When I Do Turns Into I Don't "The WoWs Of The VoW's", A ministry to help singles prepare for marriage, to help teach and prepare divorced men and women and to those who are married that needs enhancement, to be strengthened and to help restore the marriage from hurt, betrayal or brokenness. earning it through the Word of God. Always know this, "Divorce is not an Option by God, But a Choice by Man. Malachi 2:10-16 Matthew 19:8. If you are divided in your marriage, you're unbalanced. In order for you to be on the same page, you must be together in everything and separated in nothing.