As we return
to it today, let’s dedicate our learning—לרפואת יצחק בן מרגלית, and לעילוי
נשמת ניסים בן סלחה, the father of our dear friend Jessica. May the light of
Torah we uncover today bring healing, elevation, and connection.  

 Pesach Sheni is the holiday of second chances.  

 Lamah nigara? Why should we be left behind? 

 Amalek attacked us on Pesach Sheni. And when you
hear that, it’s like — whoa. 

Of all the days Amalek could choose to attack… He chooses
the day that screams, “It’s never too late.”   

 Amalek stands for doubt. 

The Torah hints at it: the word “Amalek” shares the same gematria as safek — doubt. 

He’s the voice that whispers, 

“You missed your shot.” 

“You’re not worthy.” 

“You can’t fix it.”  

 When Amalek attacks, Moshe goes up on a hill. And what does he do? 

 He raises his hands. 

 And the Torah says: “When Moshe’s hands were raised, Israel prevailed. And when he lowered them, Amalek prevailed.” 

 Now the Mishnah in Rosh Hashanah asks the obvious question: 

Was it Moshe’s hands that won the war? 

 And the answer? No. 

It was when the people looked up — when they lifted their hearts to Hashem — that’s when they had strength. 

 Moshe’s hands were a signal. A reminder. Look up.
Don’t fall into despair. This battle isn’t yours alone.  

 So what is Pesach Sheni really? 

 Perhaps it’s the most anti-Amalek day in the whole Torah. 

 Because Amalek says: “You’re done.” 

And Pesach Sheni says: “You’ve just begun.” 

 Amalek says: “You missed it.” 

Pesach Sheni says: “Come back in.” 

Amalek tells you: “You’ll never get out of this.” 

And Pesach Sheni says: “There’s always a second chance.” 

  And that’s how we fight Amalek. With emunah. With second chances. With lifted hands — and lifted hearts.   

Before we begin today’s episode, I want to dedicate these words—to the ones who teach us love not through speeches, but through presence. 

To all the wives, mothers, and grandmothers who build homes of kindness and strength…

And personally—to my own wife, on the occasion of our 40th wedding anniversary.
Forty years of building, of growing, of learning what love really means—together.  

And on this special day, I’m thinking of our dear friends: Elliot and Sheffi, and Cary and Nancy—also celebrating forty years of marriage today. Ken yirbu—may their love continue to multiply, inspire, and shine.  

This episode is for all of you. 

Now let’s talk about a love that’s not just romantic—but redemptive. 

Love like this… 

There’s a kind of love the Torah calls holy. 

Yesterday we read Parshat Kedoshim—“You shall be holy, for I, Hashem your God, am holy.” And as we mark Mother’s Day, the timing feels just right. Because the Torah doesn’t just teach us how to believe—it teaches us how to love. And what we find… is that real love isn't about feelings. It's about structure. It’s about presence. It’s about giving.  

Lets take a deep dive into one of the most haunting and misunderstood moments in the Torah: the death of Nadav and Avihu, the sons of Aharon HaKohen.  

We’ll follow their story from Parshat Shemini, through the intervening portions of Tazria and Metzora, all the way to this weeks Acharei Mot and Kedoshim—and reframe their deaths not as tragedy, but as the highest form of intimacy and divine love.  

Along the way, we’ll weave together Tanach, Chazal, and the breathtaking vision of the Bat Ayin, who teaches us about the transformative power of a lev nishbar, a broken heart.   

This week, we’re reading a double perasha of Tazria. And Mesorah. These are two parshiyot that, at first glance, seem… not exactly glamorous. 

(Based on the Teachings of the Shvilei Pinchas, our teacher, Rabbi Pinchas Friedman) 

 They’re all about strange skin conditions — tzara’at — rituals of impurity, offerings involving birds and wood and wool and hyssop. 

  But hidden within all this is a breathtaking teaching — a teaching about speech, pride, humility, and ultimately: finding our center point. 

