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I thought I lost my phone(again). But I only went 48 hours without it. This is what I learned. For the full show notes please visit http://bit.ly/2BG7sHy

I thought I lost my phone(again).  But I only went 48 hours without it.  This is what I learned.

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In this mini-episode I discuss going 48 hours without my cell phone and what I've learned.

I sold a couple of items in my eBay store. I'd taken my cell phone with me as I was expecting to speak to my supervisor from work regarding upcoming time off. Got to my storage unit, packed the items which sold and unknowingly left my cell phone behind.

I noticed when I got home about 40 minutes later. Panic came over me. I had work that night, so it was vital for me to get some rest before starting my shift. Was it stolen? Did it fall out of my jacket pocket? That happened this past summer where I was coming out a Lyft ride and dropped it around my neighborhood. Luckily a nearby resident found it. He wanted a reward; I gave him $40. At that time I hadn't put a security code on the phone. My credit card is associated with several apps on the phone. No unwanted transactions were performed thank goodness.

I'm an iPhone user and have never used the 'Find My Phone app. I logged into my Icloud account and found my phone sitting inside my storage unit. I was relieved. On the flipside, I put my tin foil hat on and thought this thing is a tracking device no doubt!

I couldn't get back to the phone immediately due to my schedule. 48 hours later I didn't miss the phone; it's notifications, it's beeps and boops, its glow. I was more concerned about getting messages from friends and not replying back. After a while, even that concern faded away.

On my bus ride to/from work, I habitually check my phone. Social media updates, messages mostly. Not having the device by my side allowed me more time to read a book. Giving my eyeballs a rest from all the screens I stare at day and night Also helping my posture from being hunched over my phone.

A break away from the phone more often sounds nice.

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I recently went 48 hours without my cell phone. This is what I learned.

Dancehall party time! Rahmus Rifical's b-day party in the village, Nyc. This took place last month December. Featured in this video you will find former podcast guests(with links to the episodes they were featured):

Rahmus Rifical http://bit.ly/2n7PcBs

Jason & Veronika-Dancheall Couple http://bit.ly/2DwzfvQ

Mateo http://bit.ly/2rCO8Ln

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Ding Dong - 'Syvah' http://bit.ly/2BqhE6Q

Voicemail - 'Jiggy' http://bit.ly/2rFn3r7

Previous Episode: My Biggest Takeaways-Tim Ferriss Interview of Alice Little-VIDEO VERSION http://bit.ly/2n6cCrP

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Dancehall party time!   Rahmus Rifical's b-day party in the village, Nyc.   This took place last month December.

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Tim Ferriss' interview of Alice Little. A very eye-opening conversation regarding sex and prostitution. These are my biggest takeaways.

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Tim Ferriss interviewed Alice Little on his podcast. Alice Little is sex worker employed at the Moonlite Bunny Ranch in Nevada. They had a very eye-opening conversation regarding sex.

Sex education from experienced individuals always intrigues me.

Since young, I often enjoyed the programming on HBO. The Real Sex show was enlightening and had eye-opening segments. I'm assuming the show was popular and encouraged the network to have other sex-documentary style shows. 'The Cathouse' was born which I'd seen a couple of episodes. The show displayed the lives of the escorts who work at a legal brothel. That being the Moonlite Bunny Ranch where Ms. Little is employed. You can find out more about the show here. She is a recent addition to the Bunny Ranch(since the show was on the air)and according to her bio is one of the more successful contractors employed. The bordello's website has her as the 'Starlet of the Year' 2017.

These are some of my takeaways from Mr. Ferriss interview of Alice Little.

-The Moonlite Bunny Ranch sounds expensive. It is a very personalized experience. Online forums, casual interview with a sex worker during negotiations, a meal with a sex worker, girlfriend experience, loads of communication, touching, kissing massages. Lots of options at the Moonlite.

-Ms. Little has some great quotes like 'sex is a dance,' and 'Sex is more than cumming.'

-She also says men like a lot of variation during foreplay, Women prefer the same consistent movement

-In a three-way (a couple involving a third being the sex worker), Ms. Little likes to have the woman orgasm first. To relax them. Use 1-2 fingers for clit stimulus, in a same rhythmic pattern. A preferred device is the Magic Wand. -She also encourages using condoms with sex toys.

-Herself and her co-workers act as sexual surrogates at times. Nonmonogamous consent is often due to the illness of a partner.

-Alice says society favors women when it comes to sex and relationships. There are many men not being sought after by women causing there to be many male virgins in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s.

-The most significant lesson she's learned about men; the public at large misjudges men by placing expectations of masculinity. In turn, preventing them from expressing themselves sexually or emotionally. This reminds me of Lewis Howes 'Mask of Masculinity' book interviews. Mark Manson talking about 'True Confidence' in his book 'Models.' Ultimately these great authors encourage being ok with being vulnerable.

-Ms. Little says one of the biggest turn-ons for men; they want to have sex with women when their eyes are open, focusing on them.

- Seeing sex workers irregularly can be cheaper than getting married. I found this fascinating.

- Porn is destroying real-life connections with people. Men are killing sensitivity in their genitalia by masturbating too hard. She suggests using a Fleshlight instead(I personally use the Tenga Flashlight).

- Excellent blowjob notes for the person giving the BJ; staring at the receiver, cupping balls gently. No biting. Men's favorite position while receiving is two girls providing fellatio while he is standing.

- Placing a hand on the base of the penis with some minor pressure gives the sensation of body weight/force.

- Finally, Mr. Ferriss asks her, if she had a billboard what would it say. Her answer was 'sex is a need not a want.'

Recently I've made the transition from actively trying to date, to just paying sex workers. This conversation makes me feel better about that decision. It's on my schedule for the most part, and I spend less money dating. There is a lack of deep intimacy and trust that I may yearn for over time, but right now I'm happy with the decision.

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LINKS

The Moonlite Bunny Ranch

Real Sex show on HBO

The Cathouse show on HBO

Alice Little's website

Tim Ferris Blog

What is a Fleshlight?

Previous Episode: My review of Star Wars The Last Jedi.

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Is using a flashlight better than hands on masturbation? This point and much more covered in this excellent interview Mr. Ferriss conducted. These are the bullet points that stood out to me. This is the video version.