Pastors on Porn

There is an entire movement under the banner of "Sex Positive" which has pushed against the Christian sex ethic as being harmful and repressive. In this episode Vern pushes back on some of the teaching by discussing how "Sex Postive" is far from "sex positive".

I love to talk to Pastors - especially those who are looking to deal with their unmanageable sexual behaviors.

If you need a safe place to talk - you can reach out to me at

[email protected]

You can also see some more resources on my website

https://bandofbrothers.care

Dr Laura Nelson is a pastor who works with couples who are struggling with sexual brokenness. In this episode she describes some of the things she has learned along with way.

I love to talk to Pastors - especially those who are looking to deal with their unmanageable sexual behaviors.

If you need a safe place to talk - you can reach out to me at

[email protected]

You can also see some more resources on my website

https://bandofbrothers.care

One of the biggest questions in dealing with sexually broken people is how do we discern between true and false repentance? In this episode we discuss that difficult topic.

I love to talk to Pastors - especially those who are looking to deal with their unmanageable sexual behaviors.

If you need a safe place to talk - you can reach out to me at

[email protected]

You can also see some more resources on my website

https://www.bandofbrothers.care

Repentance is a word you hear alot about in the church. What is it and how do we approach this topic when we are struggling (despite our best efforts) to quit looking at porn?

I love to talk to Pastors - especially those who are looking to deal with their unmanageable sexual behaviors.

If you need a safe place to talk - you can reach out to me at

[email protected]

You can also see some more resources on my website

https://bandofbrothers.care

In the last podcast we introduced the idea of being a conflicted pastor when it comes to being used by God. Today we turn to the other side - what is it like to be a non-conflicted pastor?

I love to talk to Pastors - especially those who are looking to deal with their unmanageable sexual behaviors.

If you need a safe place to talk - you can reach out to me at

[email protected]

You can also see some more resources on my website

https://bandofbrothers.care

In this first part of a two part series Vern explores the idea of being conflicted vs. being non-conflicted in our ministry as a pastor.

In this episode he interviews Darrel Brazzell about his own conflicted journey with sexual brokenness and how God has both changed his life and used him to help other men.


I love to talk to Pastors - especially those who are looking to deal with their unmanageable sexual behaviors.  If you need a safe place to talk - you can reach out to me at

[email protected]

You can also see some more resources on my website

https://bandofbrothers.care

I (Vern) have been immensely helped by having a recovery coach. In this episode Vern interviews one of his mentors, Michael Leahy, as to the role that coaching can play in your recovery.

I love to talk to Pastors - especially those who are looking to deal with their unmanageable sexual behaviors.

If you need a safe place to talk - you can reach out to me at

[email protected]

You can also see some more resources on my website

https://bandofbrothers.care

Can God still use me despite my ongoing struggles to walk completely free from behaviors like porn? In this episode Vern interviews Matt Cline and they discuss that topic.

Matt is the Director of Restored Ministries and can be reached at

https://www.restoredministries.ca


I (Vern) ove to talk to Pastors - especially those who are looking to deal with their unmanageable sexual behaviors.

If you need a safe place to talk - you can reach out to me at

[email protected]

You can also see some more resources on my website

https://bandofbrothers.care

Probably my favorite porn recovery book is Surfing for God by Michael Cusick. In this episode I am honored to interview the author.

I love to talk to Pastors - especially those who are looking to deal with their unmanageable sexual behaviors.

If you need a safe place to talk - you can reach out to me at

[email protected]

You can also see some more resources on my website

https://bandofbrothers.care

What is the biggest lie we need to tell ourselves to continue our porn use? In this episode Vern (in a round about way) gets there!


I love to talk to Pastors - especially those who are looking to deal with their unmanageable sexual behaviors.

If you need a safe place to talk - you can reach out to me at

[email protected]

You can also see some more resources on my website

https://bandofbrothers.care