Paris in NYC

Paris in NYC

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  • You broke us, You broke me
    Hola! Welcome to Episode 2 of Paris in NYC! February 17 was my one year Breakaversary! It’s been exactly one year since I broke up with my ex. In episode 2 of season 1, I walked you through the beginning of my healing journey, and for the last 6 months, I never even thought of him. However, the few weeks leading to our “Breakaversary,” he had been constantly on my mind, so I did what most Dominicans do and I went to see a “psychic” and had my cards read. The first card she pulled said that I was still chained to my past, she suggested that I write an honest letter to my ex and burn it afterwards in order to release the ties that I still had to him. So I did, but I decided to share what I wrote because that’s what makes this podcast so great, the fact that I’m so willing to be as honest as possible in hopes that others realize that they aren’t alone in what they are going through. After I recorded this podcast, I burned the letter, and since then, he hasn’t been much of a thought. Sometimes, you do need closure, and you have to do that in whatever way is best for you.
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    Here is what to expect:
    00:00- Introduction
    04:44- The letter
    16:43- Conclusion
    20 min
  • Dating After the Papers
    Hola! Welcome to the first episode of Season 2 of Paris in NYC! I am so honored to be starting another season. Thank you to everyone that has supported me, listened, and shared! I never imagined that I would have a podcast and never ever that I would commit to it the way I have. I feel very blessed to be continuing on this path.
    In this episode I am accompanied by Ronaldo and we discuss what dating is like after the divorce papers have been signed!
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    Here is what to expect:
    00:00- Introduction
    00:48- Ronaldo introduces himself
    01:26- Did you want the divorce and if so at what point did you realize that it is better to separate than to try to repair the relationship?
    06:09- What’s dating been like after the divorce?
    20:49- After your divorce did you just jump into dating or did you take time to yourself?
    23:42- Do you want to get married again?
    37:14- Are you completely over your ex?
    39:00- What was lacking in your old relationship that you want in someone new that you are dating?
    45:09- Last minute thoughts
    48 min
  • Sex, toys, and everything nice ;)
    Hola! Welcome to episode 13 of Paris in NYC!
    In this episode we raise the heat in the studio, the fire alarms almost went off with all the smoke from this fire conversation. I am accompanied by Aceite (Ig: @aceiteee__) from Brooklyn and Drew (Ig: @fbo_lifestyle) from Freeport and we talk about the world’s favorite, yet most taboo topic, sex!
    WARNING: EXPLICIT CONTENT-18 YEAR OLDS AND OLDER!!!
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    Here is what to expect:
    00:00- Introduction
    01:24- Are piercings attractive and acceptable?
    05:43- How long do people wait to give head?
    13:06- Favorite positions
    17:04- Sex is important in relationships
    20:53- Do guys get intimidated if a girl is putting the moves on you and being aggressive?
    25:39- Hoe phase
    30:40- Does size matter
    38:19- Tossing Salad- thoughts?
    47:46- Respect
    51:14- 3 somes and Poly relationships
    1:00:55- Do you have people you can link when you want to?
    1:06:36- Drew gets a blocked call and picks up on air!!!
    1:10:10- Sex toys
    1:15:53- One night stands- thoughts?
    1:19:00- Do guys stop trying after they hit it?
    1:23:09- Dating someone that’s out of your comfort zone
    1:29:26- Last words
    1 hr 34 min
  • 05/19/2001
    Hola! Welcome to episode 12 of Paris in NYC! This episode was really hard for me to record, I was really sick and had lost my voice and kept messing up and having to re record every 30 seconds. I was also just very emotional because the person I spoke about in this episode was someone that was very dear to me, and I wished that I would have realized that while I still had time to dedicate more time to speaking with him while he was alive. I made the mistake of feeling the comfort of thinking that he would always be around and we would grow old together and talk often about our lives. But comfort is something that I learned is not promised. He was so important to me and I didn’t even know it. His death put a lot of things into perspective for me and it triggered a lot of changes in my life. I recorded this two weeks ago and could not get around to writing a summary for it and therefore was holding off on releasing it, but here it is, and this is from the heart, because everything else I speak about on the podcast is honest, raw, and true to myself. Thank you for watching over me, I miss you and love you dearly.
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    Here is what to expect:
    00:00- Introduction
    00:43- The most romantic boyfriend I ever had
    03:50- The funeral that changed my perspective
    10:49- The loneliest year of my life
    14:01- A first date
    16:33- The 4 stages of a relationship
    21:18- Self awareness
    22:51- Nilson I miss you and love you, thank you
    26 min
  • It starts with YOU

    Hola! Welcome to episode 11 of Paris in NYC! In this episode I am accompanied by Jose Cruz (Ig: @_therealmozo), an advocate for mental health and the neighborhood love dealer from Brooklyn, NY. In this episode, Jose shares insights, personal stories, motivation, and highlights the importance of mental health for everyone, but especially for men.

