Perfectly Obstinate People

Forty-years of hard work seems to be paying off for Kathy Kolbe today, as her efforts of bringing awareness to conation are paying off. On Thursday, October 4th, Word Genius recognized Conation as the word of the day! Listen in to this podcast to hear what this means to Kathy and the long road it took to get here.

There have been many lessons that contributed to Kathy Kolbe’s understanding of human behavior. However, not all are so obvious. On this episode of Perfectly Obstinate People, she discusses the first and most unassuming lesson - poker with her parents friends.

On this episode of Perfectly Obstinate People, Kathy Kolbe examines the role empathy plays in working and learning environments. Kolbe touches on how empathy is a learned skill, acquired through experience and how it might be the one thing that separates a good leader from a great one.

How do we find and keep the freedom to be ourself? It's an ongoing journey and varies for everyone. On this episode of Perfectly Obstinate People, Kathy Kolbe discusses the importance of advocating for your needs - and gives a little insight into her journey of learning to self-advocate. 

Throughout life we are told there is a "right" and "wrong" way to do things. While contrarily being told that we are all individuals, making it hard to draw the line between the two. On this episode of Perfectly Obstinate People, Kathy Kolbe discusses the importance of holding onto your true self and how to do so in a world full of outside influence.

Trust is a topic that takes more than one podcast to cover. On this episode of Perfectly Obstinate People, Kathy Kolbe leans further into the relationship between trust and the conative domain of the mind. Listen in to gain insights into how and why people have the relationship with trust that they do - based on their M.O.

Trust is at the forefront of all things in life. Trust to dare, to move forward, to create and build, to develop relationships, to feel comfortable and reassured. Where does it come from and how do we do it? In this episode, Kathy Kolbe discusses the conative relationship with trust and how to better understand people by learning to trust what things they will or won't do. 

There are social, academic, and personal obstacles inherent to youth, and when you add other features like giftedness, things can get complicated. How can we help our youth understand social expectations, and learn to be themselves, often in spite of those expectations? On this episode of Perfectly Obstinate People, Kathy Kolbe draws on her years of experience working in gifted education. Listen in to gain insight into how both parents and students can effectively advocate with schools for their needs. 

What makes someone exceptionally great at what they do? We all know people who go above and beyond the standard to become the best in their field. Is it natural-born ability or a strong desire to achieve? On this episode of Perfectly Obstinate People, Kathy Kolbe discusses this topic from a conative perspective and sheds some light onto what she believes is the source of this "greatness."

At one point our another, each of us reaches a point of burning out. The solution is often simpler than we think. On this episode of Perfectly Obstinate People, Kathy Kolbe discusses the role conation plays in burn out - and how a few easy tips can be the solution.