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What happens when life completely immobilizes you? For Ruben Cuevas, a mysterious back injury on Father's Day 2019 became the catalyst for an extraordinary transformation that would lead him to complete three Ironman triathlons and a 100-mile ultramarathon.
Ruben takes us deep into the moment when his mobility was suddenly stripped away, leaving him unable to stand without excruciating pain. Rather than surrendering to extended rest, he discovered "active recovery" through stretching and flexibility work, igniting a journey that would completely redefine his relationship with physical endurance. The powerful realization that he'd been taking his mobility for granted became the spark that lit a fire within him.
Throughout our conversation, Ruben shares the profound mental strategies he employed to conquer seemingly impossible distances. Rather than focusing only on traditional physical training, he explains how mastering his reactions to everyday frustrations—from parenting challenges to traffic jams—became his true preparation for ultras. "If I can't be patient and kind right here when the stakes are low," he explains, "then when I'm in deep water in a 100-mile ultramarathon, I'm going to panic."
At the heart of Ruben's philosophy is his mantra "everything is fuel"—the belief that life's challenges, pain points, and obstacles can be transformed into motivation rather than becoming sources of bitterness. This approach extends far beyond running, shaping his approach to fatherhood, marriage, faith, and personal growth. As someone who reads about 40 books annually, his wisdom weaves together theology, philosophy, psychology and practical life experience.
Perhaps most striking is Ruben's perspective on achievement itself. Despite accomplishing feats most consider impossible, he maintains, "If I never ran another mile, if I never read another book, none of those things I put my identity in." His focus remains on modeling perseverance and strength for his family while embracing the principle that "we gather strength as we go."
Whether you're facing a physical setback, seeking motivation, or simply curious about the ultramarathon mindset, Ruben's story offers powerful insights on transforming pain into purpose. Take a listen, then share how you're gathering strength in your own journey.
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Book 1:
Gathering Strength :Everything is Fuel
Book 2:
Gathering Strength Mastering the Mind.
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