Who’s Custody Time Is This Anyway? Navigating Holiday Travel and Break SchedulesIn this episode, we talk about one of the hardest parts of co-parenting: holiday schedules, school breaks, and travel plans. We walk through the real-life challenges that come up when Thanksgiving, winter break, or spring break arrives, and the custody calendar suddenly takes over the entire plan.We break down the difference between a regular custody schedule and a holiday schedule, why the holiday rules override everything, and how we handle travel during our own custody time. We also share our honest feelings about being the parent who stays home while the kids travel, how we manage check-ins, and what healthy communication looks like during big holiday trips.We also talk through the stress of aging parents, school calendars, travel limits, and the pressure that comes with planning ahead. We share what has worked for us, what we learned the hard way, and the small steps that make these seasons easier for everyone involved.If you’re navigating holidays as co-parents, we hope this episode gives you clear, simple guidance and a little peace of mind.📱 Follow Us on InstagramParents & Professors Podcast: / parentsandprofessorspodDr. Michael Steven Williams: / drmikewillDr. Marjorie Dorimé-Williams: / drminimarj🕒 CHAPTERS0:00 Intro1:00 Regular custody schedule vs holiday schedule9:15 Calendar negotiation13:30 Caring for aging parents and holiday priorities19:10 Spring Break, summer, and major holiday planning22:30 Understanding the other parent’s perspective25:35 Planning ahead to reduce conflict27:20 Travel plans: what is flexible and what is not35:35 Communication expectations and check-ins42:10 Why flexibility makes everything easier#CoParenting #HolidayCustody #ParentingPodcastDisclaimer:The information shared in this video is for general discussion only. We are not responsible for any decisions you make based on this content. Please use your own judgment and do your own research before taking action on anything discussed here.Copyright Notice:This video may include dialogue, music, or images that are not owned by Co-Parenting Compass. Image credit: Unsplash.com. You may share or embed this video as long as you include a clear link back to our YouTube channel.

In this episode, Dr. Marjorie Dorimé-Williams and Dr. Michael Steven Williams talk about why dating after divorce can feel harder for people who are good co-parents. They explain how having a healthy relationship with an ex can make you look stable and attractive, but also make new partners nervous or jealous.The conversation covers dating boundaries, trust issues, emotional triggers, and why some people struggle to date someone who communicates well with their ex. They also talk about red flags like calling every ex a narcissist, people who fear co-parenting setups, and partners who struggle with shared parenting routines.You’ll also hear their thoughts on when to introduce new partners to your kids, what children learn from the relationships they watch, and how to build safe and respectful communication in new relationships.This episode is for anyone who is dating after divorce, co-parenting, or trying to understand how parenting and relationships intersect.📱 Follow Us on InstagramParents & Professors Podcast: / parentsandprofessorspodDr. Michael Steven Williams: / drmikewillDr. Marjorie Dorimé-Williams: / drminimarj🕒 CHAPTERS0:00 Intro1:00 Dating boundaries in co-parenting situations4:30 The jealousy problem13:00 Learning from past relationships20:30 Building trust and emotional safety24:00 When to introduce a new partner to your kids28:00 What your kids learn from watching you38:00 Co-parenting logistics when new partners join42:00 Mutual respect and healthy communication#CoParenting #DatingAfterDivorce #ParentsAndProfessorsPodcast Disclaimer:The information shared in this video is for general discussion only. We are not responsible for any decisions you make based on this content. Please use your own judgment and do your own research before taking action on anything discussed here.Copyright Notice:This video may include dialogue, music, or images that are not owned by Co-Parenting Compass. Image credit: Unsplash.com. You may share or embed this video as long as you include a clear link back to our YouTube channel.

Can you truly find love again after divorce? ❤️‍🩹In Episode 55, we uncover the raw, honest, and often overlooked realities of dating, partnership, and co-parenting after divorce. Dr. Michael Steven Williams and Dr. Marjorie Dorimé-Williams open up about navigating new relationships while raising children, rebuilding identity, and healing from the past — all while challenging societal expectations of what divorced families “should” look like.

