Peace and Possibilities

From my guest this week's lips (when I asked her how she found the work she loves), "my gifts match".

I love this phrase so much, because it's a very simple way to align what you love with what you do. When your gifts match how you live and the work you do, you shine.

There are so many more great tips and insights from my lovely guest, Dana Anderson.

When you're self aware and you focus on growing your emotional intelligence, matching your gifts to what you do becomes so much easier. No wonder why we're better at this when we're older - we have more experience!

For my younger audience, Dana says college is like a dress rehearsal for your work life. Advocate for yourself early and often. Get used to this. It's a lifelong skill you will need.

When something good happens, say thank you and I deserve this! It tells the universe you're ready for more.

And her advice for anyone searching for meaningful work and experiences? Resist less, chase less, attract more.

As far as truth and transparency when communicating with others - is it worth it? The short answer is yes. Every time. Because no matter what the outcome, it expands you and the other person!

For those of you thinking this is all easier said than done, of course it is. Literally anything you can think of takes more effort to do than to say.

So get going! You only have this one life!

Oh, and remember, there's more where that came from (the good stuff, I mean).

More about Dana:

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And check out my bestselling book:

Peace, Possibilities, and Perspective: 8 Secrets to Serenity and Satisfaction in Your Life and Career

https://2possibilityandbeyond.com/my-book

As far as I'm concerned, true freedom is the choice to do work that we love, that makes an impact, and affords us the experiences we want to have in our lives.

For my guest this week, Sam Varner, it's very similar. Her work was born out of necessity and the need to have freedom and flexibility.

When we chatted about finding our niche, she emphasized the importance of these questions:

• What nourishes you?
• How can you nourish others?
• How can you make connections?

Then once you've answered some of these questions, keep tweaking and dismiss what's not working.

She assures us, like many of my guests, we usually already know the answers. What she does is empower people to get there sooner. Brilliant!

And lastly, expose yourself to many things early. Dabble in your interests. This will guide you in figuring things out sooner.

You'll soon discover you have the ability to transform and impact those around you. We all do- really!

More about Sam:

Website: www.shecollective.biz

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shecollectivebiz

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samanthanvarner/

And check out my bestselling book:

Peace, Possibilities, and Perspective: 8 Secrets to Serenity and Satisfaction in Your Life and Career

https://2possibilityandbeyond.com/my-book

You're smarter than you know.

I hope this isn't the first time you're hearing this. But just in case it is, you're in good hands.

She's a coach/creator/connector and all around beautiful human being. You will be able to see her light shining through from the moment we begin chatting.

I'm talking about Emily Bossert, my guest this week on The Peace and Possibilities Podcast. (Incidentally, I'm just realizing how many lit up people I get to talk to every week! How cool is that?)

Hopefully you're noticing a theme: you do what you love, and you light up. And others can see it, and you attract more of the same.

Instead of taking my word for it, check out my conversation with Emily. She reflects on many important concepts:

• Take ownership
• Trust your intuition and knowledge
• Community is huge
• Stop comparing yourself and get quiet
• You inner truth is waiting to be asked
• Simplify everything - your mind, your space, etc.

And check in with your 75 year old future self; what would this wise person have to say to you now?

Finally, I've mentioned this a few times lately. Try the Super Thinking exercise. Allow yourself 60 uninterrupted minutes and ask and answer all the questions you have about your work and life. You'll be shocked at how much you already know (when you're used to asking questions to everyone else). Ask yourself and discover the answers within.

Email me and tell me what you think.

More about Emily:

https://www.compass.com/agents/emily-bossert/

https://www.instagram.com/iamemilybossert/

And check out my bestselling book:

Peace, Possibilities, and Perspective: 8 Secrets to Serenity and Satisfaction in Your Life and Career

https://2possibilityandbeyond.com/my-book

My inspiring guest this week is a relationship expert and an entrepreneur. Oh, and a problem solver too (I can totally relate).

During our conversation, Abi Singh and I talked about many great ideas to help you thrive and live more peacefully, ultimately having more happiness.

One of my favorite things Abi said was "don't let fear block you from your blessings". As you appreciate your blessings, be aware of yourself, always (this is a lifelong journey). Self-awareness is necessary for growth.

I especially loved when she recommended not to hold back on your joy. Get more joy for yourself and expand your partner's joy (and anyone else's for that matter).

