Virginia Gilbert and Amanda Schuster get real about the pressure to “do it all” in a marriage—and why that’s not always realistic or healthy. From hiring help during a demanding PhD program to navigating changing expectations in marriage, we’re sharing honest stories about what it really looks like to manage work, home, and personal growth from a woman's perspective.

We also dive into the idea of teaching children to be mindful of the expectations they carry into relationships. Because the truth is, you never really know what your future spouse will need or how life might shift after big changes like having a baby.

If you’ve ever felt guilty for asking for help or found yourself judged for not fitting into a traditional role, this one’s for you.

We cover:

• Why asking for help isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom
• How career demands and home life can clash
• Letting go of rigid expectations in marriage
• The reality of being a mom, partner, and pursuing self-growth all at once
• Encouraging the next generation to expect flexibility, not perfection

💬 Let us know in the comments: Have your expectations ever changed in a big life season?