    Mental health awareness is not something that is as widespread as it should be. It is crucial as it dismantles stigma, fosters empathy, and encourages open conversations about mental well-being. By increasing awareness, society becomes more informed about the prevalence of mental health issues, leading to better understanding, support, and resources for those affected. It’s important to have a support group, and surround yourself with people that love you. Listen to the episode now!

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    Here is what to expect:
    00:00- Introduction
    01:08- What inspired you to speak about mental health struggles?
    05:15- What is the number one thing that works for you?
    12:51- Story time with Paris
    18:30- Why do men feel like they can't cry?
    23:03- How we can start addressing mental health within our circle?
    30:50- Does getting rejected by women affect a men's mental health?
    36:28- I ask Jose about how he talks at schools about mental health
    46:07- When is the right time to consider speaking to a therapist?
    49:32- What is the biggest misconception about mental health that you would like to dispel?
    1:01:01- Last words


    1 hr 7 min
  • Starry Night
    Hola! When I first started my podcast, someone told me that people hardly make it to episode 10. Well, I guess I can now say that I have an established podcast since this is my 10th episode!!! I also just turned 39 years old on November 5th! In this episode I open up about the emotions that had overwhelmed me and sent me down a spiral of sadness and tears the weeks leading up to my birthday. I had decided to escape for a bit and went back to my motherland, the Dominican Republic for the first time in 17 years. I knew what I expected going on this trip, to have many drunken nights by the pool with my friends. But I did not expect the revelation that I would have on one Starry Night. Listen and find out what it was.
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    Here is what to expect in this episode:
    00:00- Introduction to how I was feeling the days leading up to my birthday
    2:46- I arrived at my vacation in DR
    5:15- I make dinner with strangers outside of the resort awkward
    7:54- The worse engagement proposal in history
    8:56- Starry Night
    9:41- Making the decision to leave Mi Bebe Lindo
    10:39- My cousin visits and I leave Mr. Biggs from Episode 5
    14:39- The mistakes that women make when they first start dating
    18:20- I explain what Letting the Ice form means when dating
    20:54- My Revelation
    23:21- I open up about my struggle with my identity
    24:51- My purpose
    27 min
  • F*boys and Situationships

    Hola! Welcome to episode 9 of Paris in NYC! In this episode I am accompanied by a good friend of mine, Hikari (Ig: @hikari.meraki). We talk about what a F*boy is, what is considered a situationship, and share some of our own stories. This episode is filled with a lot of laughter and insight on the topic.


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    1 hr 7 min
  • Transparency

    Hola! Welcome to episode 8 of Paris in NYC! In this episode I am joined by my best friend, Mr. Mercado. In the evolving landscape of modern day dating, we delve into the complex world of relationships from a man's perspective. I incorporate questions that my instagram followers had for him, and we even discuss the viral list of places that women refuse to go on a first date. He discusses what made him choose his wife, how social media has affected dating, and about narcissistic relationships. This is an episode that you don't want to miss!


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    Here is what to expect on this episode:

    00:18- Mr. Mercado introduction

    00:42- Asking Mercado what made him choose his wife

    3:14- Story about a friend that risked his relationship for a chance to sleep with another girl

    5:40- Have you ever tried dating apps? Or do you prefer meeting people in person?

    8:28- Do all men cheat?

    10:11- Why string a woman along if you know you will never make her your gf?

    16:54- What should a man provide/take care of in a relationship?

    19:10- We talk about the viral list of places women do not want to go to on a first date.

    30:08- How do you feel about a woman hitting on you?

    34:33- Have you ever dated a narcissist and how did you escape/heal from that?


    49 min
  • Cat Calling

    Hola! Welcome to episode 7 of Paris in NYC! In this episode I talk about the harassment that women go through from as early as their teenage years and have to learn to live with as it follows them through different stages of their growth. I also talk about an experience I had in which I ended up finding myself in a "body rub" place where I got to get details of the experience these girls have that work at these businesses. The Me Too movement was something that ended too soon, and I encourage my listeners and every women to find ways to speak up and use their voice because one voice goes unheard, but in unity we stand strong. Let's help make a better future for our children.


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    31 min
  • Love From Within

    Hola! Welcome to the 6th episode of Paris in NYC! In this episode I am accompanied by two friends, Denzel and Marci. We dive into what dating and relationships is like in the LGBTQ community. Listen as they share some stories that will leave you with your mouth open, as well as make you take back any thoughts you might have had of dating being easier in the LGBTQ community. We also touch base on some very hard, but honest truths that members of the community must face on a daily basis even in a liberal state like NY.


    If you or anyone you know is a teen or young adult that needs advice, support, or has been kicked out of their home please refer to these links posted below for help.

    https://www.aliforneycenter.org/

    https://www.newalternativesnyc.org/

    https://ny.covenanthouse.org/

    https://gaycenter.org/youth/

    https://www.nyp.org/acn/community-programs/project-stay


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    1 hr 14 min

About Paris in NYC

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Welcome to Paris in NYC! You guessed it I’m Paris born and raised in the heart of the big apple. I’m a basic NYC girl that’s trying to find love in a hookup culture! Travel with me through my dating…