Peace Out

Brian Spittler grew up checking all the Mormon boxes. Although he he liked girls, he noticed his attraction to boys early on. When he met his wife he fell hard, and was able to repress his bisexuality. But eventually he was ready to lean in and come out. Brian teaches us so much in this conversation! Enjoy.

Sal and Lena reflect on all they have learned from the amazing LGBTQ guests on Peace Out Podcast so far. 

Courage, resilience, integrity, belief, self love, strength, curiosity, self awareness, grace, and love...just to name a few.

Devon Gibby shares his experience growing up Mormon, seminary president, serving a mission, getting married in the temple, to discover just two weeks into his marriage he is gay! His story is real and it is powerful. Devon worked so hard to make his marriage work for his two sons. Ultimately, he decided living his truth out and proud would make him an even better father!

Devon is a single-dad sharing his life online @dadndaddies. We're so excited for you to hear this episode. 

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Sal and Lena dive into coming out. We talk about the levels of we went through to finally arrive at coming out of the closet.

Here are the levels of sexuality self discovery! 

Level 1: How do I really feel about sexuality?

Level 2: Getting curious and observing feelings

Level 3: Acceptance of what is

Level 4: Coming out and making moves

Sal and Lena were moved to tears witnessing the strength and beauty of Erik. She was raised in a loving, traditional Mormon family. She knew was different from the other boys from an early age. Hear Erik share her story of uncovering who she truly is and has always been. 

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Today we discuss a listener question: "Can one truly be an ally inside an institution that is not one?"

Sal and Lena dive in, flesh it out and by the end of our conversation we come to a pretty solid conclusion. Enjoy and tell us how you feel about it! 

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Sal's youngest brother Joe shares his story! At 22 years old, Joe has gained so much wisdom already. In this episode we discuss his experience growing up with the strict rules around "sexual purity" and how that effected his mental health and self worth. We talk about how Sal came out to him while he was serving an LDS mission and how that ultimately led him to take a hard look at the church. You will love Joe as much as we do! 

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Sal and Lena talk about the ways we may not realize we are exhibiting homophobia. Let's learn together! 

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Nathan Winterton has an incredible story to share. Raised in the heart of Mormon Utah, Nathan knew they liked boys since preschool. But they also knew it wasn't okay. Hear them share their experience through leaving their Mormon mission early, multiple forms of conversion therapy, a sucide attempt, to now living authentically as a beautiful non-binary human. 

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Sal and Lena talk about their parenting journeys through divorce and blending families. Sal has two girls and a boy, and Lena has 4 boys! They range from aged 3 to 10 and they're pretty awesome. 

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