Perception is a

California is the most beautiful state in the continental USA. However, there is a perceived exodus from the state for a host of reasons. Taxes, Crime and Homelessness to name a few. As former California residents, Deji and Sarah share their perspective.     

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A conversation about people and their opinions in the comment section... 

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Deji and Sarah have a conversation about the strategy and the finish line to the money game. Get in. Get yours. Get out

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A conversation about the Paradox of Humility...

Humility is a learned behavior. No - one is born humble, we are taught to be humble. On this episode, Deji and Sarah have a conversation about the paradox of humility

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How to get along with people who dont think like you...

Deji and Sarah banter on the current state of the American culture through the lens of this quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson.

"Let me never fall into the vulgar mistake of dreaming that I am persecuted whenever I am contradicted. "

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Do this before making big life decisions...

Deji and Sarah present a simple idea in this episode. It is to "Talk in Circles" OR give a 360° perspective as a useful tool to problem solve or think critically

Talking in circles is not about being right or wrong in the opinion or answer you give. It is about being the catalyst for a constructive conversation that leads no where. Talking in circles is very hard and almost impossible to do well because it will require you to share points of views that you may not have. Yet when answering questions or giving thoughts, you should try. 

The question used in this episode is "Should I go to college?" You can practice talking in circles on a wide array of topics and perspectives. 

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A conversation about time...

On this episode, Deji and Sarah talk about time and the human experience of it.

They talk about the idea of spending quality time with loved ones VS just spending time. The language we use in our descriptions of time can influence our experience of it with existential consequences. 

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A conversation about a plague worse than the black plague...

Deji and Sarah talk about a little boy who makes the very logical decision to walk up to the roof of his house and jump 50 feet because its Christmas eve. He believes Santa Clause will swoop in with his reindeers to catch him. 

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A lesbian ask straight women a question on social media; "what does having sex with a man feel like?"  Deji and Sarah talk Sex Ed and give their commentary on what straight women have to say about sex with a man.

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A conversation about friendship...

What is a true friend and can you really have any? In the conversation today, Deji recalls the most hurtful thing a friend said to him. Sarah also shares her experience being ghosted for apparently no reason

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