Personal Power With Caryn

Over 70% of the people in the world are not utilizing the secret to success. Are you? Listen and discover what at most, 30% of the world’s population do that others don’t.

Do you know what discernment does?

How many of us have wasted our time on a project we liked the first week but struggled to finish because we lacked discernment? I have. That crocheted afghan, refinishing that chair, making those slipcovers, all look like fun but after the first week, may seem like too much work. I remember becoming ambitious on re-roping a hammock. It began great but soon became so overwhelming, I had to stop. It was not fun and I gave up. Did you ever feel that way?

Do you know what discernment is?

Some things require a lot of our time. Many using social media either on their computer or smartphone, come across videos or podcasts like this one and have only a few minutes to listen or watch. Which ones should we view? Which podcast should we listen to? Granted podcasts can be listened to while we drive and only require our ears but we have priorities.

With the busyness of life, we hesitate to give some things our undivided attention because these may be distractions.  But what if they can help further our growth or success in some way? How do we decide?  How do we know what things to give our time or attention to?

What secret does discernment hold?

Should we take that job? Should we volunteer for that cause? Will it take us away from the other priorities for too long?

Discover what that thing is as you listen to this weeks podcast here. It requires 11 minutes.

The power of discernment combined with this simple secret will bring you more happiness than you can imagine.

In order for things to change, we have to change. Circumstances come and go so much that habits are formed to help keep some stability. The habit of saving money keeps our finances in order. Other habits do similar things

Overcome fear when you change your mind

In order to overcome the fear of loss and have peace, we must evaluate our circumstances and mindset towards changing things in our lives.Taking time find practical ways to get money coming in can take some pressure off  the loss of income due to lay offs, cut backs or limiting beliefs. After retirement, having additional income from a part time job can help. Divorce can create a fear of loss when a lifestyle becomes compromised. Selling goods no longer used can bring in some additional income.

Embrace Change when you create rules that help you overcome

Using prayer or meditation, we can clarify what things we must change so we may have your needs met. Let’s learn some simple areas to evaluate as we listen to Caryn Elizabeth teach from experience, what will  empower us to change so our needs are met and we have peace of mind.

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Change is easy when we have the best reasons for changing.

This podcast will teach you how to use discontentment you are feeling right now, to bring competency and help others. Listen to this 14 minute mp3. Subscribe to the podcast by following the tab above.

Discontentment to find a better way

In my search for photos about discontent, I discovered that many people see it as a bad thing. Some see it as sin! Others as a lack of gratefulness for the things we already have. I beg to differ. When we are young, we should be on a quest for truth as well as competency in the practical skills of life. We come into this world under the control of a higher power. Sure, we may come to find out that there is a plan for our lives. But as children, we don’t know that except that we are taught it by the church or by parents. How many of our teachers in life never tell us this?

Let discontentment drive you to become more competent

Babies are not content to sit when they can walk. They lack competency but that discontentment given to them by God causes passion for walking to rise up in them. Through daily action, they are becoming competent in walking. What they lack in discipline, they have in discontentment. When conquering all youths discontents of body, they move on to conquering becoming the best at riding a bike or spitting the furthest. Discontented girls conquer control over their physical bodies, their hair, their weight, their school work.

As Napoleon Hill shares in the Laws of Success, disciplines are the competencies we gain by the exercise of discontentment. Millionaires become disciplined to make their first hundred and go on to make thousands, tens of thousands and then millions. Some will say they are discontent and greedy. Others will claim their discontentment is a sin. I disagree. It’s in the motivation of their chief aim you will find the truth.

Let discontentment help you give to others what it gave to you

Life is about living, experiencing new things. Some are taught to be content, thanking God for what they have and living with that. This false teaching leads people to laziness, a case for lost motivation, and possibly suicide. We are here for a purpose.. in fact, for many purposes. What we become competent in may help others. The greater our competencies, the greater our impact on others. Why do you limit yourself by becoming content?

