Permission to Become

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  • Ep. 26: Maira Hernández, Permission to Create Aventura, Amor y Tacos

    In this episode, I am so excited to share with you this powerful conversation I had with Maira Hernández (@maira.hdez), an award-winning author of the book Aventura, Amor y Tacos (@aventura.amor.tacos), on her journey back to her motherland in Michoacán, México that became the turning point of her life and inspired her to write this book.

    In this episode, Maira and I dived into:

    • Her bicultural upbringing and following the path she was supposed to be on
    • How her journey back to her motherland helped her reclaim her identity and purpose
    • How her cultural heritage empowered her to find her voice and the courage to write her book
    • Her 3 tips for those who are to embark on their own journey to reconnect with their raíces (roots)
    • Maira’s Bio:

      Maira is an award-winning author, photographer, and self-proclaimed aventurera (adventurer). Born and raised in LA with roots in México, she helps people reconnect with their raíces (roots) to use the lessons from their cultural heritage to empower themselves to be badass individuals.

      Links:

      • Her book Aventura, Amor y Tacos (signed copy)
      • Website: https://www.mairahernandez.com/
      • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aventura.amor.tacos/
      • This podcast episode is sponsored by

        • Ana Luisa Jewelry: Go to https://shop.analuisa.com/permissiontobecome. They are a conscious luxury jewelry brand with affordable prices starting at $39. Right now, their jewelry is at buy one, get one 40% off.
        • Audible: Go to https://www.audibletrial.com/permissiontobecome to get 1 month free trial! In 2021, I was able to complete 62 books by listening to audiobooks on my daily walks and long drives, thanks to Audible!
        • Follow this podcast on Instagram @permissiontobecome for the latest updates! Also, if you love this podcast, I'd love for you to leave a comment or review on Apple Podcast. I'd love to hear from you!

          If you are seeking more support from other women who are walking on a similar journey, I'd like to invite you to join the free Permission to Become Community!

          52 min
        • Ep. 25: Julia Kestner - Permission to Create Purpose-Driven Art

          In this episode, I am so excited to introduce Julia Kestner (@juliakestnerdesigns), an Asian American illustrator who uses her creative voice to uplift social justice movements by creating art that focuses on important issues such as mental health, gender equality, women’s rights, and racial justice. 

          In this episode, Julia and I dived into: 

          • Julia’s experience with finding her identity and a sense of belonging as a biracial, growing up in Japan and later moving to the U.S. 
          • How she found her purpose through art 
          • How she broke through the “model minority myth” and found her voice and courage to share her creative work How she defines success as a Creator 
          • How gave herself the permission to leave her 9-5 to pursue art as a full-time entrepreneur 
          • Julia’s Bio: 

            Julia is an illustrator with a passion for creating purpose-driven art. She strives to use her creative voice to uplift social justice movements and envision a better world. She enjoys creating work that’s focused around important issues such as mental health, social justice, women’s rights, and gender equality. She strives to normalize inclusion in the illustration world by creating positive, empowering, and uplifting artwork that not only inspires her audience, but also helps create lasting and meaningful change. 

            Links: 

            • Website: https://www.juliakestnerdesigns.com/ 
            • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliakestnerdesigns/ 
            • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JuliaKestnerDesigns/ 
            • This podcast episode is sponsored by 

              • Ana Luisa Jewelry: Go to https://shop.analuisa.com/permissiontobecome. They are a conscious luxury jewelry brand with affordable prices starting at $39. Right now, their jewelry is at buy one, get one 40% off.  
              • Audible: Go to https://www.audibletrial.com/permissiontobecome to get 1 month free trial! In 2021, I was able to complete 62 books by listening to audiobooks on my daily walks and long drives, thanks to Audible! 
              • Follow this podcast on Instagram @permissiontobecome for the latest updates! Also, if you love this podcast, I'd love for you to leave a comment or review on Apple Podcast. I'd love to hear from you! 

                If you are seeking more support from other women who are walking on a similar journey, I'd like to invite you to join the free Permission to Become Community!

