PCI Reloaded

In this episode of PCI Reloaded, we'll be covering the art of "Embracing Change with Grace". Discover how to shift your mindset, prepare effectively, and adapt with resilience during life's transitions. Learn the power of staying connected and nurturing your inner strength while facing change head-on. Tune in for practical strategies that will help you not only survive but thrive through every transformation on your personal growth journey.

What do you want out of life? More importantly, how do you intend to go about getting it?

We all have so many wants. Some are very simple, such as wanting to lose five pounds in time for swimsuit season. While others, such as changing to a new career, are more complex. What’s interesting is that you can use the very same technique to get precisely what you want, whether your goal is big or small.

Visualization is the technique of picturing a goal in your mind in detail so that you can manifest this change in your life. Sound hard? Really, it’s not. By following these five simple steps, you’ll get exactly what you want in almost no time at all.

Engage Fully in the Vision

You absolutely must put yourself into the visualization as fully as you possibly can. Use all your senses and emotions to experience this vision in a way that is real to you. There can be no holding back here.

Experience Different Viewpoints

What does this visualization feel like to you? Experience it first as yourself so that you can connect emotions to actions. You want to feel every part of it. Now, step back and experience it again as if you’re watching yourself succeed from outside of yourself, like watching a movie. Why? This helps you to see details you might miss otherwise.

Live the Success

When you’re done with the visualization, it’s time to live the part. Become the person you saw at the end of the vision. How does that person move? Think? Act?

Reinforce the Message

Visualization needs need back-up to be successful. The world is full of negative influences, some of them finding root in your own mind. Keep your self-talk positive, use affirmations, and look for ways to constantly reinforce the vision in your mind without tearing it down.

Make the Vision Tangible in a Way You can See it

Creating a dream board or collage will set out your visualization in a place where you are constantly reminded of the experience. Seeing it over and over will also reinforce your goals and strengthen your resolve.

By following these steps, you’ll find you will find your dream becoming more and more solid. Of course, you’re going to have to put in the work to achieve what you want. However, by using visualization, you get clear where you’re going and how to get there.

Join us in this captivating episode of the PCI Reloaded Podcast as we delve into the art of self-discovery. Unravel the mysteries of your own mind and tap into your true potential with our expert strategies. From mindfulness and journaling to seeking feedback and exploring new avenues, we guide you through the profound process of self-awareness. Each strategy serves as a compass, leading you through life's twists and turns with confidence and clarity.

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Focusing comes in different forms for everyone, some like to listen to music to help them focus, while others want complete silence. Keep reading for four tips that can help you find your focus.

Have a Daily Plan

You should wake up every morning with a plan of what your day will look like. This doesn’t have to be a detailed schedule that outlines every minute. But having a plan in place will eliminate small decisions that can get you off track. Having a plan will also give you a clear goal for how your day should progress and end. Take time every evening to write out (not just in your head) the plan for the next day. It can include what you will have for breakfast through what order you will complete your work in. It may also be helpful to prep items such as meals, coffee, and clothing to keep you on track.

Moment of Enjoyment

Every day take at least a small amount of time to do something you really enjoy. This can be peace and quiet over your coffee in the morning, a piece of candy in the afternoon, or snuggles with a pet or loved one in the evening. Having that moment of enjoyment will give you a respite from all the to-do’s that fill your day and give you time to reset and prepare for what comes next.

Be Persistent

If a task isn’t coming easily to you, feel free to walk away for a few minutes or even a day. But be persistent with the process and don’t give up. Allowing yourself to bounce from task to task to avoid the difficult work will leave you with a list of half-done tasks and a brain that is running in a million different directions.

Have a Day Off

“There’s no rest for the wicked and the righteous don’t need it” is a familiar turn of phrase that praises the busy. But we all know that it isn’t the truth. We all need a day off to rest, reset, and recuperate. We also need time with our families and friends to fill our cups and remind us why the hard days are worth it.

Focusing better is both a mindset and a physical act that you must prepare your mind and body for. Be sure that you are doing everything in your power to set yourself up to the best of your ability.

When Michelle Gass ran Starbucks, she helped the company move into 33 countries. When she first joined the coffee-based firm, she was asked to get behind a new drink. Starbucks had just launched the Frappucino, and Gass was ordered to develop a growth strategy to make the drink popular.

What began as a side item now earns Starbucks more than $2 billion annually. That's the income from just one drink. To say that Gass' efforts worked out is obvious.

She had long ago come up with a belief about how to approach achievement. It can help with personal and career goals. Men and women of all ages and levels of education and success can use the same idea. It’s powerful in its simplicity.