There is going to be a time where enough is enough. But until you reach old age, your aim might be to become more, to do more, to serve more. Granted, our faith and our family must be our first priority. We need to keep priorities in order. However, you are never too old to teach others what you learned through all the years you’ve lived. The heart of each of us must be to eliminate the fears others have of the unknown. The fear of the future, being unknown to youth, can be calmed by the wisdom of a well placed conversation by an elderly person.

If you are discontent, let it be because you don’t know enough to help those in your influence. If you haven’t those around you to influence, use discontent to pray for the next step in finding those your knowledge and wisdom can bless. Whether you have competencies in homemaking or making millions, let discontentment be used now and later to serve your family and others so their fears can be eliminated. They can grow up to serve others as you have taught by your example. Let us remember that we came into this world by a greater force out of our control and we will leave by that same force. While we are here, let us make the most of ourselves and propel others to lives of discontentment and service for God’s sake, as we live out the calling and purpose He brought us here to fulfill.

Listen to the podcast for  help on  emotions and being content.

Do yo not, do you believe it’s your duty to change yourself so you are like them?

Would you ever choose to be less productive to fit in?

What emotions are influencing others?

You see, changing others doesn’t really help them . It forces them to do what they wouldn’t do without force.

Change is best, when done naturally, influenced by wisdom that came via emotional experiences and knowledge.

How can we truly affect/influence others?

We all die. But while we’re here, we can enjoy going through the motions and emotions of living, good or bad, feeling all kinds of emotions.

People united by emotions

When we’re young, we want to fit in. While employed, we are told we must fit in. Self employed, we have freedom to do things from our gut, but hopefully we’ve learned enough about business skills to keep us grounded. There’s a fine balance between living free and having success financially.

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Wealthy Focus On Certain Things

Do you forget things a lot? Do you walk right past that bag for your mom and forget to pick it up when you go visiting her?

Are you visual and say “if it’s in front of me, then I’ll remember it? Well I’m here to say that it’s “focus” that gets things done. It’s focus that helps you remember things.

It’s writing a list that keeps you focused on things of importance. Some of us wait until there’s a crisis situation before we act on our own behalf.

Healthy Living Begins With Focus

Having a heart attack before we take steps to keep our heart healthy

Before we have a crisis situation, and while we are young and enthusiastic, we can create habits that serve us for a good future, a rich future, a happy life.

What do you focus on most?

While writing goals creates focus, we still must be open to what the universe has in store for us. Knowing how to manage our writing so we focus on taking the next action step, as suggested in Begin With Yes, by Paul Boynton, we will soon come to reach our goals.

God’s plans for us are for good. Our own plans are limited by what we can see, even in our vision. The details may surprise and delight us as we stay open. There is a statement in the Major Definite Purpose  by Napoleon Hill that states “While I don’t know how this will occur, I see this income coming to me and I continue to be happy knowing it is coming into my bank account and my mailbox from the abundance of money in the world.”  I believe that Napoleon Hill knew this from experience and now we can learn by The Laws Of Success too.

It begins with writing things down. Listen as I share more about what we should be writing.

You can purchase “Begin with Yes” here.  If you have fallen on hard times financially, I can offer an ebook copy here. This book shed so much light on how to build self confidence back in your goal setting and success happiness. As a courtesy, please leave a comment and suggestions on how to serve you better. I need the feedback in order to move forward with my podcast. Thank you.

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How to stay focused when others attack you by Caryn Elizabeth on Mixcloud

Do you focus on your purpose?

How do you act and keep your focus when someone disrespects or attacks you in some way? Listen as I bring clarity to what’s actually going on inside you and the other person and show you where to get power to overcome it. The secret to your power is having a major definite purpose that is bigger than the immediate circumstance.

I worked for a hotel years ago and began to learn the trade from a young immature manager. She had little management capabilities and less tact in handling newbies. It seems like she wanted her workers to fail and looked for ways to provoke them to anger. I chose to leave my position after 5 weeks of anxiety and went back to doing things I loved to do. That job was not congruent with my purpose at the time but I learned from it.

