Going from bridal pro to bride myself was a whole new experience—one that came with its own set of lessons, challenges, and moments of pure magic. In this episode, I’m sharing what I learned from my own wedding, from the little details that made a huge difference to the struggles that shaped my day in ways I never expected.

I am talking about the power of a first look, why touring your hotel matters, the enemy of comparison, and the importance of surrounding yourself with the right people, and so much more. These insights that I share will help you approach the wedding experience with more clarity, gratitude, and confidence.

Tune in for the real, raw, and unfiltered lessons I’m taking with me—and passing along to you.

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After taking a year off to focus on my business, navigate the shifting bridal industry, and plan my own wedding, I’m back—and so is Pick a Seat, Not a Side! In this episode, I’m sharing where I’ve been, what I’ve learned, and why this break was so important.

I’m also spilling all the details about exciting changes to the podcast format! Get ready for episodes designed to bridge the gap between brides and bridal pros, creating stronger partnerships and stress-free wedding experiences for everyone involved.

Tune in to hear what’s next and how we’re leveling up together!

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Are you excited to become an MU8 Bride? Click the link below! 

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The real reason that this took two months to upload is because I was so unbelievably terrified of exposing myself and all of the mistakes that I have made in 2023. This episode is extremely personal, raw, and as real as it gets, but I truly believe that so many of you will learn from what I have experienced, especially if you are currently building your bridal business or your team! 

In this episode, I lay down all of the mistakes that I have made as a business owner and how it affected the business, my team, and my mental health, but also what I've learned from those mistakes and how I will be moving forward and rising above in 2024!

To connect with my financial coach Becca, be sure to follow this link: https://www.beccacash.com/

Let's connect on Social Media: 

Instagram @pickaseatpodcast

Are you excited to become an MU8 Bride? Follow us at @mu8bridalbeauty and inquire at www.mu8bridalbeauty.com! 

Joining us on this fire episode of the Pick a Seat, Not a Side Podcast is special guest Jennifer Beck. Jenn is a phenomenal bridal hairstylist and an even more amazing bridal hair educator who's updo masterclass nearly sold out in less than one week! In this episode, we chat about her journey into education and why it's important for artists and stylists to stay hungry to learn, Jenn's approach to education that sets her apart, and adopting a "community over competition" mindset for success in the industry. 

Connect with Jenn on Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/bridalbyjb/

or https://www.instagram.com/jenn_beck/

Products we talked about:

Purchase Diana from Pivot Point: https://www.pivot-point.com/product/diana-100-percent-human-hair-mannequin/

Bed Head Queen for a Day: https://www.bedhead.com/us/product/queen-for-a-day/?regiondetected=true

Connect and book with MU8 for your special day: 

www.mu8bridalbeauty.com

https://www.instagram.com/mu8bridalbeauty/

Follow the Pick a Seat Podcast on Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/pickaseatpodcast/

In this heartfelt episode of "Pick a Seat, Not a Side," host Patrice Williams takes a compassionate dive into transforming the way brides approach vendors and navigate the intricate world of wedding planning through respectful communication. With a genuine desire to foster love and respect, Patrice shares three powerful pieces of food for thought that will revolutionize the way brides communicate, turning potential stressors into seamless collaborations.

Connect with MU8 and become an MU8 bride:

Instagram: @mu8bridalbeauty

Website: www.mu8bridalbeauty.com

Never miss a podcast update and stay up to date on behind the scenes footage @pickaseatpodcast on Instagram!

My new fabulous Amazing Lace Boots

Instagram Post that Inspired this Episode

If you are concerned about looking in the mirror on trial or wedding day and HATING your hair and makeup (which is every bride's nightmare), this episode will outline 5 GUARANTEED steps that you can take to be sure that you love your hair and makeup and that your vision comes to life. The hair and makeup process is personal, vulnerable, and can be intimidating, with the biggest concern being "Will I even like it?!" In this episode, Patrice outlines 5 definite ways to melt away the fear of hating your hair and makeup and to be sure that you love it every single time!

Connect with MU8 and become an MU8 bride:

Instagram: @mu8bridalbeauty

Website: www.mu8bridalbeauty.com

Never miss a podcast update and stay up to date on behind the scenes footage @pickaseatpodcast on Instagram!

I know.... I know.... The title is harsh, but I promise the content is RICH! In this first guest feature episode, we are joined with CEO and Owner of Mar&Co Beauty, Marianna Vigliotti! In this episode, we unpack: 

• What a team actually is and what our team structures look like

This one is spicy, but you'll walk away being better prepared to start your team if you are an aspiring hair and makeup team leader, or you'll walk away with a better understanding and appreciation for the back end of the business if you are a freelancer. Either way, this episode is a heavy hitter and we are so excited to start some PRODUCTIVE dialogue around the topic! 

Connect with Marianna at Mar&Co: 

Instagram: @mar.cobeauty

Website: www.marandcobeauty.com

Connect with MU8 and become an MU8 bride:

Instagram: @mu8bridalbeauty

Website: www.mu8bridalbeauty.com

Never miss a podcast update and stay up to date on behind the scenes footage @pickaseatpodcast on Instagram!

In this episode, Patrice shares 5 game changing tips that you can implement NOW as a bridal beauty professional in order to grow your business and boost your income!

Mentioned in This Episode:

• Visit the Muscle Therapy Massage Center: https://www.mtmcmassage.com/book-online

Let's Stay Connected!

Pick a Seat, Not a Side on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pickaseatpodcast

MU8 Bridal Beauty on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mu8bridalbeauty

Become an MU8 Bride: www.mu8bridalbeauty.com 

Brides, are you feeling overwhelmed by the daunting task of selecting the perfect wedding vendors for YOU? In this episode of Pick a Seat, Not a Side, your host, Patrice Williams, walks you through the step by step process of making sure that you find your dream wedding vendors with ease. She shares her preferred methods that simplify the decision making process. Plus, Patrice walks you through a game changing, handy printable guide designed to keep you and your thoughts organized and clear as you're narrowing down your wedding vendor selections! Goodbye vendor selection stress! Hello wedding bliss! 

Are you a bride looking for a hair and makeup team for your special day? You can connect with MU8 Bridal Beauty via Instagram: @mu8bridalbeauty and you can become an MU8 bride by visiting our website www.mu8bridalbeauty.com 

We would love to connect with brides and bridal pros over at the podcast's Instagram page: @pickaseatpodcast

Download the printable Vendor Selection Guide Here: Click Here 

Things that have made my workspace super vibey:

Bath and Body Works Candle (Walk in the Woods): Get it Here

Bath and Body Works 3 Wick Candle Holder: Get it Here

Amazon Desk Mat: Get it Here

Welcome to episode one of the podcast where you'll meet our host, Patrice Williams, for the first time! In this episode both brides and bridal business owners will learn: 

• Why Patrice chose the name "Pick a Seat, Not a Side"

Are you a bride looking for a hair and makeup team for your special day? You can connect with MU8 Bridal Beauty via Instagram: @mu8bridalbeauty and you can become an MU8 bride by visiting our website www.mu8bridalbeauty.com! 

We would love to connect with brides and bridal pros over at the podcast's Instagram page: @pickaseatpodcast