In this deeply personal and thoughtful conversation, the hosts break down:

✔️ How to honor your children and your new partner

✔️ Why co-parents who actually get along can redefine the narrative

✔️ The role race plays in dating and societal perception✔️ How to step into a new, empowered version of yourself after marriage

✔️ What patience, communication, and emotional maturity really mean in modern co-parenting

From navigating new partners to addressing old wounds, this episode offers real, lived wisdom for anyone in the post-divorce chapter — whether you’re dating again, co-parenting, or simply rebuilding.💡 Subscribe for weekly episodes that help parents, educators & leaders navigate relationships with clarity, compassion, and confidence.

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💰 Episode 54 - Money Talks: Drama-Free Co-Parenting Financial Conversations | Parents & Professors PodcastIn this powerful new episode of the Parents & Professors Podcast, Dr. Marjorie Dorime-Williams and Dr. Michael Steven Williams open up about one of the most common yet complicated parts of family life — money. Whether you’re co-parenting, married, or managing separate households, financial conversations can quickly turn tense. But what if talking about money could actually bring you closer as parents — and help you raise confident, financially aware kids?This week’s episode, “Money Talks: Drama-Free Co-Parenting Financial Conversations,” explores just that. Drawing from their personal experiences as parents and educators, Dr. Marjorie and Dr. Michael share how they navigate the challenges of budgeting, setting priorities, and communicating about finances with empathy and understanding.💬 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:1️⃣ Introduction – Setting the StageDr. Marjorie and Dr. Michael start with an honest reflection on why money can often feel like a taboo topic in relationships — especially in co-parenting situations. They break down the emotional side of financial decision-making and why transparency is key to keeping relationships drama-free.2️⃣ Personal Financial ExperiencesBoth hosts share candid stories from their own journeys with money — the wins, the struggles, and the lessons learned along the way. From balancing family expenses to handling unexpected costs, their personal insights create a safe space for parents to reflect on their own money habits without guilt or blame.3️⃣ Financial Experts and FrameworksTo help guide listeners toward practical solutions, the hosts highlight frameworks from financial experts like Dave Ramsey and Tiffany Aliche (The Budgetnista). They explain concepts like zero-based budgeting, the envelope system, and spending with intention, showing how these strategies can be adapted to fit any family dynamic.4️⃣ Budgeting Strategies that WorkDr. Michael and Dr. Marjorie discuss how budgeting doesn’t have to be restrictive — it’s about building a shared vision. They emphasize the importance of aligning financial goals with your family’s values, setting clear expectations with your co-parent, and creating a sustainable plan that works for everyone.5️⃣ Parenting and Money LessonsOne of the most insightful parts of this episode focuses on teaching kids about money. The hosts share age-appropriate ways to involve children in financial discussions — from letting them help plan grocery lists to encouraging saving for something they really want. By teaching kids the difference between needs and wants, parents can nurture independence, confidence, and respect for money.6️⃣ Conclusion and ChallengeThe episode wraps up with a meaningful challenge for parents: have one open, judgment-free financial conversation this week with your co-parent or partner. Use this opportunity to express your priorities, listen to theirs, and find common ground. It’s not about numbers — it’s about building trust and teamwork.🧠 Key Takeaways:Communicate openly and frequently about financesCreate a shared vision for financial goalsBudget together based on mutual respect and valuesTeach children early about saving, spending, and givingReplace blame with understanding and teamwork🌱 Perfect For:Parents navigating co-parenting or blended familiesCouples looking to strengthen financial communication👩‍🏫 About the HostsDr. Marjorie Dorime-Williams and Dr. Michael Steven Williams are educators, parents, and podcast hosts passionate about bridging the gap between research and real-life parenting. Through honest conversations and personal storytelling, they help families navigate topics like communication, discipline, education, and emotional well-being — all with humor, empathy, and insight.

