Todaywe are talking about choosing to stay for the sake of others, and we arefocusing on Philippians 1:24, where Paul writes, “Nevertheless, to remain inthe flesh is more needful for you.” Now Paul has just said in verse 23 thatbeing with Christ is far better. But now he shifts his focus from his desire tohis responsibility. He begins this verse by saying, “Nevertheless.” Inother words, even though I long to be with Christ, to remain in the flesh ismore needful for you.
Thisis one of the clearest pictures of selfless living in the New Testament. Paulis saying, “Oh goodness, it is far better for me to go to heaven, but it isbetter for you if I stay.” He chooses to stay for their sake. This reflectswhat we also learn in Philippians 2:3–4: “Let each of you look out not onlyfor your own interests, but also for the interests of others.”
Italso reflects the example of our Lord Jesus Christ that we read in Philippians2:5–8, who humbled Himself for us: “Let this mind be in you which was alsoin Christ Jesus, who, being in the form of God, did not consider it robbery tobe equal with God, but made Himself of no reputation, taking the form of abondservant, and coming in the likeness of men. And being found in appearanceas a man, He, Jesus Christ, humbled Himself and became obedient to the point ofdeath, even the death of the cross.”
Jesusalso gave us an example in Mark 10:44–45. Jesus said to His disciples, “Whoeverof you desires to be first shall be slave of all. For even the Son of Man didnot come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom.” TheApostle Paul is living that out. Paul is willing to delay his own joy so thatothers can grow. I am telling you, my friend, this is real love.
Thisalso reminds us of 1 Corinthians 15:58, where he wrote in that greatresurrection chapter, “Be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work ofthe Lord.” Paul saw ministry not as a burden but as a privilege in serving theLord Jesus Christ. Even though he faced pressure, imprisonments, and hardships,he still wanted to stay because he knew there was still work that needed to bedone.
Paul gives us a glimpse of the hardships he faced in 2Corinthians 11:22–28: “Are they Hebrews? So am I. Are theyIsraelites? So am I. Are they the seed of Abraham? So am I. Are they ministersof Christ? (I speak as a fool.) I am more: in labors more abundant, in stripesabove measure, in prisons more frequently, in deaths often. From the Jews fivetimes I received forty stripes minus one. Three times I was beaten with rods.Once I was stoned. Three times I was shipwrecked. A night and a day I have beenin the deep. In journeys often, in perils of waters, in perils of robbers, inperils of my own countrymen, in perils of the Gentiles, in perils in the city,in perils in the wilderness, in perils in the sea, in perils among falsebrethren, in weariness and toil, in sleeplessness often, in hunger and thirst,in fastings often, in cold and nakedness—besides the other things, what comesupon me daily: my deep concern for all the churches.”
Nowlisten, my friend, we think we have it tough. Did you just hear what Paul saidhe has already gone through in his ministry? And yet he says, “I choose to staybecause it is more needful for me to be with you, even though I would muchrather be with Christ.” You can see why he would rather be with Christ inheaven. But he says, “It is needful for me to stay for you.” Oh, for the sakeof others—serving others despite the hardships that we face even now in ourlives.
So,let us bring this home today. Your life matters to others. There are people whoneed your encouragement, your example, and your prayers. Staying is sometimesharder than leaving, but God calls us to stay and serve. True maturity putsothers first. It does not ask, “What do I want?” but, “What do others need, andwhat can I do to encourage them?”
Paulchose duty over desire. May God help us to do the same today.