First, a little background: 

The Torah teaches    

אָדָ֗ם כִּֽי־יִהְיֶ֤ה
בְעוֹר־בְּשָׂרוֹ֙ שְׂאֵ֤ת אֽוֹ־סַפַּ֙חַת֙ א֣וֹ בַהֶ֔רֶת וְהָיָ֥ה בְעוֹר־בְּשָׂר֖וֹ
לְנֶ֣גַע צָרָ֑עַת וְהוּבָא֙ אֶל־אַהֲרֹ֣ן הַכֹּהֵ֔ן א֛וֹ אֶל־אַחַ֥ד מִבָּנָ֖יו הַכֹּהֲנִֽים׃ 

When a person has on the skin of the body a swelling, a rash, or a discoloration, and it develops into a scaly affection on the skin of the body, it shall be
reported to Aaron the priest or to one of his sons, the priests.   

Chag Haatzma'ut Same'ach inspired by an essay by Rabbi Shabtai Sabato

YOM HAATZMA’UT page 297

 Today, we celebrate not only a date on the calendar or a declaration from 1948—we celebrate the beginning of the fulfillment of a 2,000-year-old dream. A dream born in the heart of Yaakov Avinu. Carried by David HaMelech. Whispered in the wind of every exile. And now, with Hashem’s kindness, unfolding before our very eyes in Eretz Yisrael. 

  Let us journey together through history, Torah, exile, and return, guided by the
teachings of HaRav Rabbi Shabtai Sabato . His powerful words help us understand what we’re really celebrating today.  

The Seruf for Iyar is a Yud and Heh followed by a Heh and Vav based on the pasuk: “יתהלל המתהלל השכל וידוע אותי” — “Let the one who praises, praise only through understanding and knowing Me.”  

Based on the Teachings of:

The Peri Tzaddik (פרי צדיק) is the name of a famous sefer written by Rabbi Tzadok HaKohen of Lublin (1823–1900). He was a major Chassidic thinker, originally from a Lithuanian, non-Chassidic background, but later became a close disciple of the Izbicer Rebbe, the Mei HaShiloach. 

AND Sefer Chayyim VaChesed by Rebbe Chaim Chaykl of Amdur (ר' חיים חייקל מאמדור), one of the great early Chassidic Rebbes from Lithuania, a talmid of the Maggid of Mezeritch, and a powerful force in spreading Chassidut into the Lithuanian world. It appears that the sefer was printed posthumously, in 1891 — long after his petirah — based on manuscripts and traditions from his students. 

 This Rosh Chodesh Iyar, we journey into the secret of healing through small, mindful actions. Discover how listening, da’at, and refining our daily life connect
even the simplest moments back to Hashem — and reveal hidden light.  

Chodesh Iyar, we journey into the secret of healing through small, mindful
actions. Discover how listening, da’at, and refining our daily life connect
even the simplest moments back to Hashem — and reveal hidden light.  

Parshat Shemini, a parsha that holds an astonishing secret: the exact midpoint of the Torah — both in words and in letters — is found here. But it’s not just a cool
trivia fact. This secret reveals a deeper message about Torah, support for
Torah, and the spiritual roles we play.  

The Torah's Midpoints — More Than Math In Vayikra 10:16, we find the phrase: 'ואת שעיר
החטאת דרש דרש משה והנה שרף' “Moshe inquired insistently about the goat
of the sin-offering, and behold, it had been burned.' 

Now here’s
the gematria-level nugget: the word 'דרש' appears twice
— and this double appearance marks the midpoint of the words of the Torah. 

Then in Vayikra 11:42, in the list of forbidden creeping creatures, we read: 'כל
הולך על גחון' “Anything that moves on its belly...' The letter 'vav'
in the word 'גחון' is the midpoint of the letters of the Torah — and it’s traditionally written larger than normal. The Gemara in Kiddushin 30a and Maseches Sofrim teach us that our sages were called 'sofrim' — counters — precisely because they counted every letter and word. 

But why would Hashem arrange for these midpoints to land here?