Perspectives

What happens when resilience becomes a mask?When success hides exhaustion?When survival mode quietly shapes identity without us even noticing?

In our latest Perspectives Podcast, we sat down with three remarkable guests — Ian Sneeth, Uchenna Eneke, and Leticia Francis, for an honest and deeply human conversation about trauma, survival, and transformation.

Together we explored:

* how trauma can influence behaviour, leadership, and relationships

* why high achievement can sometimes be a survival strategy

* how vulnerability, mindfulness, faith, and community create pathways to healing

* and how sharing lived stories helps people feel less alone.

In this conversation we consider the difference between simply functioning and truly living, reminding us that healing begins with awareness, safe spaces, and honest dialogue.

You’ll also hear practical reflections on supporting young people through trauma, recognising emotional overwhelm, and taking small steps toward regulation, connection, and self-understanding.

Take a listen because healing isn’t linear & and none of us should have to struggle alone.

In our latest podcast episode, we sat down to talk about midlife, not as a crisis, but as a moment of reckoning, reflection, and possibility.

We spoke to Kenny Mammarella-D’Cruz, best-selling author and men’s wellbeing coach, and Sonya Rose, ICF-accredited coach for women in business, about the shared emotional landscape of this stage of life, even when it shows up differently for men and women. What unfolded was a conversation that surprised us. Not because men and women experience midlife in the same way — they don’t — but because beneath those differences, the emotional questions were strikingly similar.

We explored how midlife often brings similar emotional questions for women and men, even when they’re expressed differently. Doubt, hesitation, and the sense of being overlooked can sit alongside a loosening of identity, as emotions such as anger, grief, and sadness surface, not as problems to fix, but as signals asking to be felt.

We discussed aging and value, perimenopause, masculinity, and the stories society tells us about who we’re allowed to be as we get older. And again and again, the conversation came back to the same questions: Do I still matter? Can I trust myself? Who am I now?

What stayed with us most was the sense that midlife, though experienced differently by men and women, is ultimately a shared transition, one that calls for honesty, self-acceptance, and the courage to feel what we may not have allowed ourselves to before.

If you’re in midlife, or approaching it, we hope this episode helps you feel less alone, and perhaps sparks a little curiosity about what this stage of life is inviting you into — and what you might make of it!

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In this episode of Perspectives, we invited a mixed-gender panel to explore respect, safety, and gender equality through the lens of education, parenting, and creating safe spaces for honest dialogue.

We dive deep into how schools and communities can foster environments where children and young people feel safe to question, reflect, and grow beyond rigid gender norms. At the same time, we recognize how vital parents are to this conversation, yet how often they are left out of gender equality discussions and support structures.

Rather than framing gender equality as a competition or a battle of extremes, this episode invites you to listen deeply, slow down, and rethink how we teach respect — together. By moving beyond blame, creating open spaces for dialogue, and supporting families and educators alike, we can build a culture where equality is learned early and reinforced every day.

This is not about having the “right” answers but about staying in the room long enough to hear one another.

🎧 Listen now and keep informing those perspectives!

Guest Line Up

Lewis Wedlock – Masculinities educator and author of Masculinities in Schools (Sage, 2025). Lewis works with young men and educators across the UK to explore feminism, allyship, and gender equality, transforming school cultures around masculinity.

Carolina Hinojosa – Project coordinator and lead facilitator at Salford Foundation. Carolina develops gender-based violence prevention programs for schools, helping boys aged 9–13 recognise and challenge harmful gender attitudes.

Francois Viljoen – Founder of Sport Equity Collective, Francois works at the intersection of sport, youth development, and equity. He coaches and mentors to create environments where girls and boys can lead, learn, and grow beyond stereotypes.

Sophie Mukwana – Forensic scientist, consultant, and researcher based in Nairobi. Sophie combines professional expertise with personal experience to explore gender equality, work-life balance, and family dynamics in real-world contexts.

This week’s episode… whew. Neurodiversity is a conversation we’ve wanted to have for a long time. We knew it wouldn’t be an easy one, but our incredible panel were tremendously generous in sharing their own lived experiences, challenges, and perspectives. It’s emotional, illuminating, and — by far — the largest panel we’ve hosted to date. (Spoiler: this will not be the last episode on this subject. Listen in to hear why!)

We didn’t just “talk about neurodiversity,” we explored the lived experience of being misunderstood: as a child, as a student, as an adult, as an employee, and as a friend.

We talked about growing up thinking you’re the “problem.” About masking for survival. About being told you’re less intelligent. About carrying shame you didn’t earn. About finally getting a diagnosis and feeling the puzzle pieces click together. About the freedom, and complexity, of unmasking and embracing who you truly are.

And the guests? Each of their stories could be a book.

🟦 Odera Macfoy Akachukwu

* Nigerian-born entrepreneur, speaker, and transformation strategist

* Founder & CEO of StayLyte Inc.

