In this candid interview, host Alonzo Banx sits down with Patty, a cornerstone of the PolySoCal community, for a deep and heartfelt conversation about her 31-year relationship with her husband John, their journey through polyamory, and the wisdom that only comes from decades of experience.

Patty shares stories from their early days — from swinging to growing into emotionally connected polyamory — and opens up about raising children, facing red flags, and learning the art of saying no without guilt. Together, Alonzo and Patty explore what it means to build love that evolves, adapts, and survives life’s toughest lessons.

This episode is tender, funny, and full of grounded insight for anyone curious about long-term love in non-traditional relationships.