                49 min
              • Season 3: Permission to Become the Creator of Your Life
                Hi listeners, welcome to Season 3 of the Permission to Become podcast. This season, I'm focusing on the theme: Permission to Become the Creator of Your Life. As I tuned into the creative energy that is seeking to be expressed through this podcast, I heard the calling to launch a new season on creativity. I am so excited to share this new season with all of you where I have invited artists, designers, authors, and creators from all walks of life, to share their journey with you, in hope of inspiring you to spark your  creative fire and to connect to the Creator within you!
                "As we are creative beings, our lives become our work of art". - Julia Cameron, The Artist Way
                For more information, you can find me on Instagram @permissiontobecome or email me at [email protected]. I hope you will enjoy this new season as much as I have enjoyed bringing this creative expression to life for you!
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              • Ep. 24: Permission to Belong: A Conversation on Racial Healing and Finding Our Way Back to Love, Truth, and Authentic Connections

                “True belonging is the spiritual practice of believing in and belonging to yourself so deeply that you can share your most authentic self with the world and find sacredness in both being a part of something and standing alone in the wilderness. True belonging doesn’t require you to change who you are; it requires you to be who you are.” ― Brené Brown, Braving the Wilderness: The Quest for True Belonging and the Courage to Stand Alone 

                “Belonging is the opposite of loneliness. It’s a feeling of home, of “I can exhale here and be fully myself with no judgment or insecurity.” Belonging is about shared values and responsibility, and the desire to participate in making your community better. It’s about taking pride, showing up, and offering your unique gifts to others. You can’t belong if you only take.” ― Radha Agrawal, Belong: Find Your People, Create Community, and Live a More Connected Life 

                Resources: 

                Books on Social Justice & Racial Healing: 

                • The Racial Healing Handbook: Practical Activities to Help You Challenge Privilege, Confront Systemic Racism, and Engage in Collective Healing by Anneliese A. Singh 
                • The Inner Work of Racial Justice: Healing Ourselves and Transforming Our Communities Through Mindfulness by Rhonda Magee 
                • Me & White Supremacy 
                • Radical Compassion & Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach 
                • Books on Asian American Experiences: 

                  • Minor Feelings by Cathy Hong Park 
                  • Model Breakers by Charlene Wang 
                  • Crying in H Mart by Michelle Zauner 
                  • The Making of Asian America by Erika Lee 
                  • Eat a Peach by David Chang 
                  • Books on Belonging 

                    • Belong: Find Your People, Create Community, and Live a More Connected Life by Radha Agrawal 
                    • The Art of Community: Seven Principles for Belonging by Charles H. Vogl 
                    • The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters by Priya Parker 
                    • AAPI Organizations 

                      • AAPI Women Lead 
                      • Asian Mental Health Collective  
                      • Asian American Feminist Collective 

                      • This podcast episode is sponsored by 

                        • Ana Luisa Jewelry: Go to https://shop.analuisa.com/permissiontobecome to get 10% off your order
                        • Audible: Go to https://www.audibletrial.com/permissiontobecome to get 1 month free trial! 

                        • 23 min
                        • Ep. 23: Paje Rey, Permission to Become Financially Free

                          In this episode, I interviewed Paje Rey (@pajerey) who is a business management coach. She works with heart-centered individuals and entrepreneurs to remove unnecessary money blocks.

                          In this episode, we dived into:

                          • Working through her financial identity and money blocks from her upbringing in Manila
                          • How her 1st year of marriage changed her financial situation
                          • Moving from a 9-5 minimum wage job to becoming a business coach and entrepreneur
                          • Her path to creative passive income and becoming financially free
                          • Her Healthy Holy Money Flow 5-step process
                          • If you enjoyed this podcast, I’d love for you to rate or leave a review on Apple podcast!

                            Paje Rey's Manifesto:

                            I'm on a mission to shift the culture one home at a time by ending unnecessary pain and baggage related to money.

                            I envision heart-centered coaches and driven individuals becoming successful Entrepreneurs!

                            I’m inspired to lead and help others make a relevant impact in the new economy so we can contribute to the future generation while giving ourselves the chance to experience and turn our own dreams into our reality.

                            I'm shifting the culture, one family, at a time by empowering others to live courageously, generously, and abundantly.

                            Parents and children alike live free from fear and stress caused by money.

                            As a community, we focus on things that truly matter - faith, family, health. We are achieving things without making the wrong sacrifices.