What was the approach she took that created such a winner for Starbucks? It's one she's used successfully in her career working with many Fortune 500 companies. She says her mantra is ...

"Let's think of how big this can be."

She's a firm believer in thinking big. A lot of leaders will tell you this. If you're going to dream, why not dream big? It doesn't make any sense to think small when thinking big doesn't take any more effort.

It’s up to you, really. If you have a task or responsibility, shoot for the moon. You get to choose what you strive for in life. Aiming for big results can make your world better for you and everyone you care for. Accomplishing great things feels so rewarding. You might even surprise yourself with what you’re able to accomplish.

To start seeing the world as incredibly abundant. Don't think of lack or just enough to get by. Think much bigger and envision big change rather than small, insignificant change. Imagine big things in your life. What you consciously tell your subconscious ends up as action. Your subconscious drives your actions, and your actions are what create the reality in your life.

Gass knows this. When Starbucks purchased Seattle's Best Coffee, she employed her "think bigger" mantra. In just a single year, she took Seattle's Best from 3,000 distribution points to over 50,000. That's what happens when you think big.

If you want big things in your life, you've got to think big. Dare to think bigger than you could possibly imagine. Even if you come up short, you will have achieved so much.

You know how they say you should love your family, your friends, and your neighbors? Well, guess what? You should also love yourself! Loving yourself is not selfish or vain. It's actually super important for many reasons. Let me tell you why you need to love yourself and how it can make your life better.

Loving Yourself Helps You Love Others

The first reason to love yourself is that it helps you love other people better. Think about it: how can you give love to someone else if you don't have any love for yourself? How you treat yourself sets the tone for how you treat others. So if you are mean and harsh to yourself, you will probably be mean and harsh to others too. And that's not good for anyone. But if you are kind and gentle to yourself, you will be kind and gentle to others too. And that's how you build healthy and happy relationships.

Loving Yourself Prevents You From Burning Out

Another reason to love yourself is that it keeps you from burning out. Burnout is when you feel so tired and stressed that you can't do anything anymore. It happens when you neglect your needs and focus too much on others or your responsibilities. Self-love is the antidote to burnout. It means taking care of yourself, doing things that make you happy, and saying no when you need to. When you love yourself, you respect your limits and recharge your energy.

Loving Yourself Boosts Your Success

Do you have any dreams or goals? Loving yourself is a key ingredient for achieving them. This is because you can't succeed if you don't believe in yourself or your abilities. You need to love yourself and accept your flaws to use them as strengths. You also need to love yourself and learn from your mistakes to grow and improve. Loving yourself gives you the confidence and motivation to pursue your passions and potential.

Loving Yourself Makes You Happier

Last but not least, loving yourself makes you happier. It's hard to be happy when you don't like who you are or what you do. It's easy to be happy when you appreciate who you are and what you have. Loving yourself means being grateful for your life, being proud of your achievements, and being optimistic about your future. When you love yourself, you feel good about yourself and the world around you. And that's the key to happiness!

Loving yourself is not always easy, but it's always worth it. When you love yourself, you improve your relationships, your well-being, your success, and your happiness. That's why you should make self-love a priority in your life today!"

5 Behaviors of Successful People

1. Spend Time With Other Successful People

When you spend time with other successful people, you tend to adopt the behaviors and habits that they display. This often happens with friendships, which begin with a common trait and then expand to friends developing similar behaviors. 

If you genuinely want to be successful, keep company with those who demonstrate the behaviors and habits you wish to emulate. As the saying goes, "if you are the smartest person in the room, you're in the wrong room." 

This means that you want to continually build your network of friends that will help you grow and succeed.

2 . Be a Lifelong Learner

Successful people make it a habit of learning something new every day if not every other day. This is because knowledge creates new opportunities. Whether you wish to move up in the company you work for or create something new, learning is the key to success.

3. Change Your Mindset

Successful people understand the value of having a positive mindset in everything they wish to accomplish. You have the power inside of you to either sit in complacency or step up and find the success you want for yourself. 

It's a matter of how you view yourself and your environment. When you choose to have a growth mindset, you can move mountains and accomplish anything you set your mind to.

Check out our episode on the benefits of a positive mindset for information.

4. Manage Your Time Effectively

While managing your time can be a challenge, learning how to do it effectively can make a huge difference in your life. Successful people know the importance of honoring their schedules and completing their most important tasks. Because of this, they purposely cut out things that are not a priority and learn to delegate tasks that others can do. 