Success: Whatever you do, good or bad, it’s never a failure if you learn something from it.

Do You focus on your power?

You’d be surprised how much power you have to keep yourself from becoming defensive. We have several ways to respond but the two major ones are to respond as a leader or as a follower. It’s our responsibility to learn what makes us tick. Bottom line was that I needed to nurture the seedlings of my hearts desire and look for ways to help them grow. My purpose combined with actions for it’s attainment make me strong. They will make you strong and powerful as well.

Believe In Your Purpose And Change Your Future

Listen to how having a definite major purpose will cause your attacker to have little affect on your emotions. I will explain how to manage your emotions, and show you how to attract what you want more quickly. Your purpose must be bigger than what you want for you alone. Taking care of yourself shows respect for the purpose you plant in your heart that may affect the global population. Your mindset grows stronger and stronger because you have both the care for yourself and the focus of your purpose in view consistently.

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It will be easy to keep focus when your purpose has it’s roots in loving others as you love yourself.

How to get your prayers answered quickly by Caryn Elizabeth on Mixcloud

Many people don’t know what having a definite major purpose has to do with getting prayers answered. This podcast explains what it is, where you get it, how to use it and how to feel great about your life because of it.

I address unity, competition, comparison, perspective, success, happiness, satisfaction.

The collective energy has a specific purpose. When you gather, your purpose is to get what you want. Having a definite major purpose will help you utilize the power of this gathering.

Do you know how science shows us how the universe works. Science expresses the laws of the universe so we can understand what plants and trees are for.

Why do we pray? How does the universe support the answers to our prayers?

Do you want to live better and set goals?  The source is your answer to our faith for these things. Understanding the seasons of sowing and reaping, we will understand that it takes time for answers to manifest and must continue to believe without doubting.

People in unity for a purpose

Are you led by everybody and not focused on your own mind? You are here to do something but as you listen to everything else around you, ignoring your source, you will be tossed and turned by “every wind of doctrine”, as the bible states. You individually are here to create and expand. Asking source, God, for your needs, aligning with a high vibration of love and unity, your needs will be met quickly.

#1 quality true leaders have

This weeks podcast expounds on this statement and reveals the quality great leaders have.

A wise man once said “The challenge of leadership is to be strong, but not rude; be kind, but not weak; be bold, but not a bully; be thoughtful, but not lazy; be humble, but not timid; be proud, but not arrogant; have humor, but without folly.”

My boyfriend wanted to paint his bedroom over. At first, I told him it was a mess and we needed to clean it up and make is just a bedroom and not an office, a gun room and a tv room. But that startled him, especially when I told him the way I’d approach it. He had his own way of cleaning and organizing and it made me wonder if I was going to be able to help him at all.

After some time, and a bit of communication, he shared his approach, which is much like the way he does many other things. He wanted to do it once and do it right. He wanted me to be there to support him. Later on, after reading the above quote, I discovered what my task as a leader over my own life and emotions.

Leaders envision something great

While cleaning up some paperwork of my own, I came across a program about goal setting using the SMART system. One point that jumped out what to state your “outcomes” clearly and specifically. The goal at hand is paint the bedroom and maintain harmony. I wrote down the “first step” after writing a clear set of outcomes I wanted from the project.

Instead of setting a goal, what is better to do is create well formed outcomes. There is a process to this.

So I began to list the outcomes I saw as my goal using positive statements, considering outcomes that I could control either in my mind or in the circumstances.  Many of the statements used words like feel free, enjoy waking up happy, feel an easiness, seeing things I love… and others. All these words are sensory statements suggested. The context involved someone else besides me and I needed to understand what he wanted.

I knew I had the resources I needed because my passion is decorating and my skill is a creative designer. I needed to be sure that upon taking on the project, the outcome would be more beneficial for the both of us and create even a better relationship, which would preserve the existing freedom we are hoping to enlarge.

