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Nervous System Healing Class - Use code HEAL for a discount💡 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Why so many women with PCOS feel dismissed or unheard
Bianca’s 13-year journey to finally receiving a diagnosis
The connection between stress, the nervous system, and hormones
A simple breakdown of polyvagal theory (green, yellow, red states)
Why your body can’t heal in survival mode
The “stress bucket” concept and how it impacts your health
How past experiences and current stressors shape your nervous system
Why the quality of your coping skills matters more than you think
The role of self-compassion in healing
How to set boundaries without guilt
Simple, realistic tools to regulate your nervous system starting today🧠 Understanding Your Nervous System
Bianca explains three core nervous system states:
🟢 Green (Regulated)
Calm, safe, connected
Optimal digestion, sleep, and hormone function
This is where healing happens🟡 Yellow (Stress / Activation)
Fight-or-flight mode (stress, anxiety, overwhelm)
Can be healthy in short bursts
The issue: most women live here chronically🔴 Red (Shutdown)
Burnout, numbness, disconnection
Result of prolonged stress overload👉 Most women today are stuck cycling between yellow and red, rarely reaching true regulation.
🧩 The Nervous System Equation
Trauma, childhood experiences, emotional wounds
Work, family, health, constant stimulation3. The Quality of Your Coping Skills (Your Biggest Lever)
Scrolling, binge eating, alcohol, numbing behaviors
Movement, breathwork, journaling, therapy, connection🪣 The Stress Bucket
Every stressor fills your internal “bucket”
Poor coping keeps it full (or overflowing)
Quality coping helps empty it🔄 Healing Is Not Linear
You don’t go from burnout → calm overnight
Progress often looks like:
Red (numb) → Yellow (anxious) → Green (regulated)
👉 Feeling more emotions after being numb is often a sign of healing, not failure
💥 The Hidden Block: Self-Criticism
Shame and self-judgment add MORE stress
Healing requires:
Awareness
Compassion
Acceptance
🤍 Reframing Your Inner Voice
“I should be doing better”
“What do I need right now?”
“How would I support a friend in this situation?”🚧 Boundaries = Healing
What can I eliminate?
What needs better boundaries?
What do I need to navigate differently?🔑 Powerful Mindset Shifts
1. Every “yes” is a “no” to something else
→ Often your peace, rest, or healing
2. “You can’t set yourself on fire to keep others warm”
→ Stop sacrificing yourself for everyone else
It’s hard to set boundaries
It’s also hard to stay burnt out👉 You get to decide which hard you live with
🛠️ Tools for Nervous System Regulation
Bianca emphasizes that there is no one-size-fits-all approach—the key is finding what works for you.
Go-To Tools to Explore:
Breathwork (simple + accessible anywhere)
Longer exhales activate the vagus nerve and calm the body
Journaling
Clears mental overload and creates space
EFT Tapping
Especially powerful for anxiety
Movement
Walking, swimming, exercise
Nature & stillness
Grounding and regulating
Cold exposure (for some states)
Helpful for numbness, but not always for anxiety
🔍 Key Reminder:
A perfect routine
A 90-minute morning ritual
To do everything at once
Get curious
Pay attention
Find what works for your body💬 Quotes from This Episode
“Your body has to feel safe in order to heal.”
“Every time you say yes to something, you’re saying no to something else.”
“You can’t set yourself on fire to keep other people warm.”
“You have to decide which version of hard you’re willing to live with.”
🌿 Final Takeaway
Healing isn’t about doing more.
It’s about creating a state in your body where healing is
possible.
Take a deep breath
Go for a walk
Put your phone down
Listen to your bodyBecause real change doesn’t come from perfection—
it comes from awareness, consistency, and self-support.
This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional before making any changes to your health routine.
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