                            Links:

                            • Paje’s Youtube Channel
                            • Instagram: @pajerey
                            • 56 min
                            • Ep. 22: Holly Emmerson - Permission to Become a Dream Oracle

                              In this episode, I am so excited to interview Holly Emmerson (@DreamOracleHolly), a dream oracle who has a unique ability to channel Spirit and the Universe while asleep in the Dream World. Personally, I had been fascinated by dreams for a long time. At the same time, despite the number of vivid and mystical dreams I’ve experienced, dreams to me are somewhat of a black box.

                              In this episode, Holly and I dived into the following:

                              • What is a Dream Oracle and how Holly awakened her unique gift through a special trip to Egypt and an Akashic Records reading
                              • Holly’s own healing journey that allowed her to leave her corporate job, claim her gift and step into her mission of re-awakening this gift in humanity
                              • What is the Dream World and why do most people struggle to remember their dreams?
                              • What is the purpose of our dreams and how can dreams help us remove blocks and barriers in our conscious mind?
                              • Why do we astral travel during dreams?
                              • And many more!!
                              • If you are interested in learning more about how to decode your own dreams, you can access Holly’s FREE GUIDE to understand your personal dream language!

                                She will also open enrollment to her Dream Oracle School in November so be sure to sign up for her waitlist!

                                Holly’s Bio:

                                Holly Emmerson is a Dream Oracle and helps others manifest their goals and desires. She has a unique ability to channel Spirit and The Universe while asleep in the Dream World.

                                In the Dream World, she receives answers to her clients questions, gains guidance, and finds their unsupportive subconscious blocks, all to support their healing journey. By healing and removing these blocks, living a more aligned life becomes easier and allows the flow of abundance, joy, love or whatever her clients desire to manifest.

                                Holly is also the Founder of Dream Oracle School where she teaches other how to use dreams as a tool for spiritual awakening, learn their personal dream language and perhaps unlock their own unique abilities as a Dream Oracle.

                                She also shares channeled Dream Oracle messages for the collective on her Youtube channel and Instagram.

                                Links:

                                • Website: https://www.hollyemmerson.com
                                • Instagram: @DreamOracleHolly
                                • YouTube: https//www.youtube.com/c/DreamOracleHolly
                                • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DreamOracleHolly
                                • 1 hr
                                • BONUS Ep. 21: Permission to Dance with Grief with @dianalives

                                  In Rising Strong, Brene Brown wrote, “We run from grief because loss scares us, yet our hearts reach toward grief because the broken parts want to mend… When grief is part of your story, it needs to be held to be healed. We cannot heal what has not been processed, and it takes time to move through the pain of loss and grief.”

                                  In this episode, I invited life empowerment coach, Diana (@dianalives), for a powerful bonus session on GRIEF: 

                                  1. What is grief and why do we fear grief?
                                  2. What is the importance of grief and grieving, especially for healing?
                                  3. How can one properly grieve? How can we create rituals that help us grieve and let go?
                                  4. Diana's Bio: 

                                    Diana H. Wayne (@dianalives) is a Life Empowerment Coach on a mission to help women heal their life challenges to live their authentic soulfully aligned life. After losing two of her sisters 15 months apart Diana went on a mission to uncover how to navigate grief and answer the age old question: What is the purpose of Life? Today, Diana coaches clients over the world to heal failed relationships, traumas, careers, and grief, by using the power of mindset, practical psychology, and spirituality. She lives in San Francisco, CA with her husband Toby.

                                    Links: 

                                    • Instagram: @dianalives
                                    • Website: https://www.dianawayne.com/
                                    • Freebie: this is a 4 part meditation series covering grief, loss, stress, and Finding Inner Peace LINK
                                    • 21 min
                                    • Ep. 20: Ksenia Sita, Permission to Become The Sublime Woman

                                      In this episode, I am so excited to interview Ksenia Sita (@kseniadevisita), the creator of The Sublime Woman (@thesublimewoman), a blog dedicated to all things related to femininity, from definitions of feminine energies and archetypes to ancient feminine wisdoms and practices.

                                      In this episode, we dived into

                                      • Ksenia’s journey into her own femininity
                                      • What inspired her to start the blog The Sublime Woman
                                      • How to connect with your femininity through moon cycles
                                      • How to tap into the power of your womb and yoni steaming
                                      • Her top practices on how to preserve the sacred feminine energy
                                      • I hope you will enjoy this conversation! 