* Turned dyslexia into a strategic advantage in systems thinking and creativity

🟧 Dr. Maja Czarzasty-Zybert

* Lawyer, energy expert, and diversity advocate in STEM and motorsport

* Founder of Minds on Track, supporting neuro-inclusive performance teams

🟩 Marcus Cecil de Vasconcelos

* Neurodiversity coach and organisational culture consultant

* 20+ years of global business leadership

* Diagnosed autistic in his late 40s after decades of masking

🟪 Pilar Ibanez Ruiz

* Social services leader, writer, and trauma-informed practitioner

* Background in Social Pedagogy with 30 years across frontline & leadership roles

* Diagnosed autistic and gifted in her 40s after years navigating bipolar disorder and exclusion

🟨 Lara Rodwell — Autism

* Journalist and founder of The Lonely Club

* Creates safe meet-ups for young people to talk, connect, and feel less alone. Champion for stigma-free, youth-led, inclusive social spaces

* Focuses on the link between neurodivergence and loneliness

Five wildly different lives that somehow harmonised into one truth:our systems are not designed for different kinds of minds and it doesn’t have to be this way. Advocacy is essential but not easy.

Some of the moments that stayed with us:

💬 “Many young people are masking and don’t know they’re doing it… this becomes trauma later.” — Pilar💬 “The day I was diagnosed was the most beautiful day of my life.” — Maja💬 “I masked for close to 40 years.” — Marcus💬 “I wasn’t dumb. I was reborn.” — Odera💬 “There aren’t enough safe spaces for young people to feel accepted.” 💬 “ I was always labeled as too sensitive, too emotional, I lost my voice, I couldn’t speak and that led to shutdowns and it’s led to me having to do a lot of work to regain power over using my voice and sharing my opinion and sharing my insights because that was always shut down.”— Lara

This is a conversation for anyone who believes in an inclusive world. It’s about celebrating differences, developing empathy, and understanding people who are not like us , which, let’s face it, applies to everyone.

So join us. Listen. Learn. Let’s talk about neurodiversity until we all get it and until we can help build a world that truly works for many kinds of minds.

In this in-person recording, we explore the transformative power of open dialogue with Jeremy Indika. The morning after the debut of our workshop event, “Are You REALLY Listening?”, Jennie, Jeremy, and I sat down over a cup of coffee to reflect on how it had gone.

The event was designed to bring parents and teenagers together in a world full of distractions, creating space for real connection and communication. Through stories shared by Jeremy and Matt Smith from Smashlife UK workshops, along with music and poetry, we explored the courage it takes to bridge generational gaps and uncovered practical insights that can enhance everyday relationships.

Listen in to hear how it all unfolded and the challenges we came up against.

If you’re a parent who’s ever caved and bought the toy you didn’t want to buy, or felt guilty for throwing away something that should be recyclable, you’re in very good company. The truth is, even when we try our best, the whole system makes “doing the right thing” (if we even know what that might be) incredibly difficult. Even when we try to make responsible choices, the system is stacked against us.

So in this week’s episode of Perspectives, we stop pretending the answers are simple. Instead, we talk honestly with three people who work with young people, communities, and ecosystems every single day. They’re not offering perfection. They’re offering possibility.

This is a conversation about shifting habits, building community, modelling the behaviours we hope our children will carry forward, and keeping hope alive, without ignoring the sober reality we’re in. It’s grounded, honest, and it gently nudges you to consider your own role in the bigger picture.

Because every conscious choice, every conversation, every shared moment of awareness matters. This episode certainly got us thinking. There are no easy answers, and that’s exactly why awareness is so important. With a bit more understanding, each of us is better equipped to take our own small, meaningful steps.

The guests:

🌍 Hugo Valdes-Vera — Founder of Think Ocean CIC🌊 Linus K. Owino — Founder & CEO, Mariners for Action, Kenya🌱 Mlibo Tyala — Environmental educator and founder of the ECO–Community Project, South Africa

Listen in and keep Informing Those Perspectives.

Respect feels like one of those timeless values, we all say it matters, we all believe people deserve it, and yet… many of us sense that something is shifting. In a world of fast communication, quick reactions, and increasing pressure, respect can feel harder to find and even harder to sustain.

In our latest episode of Perspectives from the Informed Perspective, we explore what’s really going on with respect today:What does it actually mean?What effect does it have on the brain and our performance when we are treated with respect?Why does it break down so easily?And how can we practice it, not as a slogan, but as a daily lived behaviour?