Lastly, I had to consider the time involved and whether is was worth going through the process. Would it make the bedroom more conducive to happiness and pleasure? As I wrote my list I included outcomes that I consider ecologically sound.

Leadership begins at home

Over the years, I have learned more about leading children. Every parent is a leader. While I embraced my role, I learned that leaders make mistakes as they grow. We must forgive ourselves for our past mistakes and forgive others as is needed at the present time. Leaders do not arrive. I am still on the journey and will continue to develop leadership qualities as a whole person for the rest of my days. My hope is that what I am learning will benefit you along your journey.

Anthony Williams shared a list of goals we must consider when growing our “love” for others. We must understand the person, have compassion for them, feel joy in the relationship, desire freedom for love to develop.

I hope that I have experienced enough to understand you. I do have compassion for you as a person seeking the qualities of a great leader. I know the struggles and the satisfaction I receive from sharing my posts. I feel joy in connecting with you; a joy on the inside that keeps me going. I desire to be free is sharing and developing my audience and I hope that you feel the freedom to comment and connect with me for more podcasts like this.

In this podcast, I get clear on how a leader loves others and what is the opposite of leadership. Click Here to  subscribe. To subscribe using iTunes, click the “podcast” tab above.

Enjoy learning more about the #1 quality true leaders must have. leaders

Feeling Great Will Stop This

Do you find yourself punishing yourself for the experiences you are facing right now?

Would you like to live your best life every day? Listen to this weeks podcast and discover the secret for feeling great every day! You can stop feeling guilty for your mistakes. You can keep feeling great without regrets.

There is a secret trick that brings clarity and the happy life you want. When I went through divorce, I isolated myself somewhat and subconsciously punished myself with a loss of self confidence. I made financial mistakes and punished myself by being fearful of taking any risks at all. You may identify with these extreme measures if you are have high standards of success like me. It’s so sad how long it lasted because I lacked the wisdom I needed to embrace this secret. I heard it. I said it. But I didn’t embrace it wholeheartedly until my attitude was right.

You can stop harming yourself and others when you learn this secret. These are some of the ways life will get better for you.

Getting a good handle on our life, spiritually, in your mindset, and physically, we must learn the secret so we can  plow through our future with surety.

Feeling Great Will Start This

You will help others feel great too!

Do you want to feel great every day? This podcast will give you the secret you can use to begin the process. What happens next is up to you. Applying this secret and searching for further knowledge, you can begin to give hope to others and become a leader others want to follow. Feeling great begins at home, with you.

Do you feel like you are missing out on peace?

Do you wish your success would come already? We can overcome this fear of loss and missing out with a change of mindset. Listen and learn how it’s done with a simple method of belief.

How to overcome the fear of missing out! by Caryn Elizabeth on Mixcloud

We don’t have to miss out any longer. I shared a story about growing up in chaos and my desire for peace. I felt like I was missing out on so many things. Of course, as an adult, I’ve learned to adjust but my life would have been so different if I had known how to think about timing of what I wanted.

Do you feel like you are missing out on success?

For years, with all the misunderstandings I had about my self worth, I had no clue about how to feel a sense of success. But as time progressed slowly, with knowledge I gleaned from books, prayer and experience, I came to see that timing is perfect. Today is the day of your success as you believe it to be. No more waiting and missing out on success.

For years, I experienced circumstances that left me feeling like I would never get to the lifestyle of peace that I wanted. My saving grace came when I returned to faith and family. Getting married and having children, I had a sense of purpose and finally I used my experiences and knowledge to direct myself to be a good mom and wife. My environment was peaceful for the most part. My children were gentle and I maintained peace in my home, which was my ultimate goal. Later, when we moved, chaos was stirred up again and I had to learn more about myself so I could feel at peace again.

Do you feel like you are missing out on the right circumstances??

When I discovered a concept that there is no such thing as “waiting” and that waiting meant a lack of faith, I was stirred to dig further. As you listen to the podcast here, you’ll discover the fine line of belief needed to stop oneself from feeling like you are missing out on one more thing.