                                        Ksenia’s Bio:

                                        Ksenia Sita is the feminine woman behind The Sublime Woman blog. She is also an energy healer, certified Ayurvedic Lifestyle Consultant, and aspiring Vedic astrologer. She is passionate about ways we can cultivate, maintain and learn about femininity.

                                        Links: 

                                        • Website: https://www.thesublimewoman.com/
                                        • Instagram: @kseniadevisita
                                        • Instagram: @thesublimewoman
                                        • 49 min
                                        • Ep. 19: Anna Choi, Permission to Become a Conscious Entrepreneur

                                          In this episode, I invited Anna Choi, the founder and CEO (Chief Energy Officer) of Conscious Business Coaching to share with us her journey to becoming a conscious entrepreneur and her path to spirituality. Her mission is to empower the next generation of global conscious leaders to better energetically align so they can grow with more flow. Yes, business and spirituality can co-exist!

                                          In this activating conversation, Anna and I dived deep into

                                          • Her upbringing as the “token Asian” in the U.S. Midwest
                                          • Choosing between the traditional corporate route v. entrepreneurial route
                                          • Her journey into spiritual entrepreneurship and seeking the “ultimate Truth”
                                          • Her wisdom on how to find one’s purpose and get past the root of resistance
                                          • How she found her her inner martial artistry of balancing the yin with yang in the over “yang-ified” world
                                          • The A.L.I.V.E. model that she uses to coach her clients to shift from hustle and grind to creating more space and time
                                          • How to PIVOT and transition in time of chaos using the “Yes Yes Hell No” framework
                                          • Resources:

                                            • Anna’s FREE Energy Power Checklist:

                                            • https://www.annasunchoi.com/free
                                            • Vipassana Meditation Retreat: dhamma.org
                                            • Yes Yes Hell No: The Little Book for Making Big Decisions by Brian Whitten
                                            • Anna’s TEDx Talk: Finding Peace in Chaos
                                            • Anna’s Bio:

                                              Anna S. Choi’s promise is to elevate humanity's consciousness serving high achieving conscious leads to find peace in chaos, master their energy, and embody their brilliance. As a broke art major with zero experience or connections, she started and sold her first financial planning business grossing six figures by age 25. Burned out from the hustle and grind, she became an Energy Master, martial artist, and qigong yoga instructor serving hundreds of conscious leaders over the past two decades. A Forbes Author, TEDx Speaker, and homeschool mom, she loves to sing on her ukulele, cook vegan meals, and dance.

                                              Links:

                                              Website: https://www.annasunchoi.com/

                                              LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annasunchoi/


                                              For more info, follow your host Joyce Bao on Instagram @permissiontobecome! 

                                              48 min
                                            • Ep. 18: Dr. Margaret Li, Permission to Find Your True Self - a conversation with clinical psychologist about the multicultural approach to embracing one's identity

                                              In this episode, Dr. Margaret Li Aghaeepour, a clinical psychologist and the owner of Ray Psychology, and I had an in-depth conversation about the state of mental health in the Asian American community.

                                              In this conversation, Dr. Margaret and I went down the rabbit hole of a number of topics, including:

                                              • Internalized racism: the myths of racial stereotypes
                                              • Root causes of work stress, burnout, performance anxiety, and relationship challenges
                                              • How our childhood created layers of false self
                                              • Why sex is a taboo topic in relationships
                                              • Multicultural approach to embrace your own identity
                                              • Power of choice and knowing your own needs
                                              • Margaret’s Bio:

                                                Margaret Aghaeepour is a licensed clinical psychologist, the founder and director of Ray Psychology. She specializes in Asian American mental health, couples therapy and sex therapy. In her private practice, she helps individuals and couples navigate struggles of feeling confident, finding a sense of belonging, making impacts, juggling work and life demands, finding love, maintaining healthy relationships, drawing healthy boundaries with family members, and resolving childhood traumas.

                                                Links:

                                                Website:  www.raypsychology.com


                                                For more info on the host, visit www.permissiontobecome.com and follow Joyce on Instagram @permissiontobecome!

                                                52 min

                                              About Permission to Become

                                              From the publisher's feed

                                              This is a podcast about the untold tales of Asian American women breaking out of who they should be, becoming who they truly are, and living their dream life. This podcast is for any Asian American women who are curiously exploring their boundaries and permissions around self-discovery and personal empowerment. This podcast is also for any curious souls who want to learn more about the journeys of Asian American women's own becoming.