When trying to come to a decision, ask yourself "Regarding this decision, in 5 years, what do I see happening because of this decision? Will it hinder or spoil anything?" Then make your decision based on this answer.

Finally, she believes, as do I, everyone has something to teach and the ability to transform. Find what your "thing" is. And then go share it with the world!

More about Abi:

Abi Singh is a wife, rom-com fanatic, life coach and relationship expert. She is passionate about helping couples push past fears and frustrations in their relationship so that they can thrive. Abi coaches couples using the strategies she used to heal her own frustrations in what is now her CPR 'revival' framework. Abi lives on the beautiful tr-island state of Grenada with her husband and business partner and delivers powerful coaching experiences for couples locally and internationally. www.instagram.com/coachabisingh

And check out my bestselling book:

Peace, Possibilities, and Perspective: 8 Secrets to Serenity and Satisfaction in Your Life and Career

https://2possibilityandbeyond.com/my-book

It's been a year since I launched my bestselling book, Peace, Possibilities and Perspective!

My deepest gratitude to every single person who has supported me along the way.

Listen in as my publisher, Everett O'Keefe from Ignite Press, interviews me and learn more about why and how I wrote my book.

There's a version for everyone: the e-book, the paperback, the hard cover, or the audio book, available at Target.com, BarnesandNoble.com, Amazon, and many libraries around town. Get or give a copy today!

Spreading peace and possibilities to everyone is my life's mission!

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Peace, Possibilities, and Perspective: 8 Secrets to Serenity and Satisfaction in Your Life and Career

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My guest this week is Joe Siciliano. We've known each for almost 26 years, when my husband and I met him and his wife, during our honeymoon in St. Lucia.

A lifelong friendship ensued and we have been enjoying great dinners and conversations with them ever since.

He's been a constant stream of positive energy and drive ever since we met and I wanted to share his great attitude and insights with you.

I think you'll discover fairly quickly that he excels at building relationships, which is one of the reasons he's had a successful career in real estate.

When we discussed what he wished he learned sooner, he wishes he'd knew to enjoy the process more, to acknowledge all his blessings, and been more grateful and appreciative of all of it along the way.

And we both agreed, being more intentional with our lives is something we could have benefited from earlier.

We have a lot of power. We have to stop and reflect more.

We create what we focus on. It's easy to see as we get older. But we can't go back. Learn more earlier. Seek. Find.

Then acknowledge that all of it is your responsibility to master.

More about Joe:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/joe-siciliano-08ba53b/

And check out my bestselling book:

Peace, Possibilities, and Perspective: 8 Secrets to Serenity and Satisfaction in Your Life and Career

https://2possibilityandbeyond.com/my-book

Trust that your intuition is there for a reason. Your emotions are there to guide you. Pay attention to them.

These are concepts we've all likely heard.

So why do we keep hearing them? Why do they stand the test of time?

It's because they're true. And more importantly, very useful for life.

My guest this week, Clara Capano and I, discuss these concepts and how important it is to be honest and ask yourself, what is your why? Why are you pursuing that job, that move, that person…etc.?

Why is that promotion so important?

Why is that topic so significant to you?

And no matter what your conclusion is - is it (that job, that person, that place) serving you?

What a great question to ask yourself!

Are the ideas and goals you are pursuing yielding the results and serving the life that is most important to you?

And while you contemplate these short but noteworthy questions, and ask yourself, "what will others think?", I urge you to remember, who really cares?!

Really! Even if they do care, you shouldn't care what they think. They don't have to live your life. You do!

Furthermore, Clara and I both agree, mindset should be taught in schools very early on. Because when we're in the right mindset, asking the right questions, and not caring what others think, we can be present. AND, your presence is a present. It's a present to whomever you have the pleasure of being with at every moment of your life.

Lastly, think of your successes throughout your life. Success leaves clues. It helps you get the clarity you need to make those very important, albeit seemingly small, decisions. And then you get to serve with more purpose and passion. Oh, and with more peace and possibilities too!

More about Clara:

www.claracapano.com

And check out my bestselling book:

Peace, Possibilities, and Perspective: 8 Secrets to Serenity and Satisfaction in Your Life and Career

https://2possibilityandbeyond.com/my-book

My guest this week is a "Ray" of sunshine.

Rachel Gitlevich is her name, and even though she's considerably younger than me, I've learned so much already from knowing her just a brief time.

