistic family wellness.

There’s an undeniable magnetism between empaths and narcissists, a dance that can both fascinate and devastate. This episode doesn’t just spotlight these interactions; it's an intimate reflection on setting boundaries, the art of forgiveness, and the process of personal healing. Through heartfelt narratives, we dissect the perils of toxic relationships and emphasize the importance of professional diagnosis when confronting personality disorders. Our conversations are more than just exchanges of ideas; they are a testament to the transformative power of self-care and the pursuit of inner peace.

Concluding on a note of community and familial ties, we acknowledge the impact of supportive networks in child-rearing and share personal experiences of overcoming adversity, like my brush with homelessness. Reflecting on the role of father figures and the power of forgiveness, this episode is a beacon for those working to break cycles of trauma and embrace their worth beyond the shadow of judgment. Join us at our weekly gathering place, "Parenting With a Purpose," and be a part of these enriching dialogues that honor the responsibility and beauty of raising the leaders of tomorrow.

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Every parent knows that moment when you're staring into the eyes of your child and see a glimpse of the future. It's in these moments that the weight of our role truly sinks in. I'm Donna Janel, and together with Dr. Kristen Ball Motley and her mother, Mrs. Edith Ball, we navigate the turbulent waters of parenting. From the nuances of father-daughter dynamics to the evolution of tough love, we share our stories and shed light on the complexities of shaping young minds in a rapidly changing world.

Parenting is a tapestry of joy and challenges, each thread a lesson in resilience and love. Whether you're part of a blended family or standing firm in the face of teenage rebellion, this episode promises a treasure trove of insights. We delve into the art of setting boundaries and the struggle to maintain authority amidst the lure of technology. Listen closely as we reveal how we balance the push for independence with the pull of protection, crafting a space where the voices of our children can be both heard and guided.

As we wrap up, I reflect on the journey we embark on as parents, the silent prayer that our teachings will arm our children with kindness and integrity in an often unkind world. With Dr. Kristen and Ms. Edith, we underscore the importance of community in parenting and the collective endeavor to sculpt the next generation. So join us, as we anchor our hearts in the hope that the arrows we launch are not only aimed at success but are also imbued with the courage and compassion to change the world.

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Feeling overwhelmed by the ceaseless waves of parenting advice? Allow me to share my quarter-century trek through the wilderness of child-rearing, as I reflect on the pivotal mission that we, as parents, have in molding the citizens of tomorrow. This episode of "Parenting with a purpose" is a candid tapestry of the trials and triumphs we face – from the "terrible twos" to the stormy seas of adolescence. I delve into the heart of what it means to equip our children with the right values and tools for life, drawing from the well of my own experiences as a mother of four. We'll unpack the layers of complexity that come with each developmental stage, acknowledging that while the path isn't always straight, the values we instill are our children's true north.

Expect a heartfelt dialogue on how the role of grandparents has evolved and the unique contributions they bring to the family dynamic. As we march into the new year, "Parenting with a purpose" is set to embrace more platforms and introduce a diverse array of voices to the conversation, all aiming to reinforce the responsibility, nobility and beauty inherent in the art of parenting. Whether we're discussing the nuances of adolescent pressures in an ever-changing technologically driven society or the importance of life insurance in planning for our children's futures, this series remains steadfast in supporting families to foster well-rounded, responsible, and prepared individuals. Join us, as we navigate the ever-evolving landscape of parenting, grandparenting, and everything in between.

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Discover the transformative power of parenting with a deliberate and heartfelt approach as I, Donna Janel, sit down with Bishop Billy Lane Jr. His deep wisdom on raising children in today's complex world is not to be missed. We share stories and strategies that will equip you to shape a future for your children that's as bright as the visions you hold in your heart. If you've ever questioned how your upbringing influences your parenting style or how to bring up your children with a sense of purpose, this episode promises to offer you both solace and inspiration.

Together with Bishop Lane, we navigate the intricate dance of maintaining a vision while juggling the daily realities of family life. From the powerful acronym VISION to our very own experiences with faith and forgiveness, this conversation transcends the usual parenting advice. It's about crafting a legacy, embracing the roles we've been given, and infusing every decision with intention. Whether you're a parent in a traditional, blended, or single-parent family, the insights shared here will resonate deeply and perhaps even alter the course of your family's journey.

Our discussion culminates in an exploration of the spiritual dimensions of parenthood, as well as the practical aspects of forging a family vision that stands the test of time. By examining our own stories and those of the families we encounter, we uncover the balance between grace and accountability, communication and individuality. This episode isn't just about parenting—it's an invitation to reflect, renew, and rise to the noble calling that is raising the next generation. Join us for a conversation that will leave you moved and motivated to parent with unwavering purpose.

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As a parent, the journey of guiding our children can be fraught with uncertainty and challenges. This week, I'm joined by Bryce Sheldon and Savion Thompson, who offer a stirring window into their lives as young black men and the parenting that shaped their paths. Our discussion peels back the layers on what it truly means to nurture not just the physical, but the emotional and mental fortitude of our children. We reveal how breaking free from restrictive gender roles and addressing the nuanced effects of family dynamics, such as divorce, can impact a child's development and sense of self.

Navigating the tightrope between authority and camaraderie in parenting roles, this episode sheds light on the delicate balance that cultivates respect and openness within the family unit. We grapple with the consequences of inflexible parenting, and how understanding and compassion can fortify our children against the pressures to conform. With personal insights and reflections from literature, our conversation serves as a clarion call for intentionality in parenting—providing children with the liberty to express their individuality and pursue their unique passions.

Wrapping up, we confront the pressing need to equip our sons for a future where they can thrive as men of character. By emphasizing conversation and planning, we underscore our commitment to fostering responsibility, nobility, and beauty in the upbringing of our children. It's a purpose-driven approach to parenting that Bryce and Savion illuminate with their own experiences, from the demands of home life. Join us as we continue to champion the journey of raising boys into men with grace and a clear vision for their tomorrow.

Parents are the Bows and Children are the Arrows they will land wherever we aim them eventually!