To help us dive deeper, we’re joined by three incredible guests:

* Julie Pham, who reveals how curiosity and a willingness to learn transform communication

* Paul Meshanko, who explains the brain science of respect, why it calms us, connects us, and supports our health and also talks about respect in the workplace

* Claudia Hackman, who shows how self-respect, boundaries, and cross-cultural etiquette can make everyday interactions kinder and more intentional

We explore:

* How respect is a behaviour, not just a belief

* Why self-respect and healthy boundaries are essential starting points

* How digital spaces and cultural differences create misunderstandings

* The power of small gestures, like eye contact, a smile, or thoughtful language

* Why leaders must model respect if they want it to thrive in their organisations

This episode invites you to slow down, reflect, and reconsider how we show up for one another, at home, at work, online, and in our communities.

Care is everywhere, in the quiet acts that hold families together, in the advocacy that challenges broken systems, and in the resilience of those who show up, again and again, for others.

In this week’s Perspectives Podcast, we explore the many layers of caregiving, personal, professional, and systemic. Our guests, Rachell Dumas, and Kristi Horner, bring deeply human stories of loss, advocacy, and renewal.

Rachell opens up about her journey through multiple pregnancy losses and the creation of a nonprofit supporting mothers. Her courage shows how storytelling can become a form of healing. She shares her dual experience as a nurse and patient, offering insight into healthcare trauma and the importance of self-advocacy and doula support.

Kristi, through Courage to Caregivers, reminds us that caregiving begins with self-care, that to sustain others, we must also sustain ourselves.

The conversation touches on maternal health, mental wellness, and the power of community in transforming care systems. Above all, it reminds us that care is not just what we do — it’s who we are.

Listen In to the full conversation.

In our latest Perspectives episode, we dive into how creative practices, from photography to fashion psychology to improvisation, help us understand, express, and experiment with who we are.

Meet the Guests:

* Adam Isfendiyar, photographer: Explores belonging across cultures and captures human connection through his lens.

* Jennifer Heinen, fashion psychologist: Shares how clothing influences mood, confidence, and self-expression.

* Piotr Baranski, actor and improviser: Uses improvisation to embrace multiple selves and explore authenticity.

We began with Adam, who has spent years exploring identity through photography. From documenting the Ainu people in Japan to reflecting on his own Cypriot, Jewish, and British heritage, Adam reminded us that photography is as much about empathy and connection as it is about the final image.

Jennifer then joined the conversation to unpack fashion psychology. She showed how the clothes we wear aren’t just about style, they shape how we feel, focus, and interact with the world. Her insights on “enclothed cognition” and her “Style Mind Shift” framework reveal how dressing intentionally can support confidence, identity, and emotional wellbeing.

Piotr brought a playful and thoughtful perspective on improvisation. Whether on stage or in everyday life, he highlighted how experimenting with different versions of ourselves isn’t just okay, it’s necessary. Improvisation teaches presence, adaptability, and reminds us that we can be “enough” just as we are.

✨ Key takeaways to carry with you:

* Identity evolves, it’s never just one fixed label.

* Self-expression is an act of courage at any age.

* Creativity, clothing, and improvisation are tools for exploring who you are.

* Safe spaces and self-awareness give you the freedom to experiment and grow.

* Emotional intelligence—being “better with feelings”—is a superpower for authenticity.

If you’ve ever wondered how to navigate identity, try on new ways of self-expression, or just feel a little freer in your day-to-day, then give this episode a listen.

What comes to mind when you think of “accessibility”? A ramp? A disabled parking spot? Maybe an elevator?

Now ask yourself is that enough?

In our latest Perspectives Podcast episode, “Disability” we talk real life. With guests Dave Walsh, Lori Renna Linton, Peter Torres Fremlin, and Wioleta Jóźwiak, we dive into real stories and experiences.

🔹 Key Topics Include:

* Why accessibility is more than just ramps and elevators

* How everyday oversights (like inadequate toilet facilities or service desks that are too high) still exclude people

* What real allyship looks like and how you can practice it today

* Why empathy requires imagination or lived experience — and how to build it

* The tension between good intent and impact when talking about disability

* How media can stop sensationalising and start listening

Guest Panel:

Peter Torres Fremlin , creator of Disability Debrief, a global newsletter exploring disability through lived experience and international perspectives.Wioleta Jóźwiak, Chief Accessibility Specialist for Poland’s National Centre for Culture, leading inclusive design in museums and public spaces.Dave Walsh, former soldier turned multiple-time World’s Strongest Disabled Man, now a speaker on resilience, disability awareness, and mental health.Lori Renna Linton , patient advocate for Hereditary Spastic Paraplegia (HSP), teacher, and creator of the empathy-building project Potato Pants.

Standout Moments:

* Dave shares how becoming disabled gave him permission to be vulnerable, something he never allowed himself before.

* Lori tells us all about “Potato Pants,” a race she created to build empathy through experience.

* Peter explains how global storytelling can shift the disability narrative.

* Wioleta reframes universal design as something that should be joyful, not clinical.

Why Listen?

Because 1 in 6 people globally live with a disability and most of our systems are still designed for the other five.Because your language, your design choices, your curiosity, and your allyship all matter.

This conversation will definitely give you lots to think about.