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Our instinct as parents can be to hold our kids so tightly in order to protect and guide them into the life we want for them. Sadly, such a tight rein sometimes squashes their unique traits—pieces of them that should be celebrated and allowed space to learn and grow in their own way.

In a society that likes to point out weaknesses and conform us to fit a specific mold, Marcus Buckingham wants to turn this thinking upside down by helping people define strengths, innate tendencies, and personal loves. In this clip, he shares the extremes of his own experiences, from his ex-wife and son's involvement in a college admissions scandal, to his own childhood filled with space to become his own person.

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Do you find yourself sometimes blaming your current unhappiness and dissatisfaction on past choices? While that's a common sentiment, regret can actually have a positive effect on our lives. The trick is to find the gift in our regret, and learn from it as we move forward.

Author Dan Pink has collected over 16,000 regrets from real people around the globe, and today he shares the four core regrets we all face, and explains how to transform your regrets into a life you enjoy more.

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Why is it so hard to create good habits? We think that if we can find enough motivation and discipline, we should be able to accomplish our goals. The problem? We think we have to go big or go home—and so we set ourselves up for failure.

B.J. Fogg, a behavior scientist at Stanford, explains why tiny habits are the key to changing your life. It comes down to creating triggers based on existing behaviors. We have the power to reprogram our brains one small positive step at a time—whether it's doing daily push ups, or finding our calm in the midst of difficult parenting.

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As July wraps up, let's take a moment to honor Social Wellness Month. Your personal well-being and connection network is important for not only your health, but the health of your family. Scientists are finding that the strength of your community can have powerful effects not only on your health, but can also influence your biology, lengthen your life, and improve your overall well-being.

Today Dr. Chelsea Shields, a biosocial anthropologist, will explain social wellness in detail, and why it's crucial that we take daily steps toward community and relationships. She shares three simple tips to move toward healthy social wellness.

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Even with a 4-month baby in her arms during our interview, K. Domiana Ndour emanates an authentic and grounding presence. She's not only a wife and mom of three, but also a retired pro basketball player, two-time best-selling author, somatic healer, coach, international speaker, certified yoga instructor and educator. She's on a mission to equip busy moms like you and me with the tools to self-heal and regulate emotions, all while breaking the cycle of burnout and overwhelm. This is definitely an episode you won't want to miss!

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Most parenting advice is all about how to get your kid to follow your rules and your schedule. But the real secret to parenting that most people won't tell you? Work on yourself. Of course, that's much easier said than done, because introspection is tough to fit on your to-do list amid parenting, working, cooking, cleaning, and all the things that life requires.

Renowned motivational speaker Les Brown shares that you have greatness inside of you, and taking the time to understand what you really want and the impact you want to make is of first importance. Listen as he gives a few tips on how to upgrade your life in big ways.

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When the weight of the world is too much, too heavy, too chaotic, you can make some simple changes to be the calm in the storm—and exercise is one of those tools.

Dr. Wendy Suzuki, a professor of neuroscience and psychology and dean at NYU, breaks down how exercise has both immediate and long-term effects on your mood and body, and how these effects alter and protect your brain. And the best part?? Getting this exercise might be simpler than you think.

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Recently I noticed myself trying to tame my child's complaining by teaching a big lesson on gratitude. Anyone relate to this? Now of course teaching gratitude is important, but not at the cost of shutting down communication about honest feelings and potentially damaging our relationship.

Today's throwback episode (Episode 168) is truly the Cliffs Notes on how to be a parent, and how to cultivate healthy relationships with your kiddos. Philippa Perry is a psychotherapist and author who is passionate about helping parents navigate their own past in order to change their patterns of parent-child dynamics. She explains how to be authentic, why we need to define ourselves and our own needs to our kids, and how to build a positive blueprint for every future relationship they will have.

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• Read The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read: (And Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did).

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Do you ever feel out of alignment, helpless from trying to carry the weight of the world, and wondering if what you do makes a difference? As parents, we can't fix the whole world for our kids—but we can start small and take just one step at a time. Today's talk by Ed Mylett will inspire you to keep going one more day, to keep showing up for your kids to prove to them that they matter.

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As parents, we rely on our kids' schools every day to help them thrive. But the truth is that it starts with the culture we create at home. We have the opportunity to provide an environment of energy, action, momentum, hope and possibility. When kids know they have an adult in their corner who believes in them, they will do better.

Today Simon T. Bailey shares how we can be the catalyst to help our kids view their education as something special, to create a vision of possibility that is often desperately lacking in our school systems. You are the first, and most influential, teacher in your child's life—so use that opportunity to inspire them to a greater future.

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