Recorded in Hudson Valley, NY. Phil [he/him] is a community leader in the kink scene in his area — and he's thought deeply about what that actually means and what it costs. He gets into the responsibilities of holding space for a community built around vulnerability and power, how his own sexuality continues to evolve, and the very particular challenge of being a father while navigating a non-traditional sexual identity. Reflective and surprisingly moving.

Topics: kink community leadership, BDSM community, responsible kink, evolving sexuality, fatherhood and kink, power dynamics, sexual identity and parenting.

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