In this thought-provoking episode, Rebecca Grugan challenges us to look deeper into the judgments we make about others and reveals that they are often a mirror of our own insecurities, values, and unresolved issues. Rebecca discusses the concept of "perception as projection," where the judgments we pass on others reflect our own inner world. Through this episode, she encourages us to use judgment as a tool for self-awareness and personal growth by practicing curiosity and compassion. By shifting from judgment to self-reflection, we can unlock deeper truths about ourselves and grow into more compassionate, understanding individuals. Learn how to turn your judgments into opportunities for self-discovery and embrace the lessons they hold.

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00:00:00 – Introduction to judgment as a mirror of self

00:00:46 – The concept of perception as projection

00:03:02 – How judgments reflect our unconscious beliefs and fears

00:04:46 – Example of judgment: What we judge in others can highlight our own insecurities

00:05:31 – How judgment reveals our core values

00:06:17 – Recognizing judgments as reflections of values we may be embracing or resisting

00:07:10 – Using judgments to identify areas of personal growth

00:08:27 – Example of judgment in everyday life and how it reflects our choices

00:09:15 – Insecurity and judgment: Deflecting attention from our own fears

00:10:19 – Judgment as a defense mechanism: Avoiding vulnerability

00:11:27 – Shifting from judgment to curiosity and compassion

00:12:24 – Practicing compassion and self-compassion in response to judgment

00:13:13 – Final thoughts on using judgment as a tool for self-awareness and growth

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