If you'd like to dive deeper, check out episode 28 where we share 5 simple tasks to help you manage your time effectively.

5. Set Goals For Growth

One of the most important behaviors to adopt if you want to be successful is setting goals focused on personal growth. 

To be successful takes motivation, and you can greatly increase your motivation by focusing on small daily wins. While having long-term goals is essential, having short-term goals that get you to the longer ones are equally important.

In short, if you want to be successful, you need to change what you're doing. Taking the time to incorporate these five behaviors into your daily life can help you achieve the success you desire.

How to Communicate More Confidently

There are many ways we can demonstrate our confidence, but perhaps the most obvious example is when we are talking to an individual or a group.

Those who have low self-esteem or confidence are likely to mutter, to stutter and to avoid eye contact. Those who are highly confident and sure of themselves will speak clearly and with conviction.

So with that in mind, how do you go about communicating as confidently as possible and helping to ensure your message comes across well while also looking sure of yourself and of what you’re saying?

Here are a few tips that can help.

Speak Slowly

The first tip is to talk slowly. When we are nervous, we'll often speak quickly without even realizing it. This is a result of neurotransmitters being released which slow our perception of time and makes us susceptible to rushing.

Simply slowing down will greatly increase your sense of calm and authority. Not only that, but by giving people longer to hang on to what you’re saying will let your words have more impact and drama. This also suggests a trust in what you’re saying – it shows you aren’t worried people will stop listening – whereas rushing makes us seem like we’re worried people are just going to move on!

Watch any big celebrity talk on TV and you’ll notice they tell lots of stories and they always build suspense and use rhetorical questions. They’ll use repetition and leave big gaps. This takes huge confidence, but if you can pull it off, then you’ll have an audience eating from your hands!

Make Eye Contact

One of the most important things you can do to demonstrate confidence as you speak is to maintain eye contact. This is true if you’re speaking with just one person and it shows that you aren’t afraid to meet their gaze and to speak to them as equals. It’s also true if you’re speaking to a crowd however, in which case you need to look at everyone and to ensure they are all following and feel included.

Be Congruent

Finally, remember that communication is only somewhat verbal. More of what we mean is conveyed through body language and this is why it’s so important that your body language reflects what you’re saying. Be passionate and let your arms do the talking along with the words you’re saying. You’ll appear more honest, more confident and far more engaging!

An empathetic person can identify with what someone else is experiencing. They may have had the same experience before. This isn't necessary to practice empathy. You might just be very good at putting yourself in another person's mindset.

Someone tells you they lost their job. They're going through so many different negative emotions. They're concerned about their mortgage payment and other financial issues.

A person that loses a dream job could start wondering what happened. It took them a long time to get the job they always wanted. They might have been a great employee. Then something occurred that was out of their control. Perhaps the company went bankrupt.

This individual could start questioning his own role in the failure of the company. A ton of different negative emotions might be experienced. The empathetic person is able to fully embrace the emotions the other person is going through even if they've never lost a job before.

You might want to help your friends and family members by displaying more empathy. You care about them and want to help them when they're in need. If that's the case, simply put into practice the following three-step technique for showing empathy.

Step 1 – Listen Actively

You might be a good listener. But are you an active listener? Do you just sit there with a blank expression and take in everything that's being said?

An active listener uses body language, facial expressions, and eye movement to let the person speaking know that they're engaged and present. They are truly and deeply listening.

You use open-ended questions to try to get more information from the speaker. Active listening uses anything at your disposal to get the speaker to share more information. You communicate to that person that their feelings are understood.

Step 2 – Validate the Experience

People often tell you what's on their minds because they want you to validate what they're saying. They need to know that it's okay to have certain feelings or think a specific way. When you validate a tough situation someone's experiencing, you let them know they're not alone.

You validate an experience by adopting the same feelings and emotions. Tell the person that you're sharing the experience with them and that it's okay. They should recognize whatever emotions are happening. Then the empathetic person tries to figure out what can be done to fix the problem.

Step 3 – Offer Advice

Empathy is a two-part process. You take on the perspective of another person. You develop an understanding emotionally of what that person is going through. The second part involves action. You provide assistance of some kind. You try to help the person with their struggle.

One way you can do this is by offering smart advice. Remember to think about their situation and not yours. Don't include any bias or judgment. Put yourself in their shoes and then give them advice to help them out of their problem.

Showing empathy means you care. It tells people you're putting your own interests aside for a while. The three-step process we just covered can help you show empathy to the people you care about. You'll find that you benefit as much as they do by making an emotional connection.