In the latest episode of Parents & Professors Podcast, Dr. Marjorie Dorime-Williams and Dr. Michael Steven Williams dive deep into one of the most sensitive yet essential topics in co-parenting: finances. 💰 Whether you’re married, divorced, or co-parenting after separation, money can often become a source of tension. This episode is your ultimate parenting guide on how to communicate about finances without letting it turn into conflict.Dr. Marjorie and Dr. Michael share both personal stories and expert insights, drawing from their experiences as educators, parents, and partners. They explore how to create a shared financial framework that works for both co-parents — one that reflects mutual respect, values, and priorities.💬 Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:How to talk about money with your co-parent without escalating into arguments.Why budgeting as a team helps reduce parenting problems before they start.The role of financial transparency in raising confident, secure kids.How to set healthy money habits and teach your children about financial responsibility.As part of this practical parenting guide for new parents and experienced co-parents alike, the hosts discuss common financial struggles families face — from deciding who buys the kids’ soccer cleats to managing unexpected expenses like medical bills or school trips. Their advice helps you navigate these challenges while keeping your co-parenting relationship healthy and constructive.💡 Dr. Michael highlights the importance of introducing money management to kids early. By including children in age-appropriate discussions about budgeting and saving, parents can help them learn to distinguish between needs and wants — a valuable life skill. This approach fits perfectly into a parenting guide to positive discipline, where open conversations foster respect and understanding instead of conflict or secrecy.Throughout the episode, the hosts reference popular financial experts like Tiffany Aliche (The Budgetnista) and Dave Ramsey, sharing how concepts like zero-based budgeting and the envelope system have helped families stay organized and stress-free with their finances. These methods can be adapted to any parenting style, from those managing newborn expenses to those guiding teens toward responsible independence.🎧 Why this episode matters:Money disagreements are one of the most common sources of tension between co-parents. But when handled with empathy and clarity, financial discussions can strengthen the parenting partnership instead of breaking it. This episode is a comprehensive parenting guide for co-parents, helping you communicate effectively, build trust, and model financial wisdom for your kids.👨‍👩‍👧 Key Takeaways:Communicate early and often about finances.Create shared goals instead of competing priorities.Involve children in simple budgeting lessons.Use real-world examples to teach financial responsibility.Practice patience, understanding, and transparency.If you’re searching for a parenting guide for newborns, or wondering how to manage money when your child turns two, this episode offers timeless strategies that adapt to every parenting stage. From baby expenses to college savings, Dr. Marjorie and Dr. Michael provide actionable insights for parents who want to raise financially savvy, emotionally grounded children.This episode doesn’t just address parenting problems — it offers long-term solutions. It’s more than a talk about money; it’s a roadmap for cooperation, growth, and positive communication.📺 Perfect for:Parents navigating co-parenting or blended familiesNew parents looking for a realistic parenting guide for new parentsFamilies working toward better communication and financial planningAnyone interested in positive parenting strategies and money management

Our attempt at minute markers:

• Defining DEI Hires & Imposter Phenomenon | 1:00 

• Stereotype Management | 10:00

• Organizational Survival Tactics | 15:08

• “Skinfolk” and “Kinfolk” | 21:54

• Practical Strategies to Focus on Your Purpose | 28:16

• Is this an Individual or System-wide Problem? | 37:00

Scholar Shoutout:

• Dr. Donte Bernard

• Charles H.F. Davis III

Links:

• What DEI Really Means: Beyond Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion 

• A Culturally Informed Model of the Development of the Impostor Phenomenon Among African American Youth | Adolescent Research Review 

• Let’s Reconceptualize “Imposter Syndrome” for People of Color | Harvard Business Publishing Education

• Race and Reactions to Women’s Expressions of Anger at Work: Examining the Effects of the “Angry Black Woman” Stereotype

• What are some best practices for documenting your achievements and challenges throughout the year?

• Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High, Third Edition

  
  Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It

  
  

What happens when two professor-parents apply their grading mindset to real life? From juggling academic careers with teenager drama to finding consistency in the chaos of co-parenting, this episode captures that universal parent feeling: we're doing okay, not perfect, but okay. From their C+ divorce to parenting wins, this episode is perfect for anyone who's ever wondered if they're winning at life or just getting by with a decent GPA.

