Patterns of Possibility

By Coach Lee Hopkins

If you're a late-identified autistic (or suspecting) adult who feels disconnected at work, drained by socializing, or tired of masking to be accepted, this podcast is for you.

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July 18, 2023REWIND: All Fakes Are Not Fools and Other Things That Are True
In this week's episode, return back to my audience's favorite and most liked episode from two years ago. It's basically my origin story. Be prepared, it has a completely different sound from what I have today. Enjoy!
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YouTube:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk_sXvnjqwhFlpI-NYV845g⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
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30min
July 11, 2023How to Express Your Needs in Relationships
In this week's episode, I share what do when people try to get you to negotiate on your needs. I answer the Reddit post, "What should I do?"
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25min
July 04, 2023When their help hurts you…
In this week's episode, I share what to do when your friend tries to help but they hurt you instead. I answer the Reddit post, "One sided friendship."
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TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@patternsofpossibility⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
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YouTube:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk_sXvnjqwhFlpI-NYV845g⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
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22min
June 27, 2023Be Actively Chosen
In this week's episode, I share what it means to be actively chosen by others. I answer the Reddit post, "New friend keeps making judgemental, unsupportive comments."
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Reddit:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.reddit.com/user/BrilliantNResilient⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@patternsofpossibility⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
Twitter:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://twitter.com/PatternsPossi⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
YouTube:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk_sXvnjqwhFlpI-NYV845g⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
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24min
June 20, 20235 Tips to Heal When a Friendship Ends
In this week's episode, I share 5 practical tips to heal after a friendship ends. I answer the Reddit post, "Is it okay to end a friendship for any reason?"
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Reddit:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.reddit.com/user/BrilliantNResilient⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@patternsofpossibility⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
Twitter:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://twitter.com/PatternsPossi⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
YouTube:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk_sXvnjqwhFlpI-NYV845g⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
Email: [email protected]

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Email: [email protected]
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23min
June 13, 2023I'm at the Meetup, now what?
In this week's episode, I share what to do in places when the only purpose is to connect with others. I answer the Reddit post, "People generally hate me because I'm too honest."
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Reddit:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.reddit.com/user/BrilliantNResilient⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@patternsofpossibility⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
Twitter:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://twitter.com/PatternsPossi⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
YouTube:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk_sXvnjqwhFlpI-NYV845g⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
Email: [email protected]

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TikTok:⁠⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@patternsofpossibility⁠⁠⁠
Twitter:⁠⁠⁠ https://twitter.com/PatternsPossi⁠⁠⁠
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25min
June 06, 2023Being authentic is difficult but doable
In this week's episode, I share what I think authenticity means and what happens when you "be" it. I answer the Reddit friendship advice post, "Party Friends vs. real friends"
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Reddit:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.reddit.com/user/BrilliantNResilient⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@patternsofpossibility⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
Twitter:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://twitter.com/PatternsPossi⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
YouTube:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk_sXvnjqwhFlpI-NYV845g⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
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26min
May 30, 2023Better Connections Start with Me
In this week's episode, I share how to learn more about yourself and how to use it to connect with others. I answer the Reddit looking for friendship post, "32F looking for friends"

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Reddit:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.reddit.com/user/BrilliantNResilient⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@patternsofpossibility⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
Twitter:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://twitter.com/PatternsPossi⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
YouTube:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk_sXvnjqwhFlpI-NYV845g⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
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25min
May 23, 2023Can you take a compliment?
In this week's episode, I share what stops people from accepting compliments and how to get over that. I answer the Reddit friendship advice post, "Friend gets irritated when I compliment them during tennis practice. Do I keep complimenting them or no?"
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Reddit:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.reddit.com/user/BrilliantNResilient⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@patternsofpossibility⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
Twitter:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://twitter.com/PatternsPossi⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
YouTube:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk_sXvnjqwhFlpI-NYV845g⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
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23min
May 16, 2023Developing a Rapport with Others
In this week's episode, I share what is Rapport and how to develop a good one. I answer the Reddit work advice post, "How do I keep to myself without being perceived as rude?"
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Reddit:⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.reddit.com/user/BrilliantNResilient⁠⁠⁠⁠
TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@patternsofpossibility⁠⁠⁠⁠
Twitter:⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://twitter.com/PatternsPossi⁠⁠⁠⁠
YouTube:⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk_sXvnjqwhFlpI-NYV845g⁠⁠⁠⁠
Email: [email protected]
...more
31min

FAQs about Patterns of Possibility:

How many episodes does Patterns of Possibility have?

The podcast currently has 247 episodes available.