In this episode, Paul engages in a thought-provoking dialogue with the esteemed Victoria Labalme. Victoria, a Wall Street Journal bestselling author, Hall of Fame Speaker, and the visionary behind Risk Forward & Rock The Room, shares her transformative framework comprising four profound questions. These questions serve as a compass, guiding individuals towards discerning their next steps and maintaining momentum in their personal and professional journeys. The conversation delves into the realms of self-discovery, cultivating joy, embracing novel experiences, and gleaning invaluable lessons from adversity. Paul emphasizes the indispensable role of confidence in navigating this odyssey and extends an earnest invitation to explore Victoria's extensive body of work, including a confidence assessment, designed to foster self-discovery and strategic risk-taking for holistic growth.

Key Takeaways

• Start your journey of self-discovery by contemplating, "What interests you now?" This foundational question prompts introspection and aids in identifying current passions and aspirations.
• Reflect on what truly brings fulfillment with the question, "What lights you up?" This introspective query encourages individuals to recognize and prioritize activities that evoke genuine joy.
• Explore moments of peak performance and engagement by asking, "What stops time for you?" Understanding these flow states provides invaluable insight into one's innate talents and passions.
• Gain clarity on your aspirations and preferences by considering, "What don't you want?" This question serves as a guidepost for establishing boundaries and making informed decisions.
• Victoria's book, "Risk Forward," offers profound insights and strategies for navigating life's uncertainties with courage and resilience.

In This Episode:

• [01:18] The four questions
• [02:35]Question 1: What interests you now?
• [03:40] Question 2: What lights you up?
• [04:25] Question 3: What stops time for you?
• [05:17] Question 4: What don't you want?

Notable Quotes

• [01:30] “Your responses to these four questions will help you clarify your next move, and keep you risking forward in the right direction.” -Paul
• [01:50] "If you want to unlock your hidden genius, these are four questions that can empower you to have the confidence to risk forward." -Paul
• [05:17] "Instead of asking yourself what you love doing, ask yourself what you hate not doing. It's a cool 180, a cool spin."– Paul

Resource & Links

Paul Epstein

• Join the Win Monday Community: https://www.paulepsteinspeaks.com/win-monday
• Take the Confidence Quiz: https://www.paulepsteinspeaks.com/confidence-quiz
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulepsteinspeaks/
• https://www.paulepsteinspeaks.com/