As a coach, an entrepreneur, and an endless learner, she's had quite a journey (these last few years especially), and she's not slowing down anytime soon.

She's determined to enjoy her life, peacefully and purposefully, each and every day, while she encourages her clients and us to do the same. Because along the way, sometimes you get what you want right away, sometimes life has other plans (almost always). Either way, if we're intentionally setting out to be and give our best, we can be grateful for our insights.

We talk about this simple exercise she's incorporated into her life: Imagine your life six months from now and you DON'T go for your dreams. Then imagine your life six months from now after going for your dreams. After considering both, ask yourself: what's the worst that can happen if you pursue your dreams? What would you regret more?

I've done this several times in my life. And I will say that I've never regretted going for it.

Full of great insights and reflection, I'm sure you're going to walk away from this conversation with more grace and light, and even consider your life with just a little more wonderment.

And a few great lessons from this bright ray.

Rachel is a mindfulness expert and spiritual entrepreneur who helps executives and big-hearted leaders rediscover their unique magic and share it with the world. She believes that it all starts from within and taking an inside-out approach to support individuals on leading fulfilling, purposeful lives.

Rachel is trained in mindfulness, meditation, yoga, energy healing and is a certified life coach. She has implemented mindfulness programs at top companies in the Chicagoland area.

It's all about education through every single experience. Learning about who you REALLY are, what you really want, where you want to go and why it all matters. The deeper purpose of it all. And when things don't go as planned, it's trusting that something even more beautiful is on its way.

Instagram: www.instagram.com/rachel.gitlevich

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rachelgitlevich

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachelgitlevich

Free Meditation download:

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And check out my bestselling book:

Peace, Possibilities, and Perspective: 8 Secrets to Serenity and Satisfaction in Your Life and Career

https://2possibilityandbeyond.com/my-book

Have you ever heard of the Reticular Activating System? Me neither, until recently when I was talking with Kathryn Ford. I actually knew the impact of this system, through other research I've done on how powerful our thoughts are, but didn't know what it was called. (FYI, it's a network of neurons located in the brain stem, that ultimately determines how we see the world. There's a lot more to it, of course.)

And how we see the world ultimately determines what happens to us and for us.

And because what we think about is so powerful, when I talked with Kathryn we discussed how important it is to scan for more of what's right. This way, you're telling your brain that you want more of that (good stuff, what's right, what inspires you, etc.) And then you get more of that! Sound simple? Well, actually, it is.

Listen in and learn more about this and how Kathryn's journey led to her inspirational work. And now she's beaming with light to help you get there too.

She encourages us to find the support we need. And remember far back to when you were a kid, and ask yourself: what did you love?

This is a huge clue to your happiness and success. We all want to live abundant, successful lives, filled with love.

It is possible. You must ask certain questions.

Then you have to listen.

To work with Kathryn is an experience of a lifetime! Visit excellenceinstitute.com. to learn more about this incredible experience and her powerfully transformative programs.

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And check out my bestselling book:

Peace, Possibilities, and Perspective: 8 Secrets to Serenity and Satisfaction in Your Life and Career

https://2possibilityandbeyond.com/my-book

My guest on this week's podcast, entrepreneur Vikrant Shaurya, has such a calming, beautiful presence, you're sure to be mesmerized by his style and charm.

We had such an incredible conversation. Below are just a few takeaways.

When going for your dreams, he encourages us - don't necessarily look for meaning right away. If you're looking for meaning too early in your role, and trying to get settled with your finances, it's usually too chaotic.

Initially, it's not about purpose necessarily. He reminds us that we can give meaning to anything (negative or positive). Concentrate on finding the positive aspect of whatever situation you find yourself in. (And incidentally, the universe always wants us to find the most positive interpretation of any situation.) We always have this capacity.

Instead, freedom is what you should be going for.

We also talked about 3 key parts of your life to concentrate on when you're getting started and throughout your life and career. Money, health, and relationships - when these are good, the other things are easier to figure out. I tend to concur with my new friend, Vik.

I'm sure you'll agree, he's quite an inspiration!

You can learn more about Vikrant at https://bestsellingbook.com/

And check out my bestselling book:

Peace, Possibilities, and Perspective: 8 Secrets to Serenity and Satisfaction in Your Life and Career

https://2possibilityandbeyond.com/my-book