This piece took months to write. Most of the content has been pulled from private journal entries along with prayers and petitions to God. As a 30 something single woman, I have many questions about my future status. As I continue to seek God in singleness, I’ve learned to rest in the tension of contentment and longing. Even though I am content, I also grieve an unfulfilled desire. It’s okay to feel both. I hope this gives singles in the church a voice. Unfortunately, the church has brushed us aside in many ways, sort of like a “come back when you’re married” mentality. But single brothers and sisters, God sees you. You are important. You have value. Whether a pastor, fellow church goer or potential mate chooses to not see it, doesn’t mean it isn’t there. Your value is in Jesus, not in marital status.