people pleasing is SO much easier to fight when you actually know where it's coming from. i've said it before and i'll say it againnnn people pleasing is selfish. its really just you trying to protect yourself from the discomfort that comes with potential conflict. the sooner you are honest with yourself and the people around you the sooner you find freedom. i fear it is that deep

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