Our Attempt at Minute Markers:

Grading Our Divorce | 1:00 

Grading Our Lives | 6:00

If millennials loved alcohol less… | 16:00

Parenting Grades | 20:21

Second Half Goals | 35:45

Scholar Shoutout:

Dr. Laila McCloud 

Links:

• Ungrading

• How Faculty Members Influence Credit Transfer At Four-year Institutions 

• Millennials parenting their teens be like...

• Florida’s GOP Presidential Hiring Spree 

• Trying everclear for the first time...
  

Our Attempt at Minute Markers:

• Big 50 | 1:00

• Don’t Quit | 4:15

• Picking Sides | 7:06

• Who Tells Your Story | 13:00

Links:

In this episode, your favorite Triple Cs (co-parents, colleagues, collaborators), Drs. Dorimé-Williams and Williams, get real about everyday moments that carry profound meaning. We open up about the emotional landscape of divorce, sharing hard-won lessons about patience, presence, and emotional sobriety. We also dive into Careless People by Sarah Wynne Williams, a revealing look inside Facebook’s culture and shocking but not surprising dysfunction. We highly recommend this book!

Be sure to check out the links in the show notes!

Our Attempt at Minute Markers:

• Excuse me, I’m standing here! | 1:00

• Living a Quarter Mile at a Time | Invincible | Hown You Spend Your Time | Time is Different  | 4:48

• Midlife Crises & Patience  | 8:08

• Careless People by Sarah Wynn-Williams | 20:00

• Culturally Responsive Teaching: Theory, Research, & Practice by Geneva Gay | 25:09

• Marj in the City - Humour & Joy | 26:58

Links:

• Invincible (TV Series 2021– ) - IMDb

• Careless People 

• Sarah Wynn-Williams on 'Careless People,' her memoir on her time at Meta : NPR's Book of the Day : NPR 

• Trump signs executive order directing federal funding cuts to PBS and NPR

• Boeing whistleblower died by suicide, police investigation reveals | CNN Business

• Donate : NPR 

• Donate : PBS

• ERIC - ED581130 - Culturally Responsive Teaching: Theory, Research, and Practice. Third Edition. Multicultural Education Series, Teachers College Press, 2018-Jan-26    

• Friends - Mônica Get a Boyfriend With Drinking Problems 

• Suits (TV Series 2011–2019) - IMDb

Your favorite Triple Cs (co-parents, colleagues, collaborators), Drs. Dorimé-Williams and Williams tackle (a) systemic racism, (b) school policies and inequality, and (c) the power of everyday activism. 

Our Attempt at Minute Markers:

• Schools, Society, and Sacrifice | 1:00

• This is (Still) America/Everyone is (Not) Middle-class | 5:00

• School Choice Scams |11:40

• Spheres of Influence | 19:10 

• Made for Greatness Not Comfort | 23:09 

• Lock Them Up | 29:25

Links:

• Opinion | The Biggest Threat to Public Education Is Coming From an Unexpected Place - POLITICO

• Plain Language Explainer - Texas v. Becerra (504 Case)

• Many New York employers discriminate against minorities, ex-offenders 

• Racial and ethnic discrimination in US history

• PRRI Survey: Friendship Networks of White Americans Continue to Be 90% White

• The Color of Law: A Forgotten History of How Our Government Segregated America | Economic Policy Institute

• The Racist History Of “School Choice”

• Arkansas’s school voucher application asked if parents were seeking ‘a different racial mix of students’

• Long Island Divided: Segregation of blacks, whites was built into the history of LI and persists today - Newsday 

• Dumb it Down by Lupe Fiasco 

• How to honor Jackie Robinson? Defend his legacy from those who wish to erase him. | Opinion 

• Interactive: How key groups of Americans voted in 2024 | PBS News

• McCarthyism | Red Scare | The First Amendment Encyclopedia

• Japanese Internment Camps: WWII, Life & Conditions | HISTORY 

• Volunteers Use Bullhorns and Sirens to Warn Immigrants When ICE Is in Their Area